Stupid guy needs smart move

[Canadiandggal 49]

Exactly what I said.

I don't care if people disagree with me but at least do it with style or respect. I don't recall using obscene words when I disagree with anyone.

I will agree with both of you as to the fact that this person may have reacted to your post a bit to much but It is Her Opinion of what you said. It is not like she called you a name or told you off.. "that is the dumbest thing I have ever heard" Unfortunately I have heard this phrase too often.

I do not agree with your opinion jrmejia and we all can think what we want... (of course we all know that my opinion is the right one haha...j/k)

SO yes everyone relax and be nice to each other...

OP..can we get an update on your situation? we hope it works out for you whatever desicion you do make, maybe your story could help someone in the future.

[Tahoma 2,292]

I don't care if people disagree with me but at least do it with style or respect.

^^^ When you disagreed with your fiancée, you trash-talked her here on VJ. How is that stylish or respectful?

@ OP...Don't beat yourself up over making a mistake with the scammer. You've gotten some good advice and it's time to take care of your business. Good luck unraveling yourself from this mess.

[MGoBlue 0]

She came on a J1 is she allowed to adjust without going back to her country?

[jrmejia 31]

^^^ When you disagreed with your fiancée, you trash-talked her here on VJ. How is that stylish or respectful?

@ OP...Don't beat yourself up over making a mistake with the scammer. You've gotten some good advice and it's time to take care of your business. Good luck unraveling yourself from this mess.

Tahoma,

I agree, there were few miss-communication between us. Mostly my fault. We are not immune of not have few problems like some couple do. In a way, I am glad we had some problems because that is where the are of communication does it best.

I hope that removes the doubts some of you have about my relation with my fiancee.

BTW: GO JETS

[Tahoma 2,292]

I agree, there were few miss-communication between us. Mostly my fault. We are not immune of not have few problems like some couple do. In a way, I am glad we had some problems because that is where the are of communication does it best.

I hope that removes the doubts some of you have about my relation with my fiancee.

^^^ There you go again. You're sidestepping the issue. The miscommunication and the problems between you and your fiancée are not the issue. The issue is that you trash-talked her right here on VJ, and now you claim that when you disagree with someone, you do it with style and respect. What rubbish!

@ OP...I'm also looking forward to an update. I hope all is well with you.

[jrmejia 31]

^^^ There you go again. You're sidestepping the issue. The miscommunication and the problems between you and your fiancée are not the issue. The issue is that you trash-talked her right here on VJ, and now you claim that when you disagree with someone, you do it with style and respect. What rubbish!

@ OP...I'm also looking forward to an update. I hope all is well with you.

Will stop stating that I trash-talked my fiancee? Man, that is getting old. I bet you can not find anything else against me. YOu cannot find out that I dis-respect any members right? Good.

Edited January 24, 2011 by jrmejia

[Deputy Purple 1,294]

Will stop stating that I trash-talked my fiancee? Man, that is getting old. I bet you can not find anything else against me. YOu cannot find out that I dis-respect any members right? Good.

So it's perfectly acceptable to treat strangers on the internet with more respect than your do the woman you supposedly love and want to spend the rest of your life with?

Regarding your "you can not find anything else against me" drivel, I would say Tahoma pointed-out a pretty big one in that you are always side-stepping issues.

Do you want another one? Here we go, in obvious Scammer situations you are nothing more than a parrot who always repeats the same thing "If you love then you must give her another chance". Really? How is there even a relationship if only one person is in love with the other? A relationship must go both ways or it is toxic. I'm all for forgiveness but you really take the cake on that one.

VJ Newbie: "My Thai Wife drained my accounts buying her boyfriend a new car. She is living with him now and still expects me to AOS her."

jrmejia: "Since it's obvious how much you love her ignore the fact that she trampling your heart and forgive her. Eventually the new boyfriend will tire of her physically and one your money dries up he won't have any reason to hang around so she'll get desperate enough to crawl back to you. In the meantime maybe you need to get a better job so you have more money for her to spend."

Seriously, just review your posting history and you'll see that while my example is an exaggeration it is in line with your comments.

If asked why I think you'd post such things I can only think that you are transferring your insecurities about your own relationship onto others and maybe you figure that i someone else would clasp in desperation (as your would yourself) then it's okay for you to do so.

[jrmejia 31]

So it's perfectly acceptable to treat strangers on the internet with more respect than your do the woman you supposedly love and want to spend the rest of your life with?

Regarding your "you can not find anything else against me" drivel, I would say Tahoma pointed-out a pretty big one in that you are always side-stepping issues.

Do you want another one? Here we go, in obvious Scammer situations you are nothing more than a parrot who always repeats the same thing "If you love then you must give her another chance". Really? How is there even a relationship if only one person is in love with the other? A relationship must go both ways or it is toxic. I'm all for forgiveness but you really take the cake on that one.

VJ Newbie: "My Thai Wife drained my accounts buying her boyfriend a new car. She is living with him now and still expects me to AOS her."

jrmejia: "Since it's obvious how much you love her ignore the fact that she trampling your heart and forgive her. Eventually the new boyfriend will tire of her physically and one your money dries up he won't have any reason to hang around so she'll get desperate enough to crawl back to you. In the meantime maybe you need to get a better job so you have more money for her to spend."

Seriously, just review your posting history and you'll see that while my example is an exaggeration it is in line with your comments.

If asked why I think you'd post such things I can only think that you are transferring your insecurities about your own relationship onto others and maybe you figure that i someone else would clasp in desperation (as your would yourself) then it's okay for you to do so.

Can you please find those post where I trash-talked my fiancee? I think this is getting old guys. Please find me one.

[Deputy Purple 1,294]

Can you please find those post where I trash-talked my fiancee? I think this is getting old guys. Please find me one.

Crying to the Mods to remove your threads doesn't remove them from the memories of those who read them and watched as you tried to back-peddle out of your negative statements about her.

Also, challenging us to produce them when you know they were removed at your request really is quite dishonest so I guess that's yet another thing to add to your list.

FWIW, you have again attempted to side-step the other issues mentioned!

Edited January 24, 2011 by Bob 4 Anna

[jrmejia 31]

Crying to the Mods to remove your threads doesn't remove them from the memories of those who read them and watched as you tried to back-peddle out of your negative statements about her.

Also, challenging us to produce them when you know they were removed at your request really is quite dishonest so I guess that's yet another thing to add to your list.

FWIW, you have again attempted to side-step the other issues mentioned!

Edited January 24, 2011 by jrmejia

[Deputy Purple 1,294]

Ironically this is the most honest response I've seen from you in months!

[jrmejia 31]

Ironically this is the most honest response I've seen from you in months!

Now back to work! Done!!!! drinking my tea sent by no other than my fiancee from Dubai.

Have a good day!

[Deputy Purple 1,294]

sent by no other than my fiancee from Dubai.

I doubt she knows how you talk about her on VJ, does she?

[jrmejia 31]

I doubt she knows how you talk about her on VJ, does she?

I confessed to her and she told me she hopes it does not repeat again. I learned my lesson.

Take care..I really need to get back to work.

[Deputy Purple 1,294]

I confessed to her and she told me she hopes it does not repeat again. I learned my lesson.

Ah, an admission that you trash-talked her on VJ (even though you later asked the Mods to remove your threads)!

I see no need for you to deny it and challenge VJers who were there to prove that you ever did it. All you really need to do is admit that you made a mistake and have learned a lesson from your actions, that is an honest response and might actually get you a little respect here.

Everyone makes mistakes, it's easy as it is part of our imperfect nature. Owning our own mistakes is often times difficult and when one can do that it helps build our character and makes us a better person.