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Channah&Aaron   51

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Can you ask her to wait a bit longer ? Maybe after you find your new job and she sees you are making more money maybe things will change for both?

No body should make fun of you, you felt in love..nothing wrong with that.

; R U FREAKING KIDDING ME/US!!! THAT IS LIKE THE MOST STUPID THING I HAVE EVER HEARD IN MY LIFE... MONEY SHOULDNT BE THE REASON WHY PEOPLE GET MARRIED, LOVE SHOULD BE THE REASON.

AND IF SHE GETS MORE HAPPY IF HE'LL MAKE MORE MONEY, THEN I KNOW ENOUGH. THIS IS RIDICULOUS. IT MAKES ME THINK THAT YOU WOULD GET MARRIED BECAUSE OF MONEY..

WHAT'S UP WITH THE VIOLENCE BETWEEN THAI WOMEN AND THEIR HUSBAND. I DON'T SAY YALL ARE THE SAME, BUT I NOTICED A LOT OF POSTS ON HERE ARE RELATED TO THAT TYPICAL SUBJECT.

ANYWHOOO, ENOUGH ABOUT THAT COMMENT YOU MADE...

MY ADVICE FOR THE OP;

DON'T GET SCARED OF HER THREATS... PEOPLE SOMETIMES THREAT TO DO SOMETHING TO SOMEONE IN ORDER TO GET WHAT THEY WANT. THOUGH, ALWAYS TAKE IT SERIOUSLY, AND CONTACT YOUR LOCAL POLICE STATION SO THEY KNOW WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH.

CHANGE LOCKS, CHANGE EVERYTHING WHAT YOU AND HER FIRST SHARED, SHE DOESN'T DESERVE TO STAY IN THE US. AND IF SHE WANTS TO STAY, THAT WOULD BE HER FAMILY'S RESPONSIBILITY, AND NOT YOURS.

YOU DESERVE BETTER THAN THIS CRAZY COOKCOOK... :whistle:

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heart-119.gif August 28th, 2011: Wedding heart-119.giflove-182.gif

AOS
August 31th, 2011: applied for SS#
September 6th: received SS#
September 26th, 2011: AOS sent
September 30th, 2011: NOA1
October 6th, 2011: NOA1 hard copy
October 26th,2011: Biometrics
October 28th, 2011: case transferred to California for faster processing
December 5th, 2011: received EAD/AP card
February 22nd, 2012: Green card in production
February 27th, 2012: GREEN CARD in hand, yaaay!!!




November 10th, 2013: ROC

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Darnell
Darnell

Here's the cool bit - there's been no interview scheduled for the AOS case yet, and/or she's not received the greencard yet. SO.............. write yer local USCIS office, where an interview MIGH

JimVaPhuong
JimVaPhuong

You've gotten the right advice. Pull the affidavit of support. File for the divorce and restraining order. Move out of the house. Report to USCIS and ICE. etc. etc. On TOP of that - get a gun. Your l

Deputy Purple
Deputy Purple

So it's perfectly acceptable to treat strangers on the internet with more respect than your do the woman you supposedly love and want to spend the rest of your life with? Regarding your "you can not

Channah&Aaron Proficient

Channah&Aaron   51

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Filed: AOS (pnd) Country: Netherlands
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; BTW, MY CAPS LOCK ISN'T WORKING PROPERLY :innocent: , SO DON'T THINK I MEAN TO SHOUT OUT LOUD... :blush:

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heart-119.gif August 28th, 2011: Wedding heart-119.giflove-182.gif

AOS
August 31th, 2011: applied for SS#
September 6th: received SS#
September 26th, 2011: AOS sent
September 30th, 2011: NOA1
October 6th, 2011: NOA1 hard copy
October 26th,2011: Biometrics
October 28th, 2011: case transferred to California for faster processing
December 5th, 2011: received EAD/AP card
February 22nd, 2012: Green card in production
February 27th, 2012: GREEN CARD in hand, yaaay!!!




November 10th, 2013: ROC

jrmejia Proficient

jrmejia   31

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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Philippines
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; R U FREAKING KIDDING ME/US!!! THAT IS LIKE THE MOST STUPID THING I HAVE EVER HEARD IN MY LIFE... MONEY SHOULDNT BE THE REASON WHY PEOPLE GET MARRIED, LOVE SHOULD BE THE REASON.

AND IF SHE GETS MORE HAPPY IF HE'LL MAKE MORE MONEY, THEN I KNOW ENOUGH. THIS IS RIDICULOUS. IT MAKES ME THINK THAT YOU WOULD GET MARRIED BECAUSE OF MONEY..

WHAT'S UP WITH THE VIOLENCE BETWEEN THAI WOMEN AND THEIR HUSBAND. I DON'T SAY YALL ARE THE SAME, BUT I NOTICED A LOT OF POSTS ON HERE ARE RELATED TO THAT TYPICAL SUBJECT.

ANYWHOOO, ENOUGH ABOUT THAT COMMENT YOU MADE...

MY ADVICE FOR THE OP;

DON'T GET SCARED OF HER THREATS... PEOPLE SOMETIMES THREAT TO DO SOMETHING TO SOMEONE IN ORDER TO GET WHAT THEY WANT. THOUGH, ALWAYS TAKE IT SERIOUSLY, AND CONTACT YOUR LOCAL POLICE STATION SO THEY KNOW WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH.

CHANGE LOCKS, CHANGE EVERYTHING WHAT YOU AND HER FIRST SHARED, SHE DOESN'T DESERVE TO STAY IN THE US. AND IF SHE WANTS TO STAY, THAT WOULD BE HER FAMILY'S RESPONSIBILITY, AND NOT YOURS.

YOU DESERVE BETTER THAN THIS CRAZY COOKCOOK... :whistle:

[Offtopic]

I accept your comments but if I read careful my post I did not use obscene words nor I use capital letters. I just gave my opinion. I read some where that using cap letters or obscene words is considered disrespect-full?

:reading:

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"The perfection/respect/credibility of a man decreases by the number of marriages he has had and by the number of kids he has outside his current marriage. ", Quote by Bite YourDust
  • Met on yahoo chat through a friend.
  • April 2010 - Decided to meet in person
  • 06.01.2010 - She flew from Dubai to Philippines for vacationing
  • 06.21.2010 - We met in Philippines
  • 06.24.2010 - Engaged
  • 06.28.2010 - Came back to USA
  • 07.05.2010 - She flew back to Dubai (work)
  • 08.02.2010 - Mailed I129F to VSC
  • 08.03.2010 - Delivered to VSC. Signed by D RENAUD.
  • 08.09.2010 - Check cashed
  • 08.14.2010 - NOA1 (Dated 08/06/2010)!!!!!!!!
  • 08.19.2010 - Touched!
  • 08.27.2010 - Received snail mail that typographical error was fixed.
  • 10.03.2010 - Touched!
  • 11.21.2010 - Visited her for a week in Dubai!
  • 02.14.2011 - NOA2 Approved on St. Valentine day!!!!!!!
  • 02.17.2011 - Packet left from NVC to ABU DHABI (Dubai)
  • 02.19.2011 - NOA2 hard copy received
  • 02.22.2011 - Packet reached ABU DHABI's consulate
  • 03.02.2011 - packet 3 & 4 received by email
  • 03.02.2011 - Confirmation of Interview on 04.14.2011 -
  • 03.07.2011 - Fiancee passed medical exam.
  • 04.14.2011 - K1-Visa Approved!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • 04.21.2011 - Picked up Visa !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Channah&Aaron Proficient

Channah&Aaron   51

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Filed: AOS (pnd) Country: Netherlands
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; I AM SORRY, MY CAPS LOCK, IS LIKE I SAID NOT WORKING PROPERLY. :innocent: THE LAST THING I WANT IS BEING DISRESPECTFUL... :rolleyes:

Edited by Channah&Aaron

holland-flag-44.gifunited-states-flag-88.gif

heart-119.gif August 28th, 2011: Wedding heart-119.giflove-182.gif

AOS
August 31th, 2011: applied for SS#
September 6th: received SS#
September 26th, 2011: AOS sent
September 30th, 2011: NOA1
October 6th, 2011: NOA1 hard copy
October 26th,2011: Biometrics
October 28th, 2011: case transferred to California for faster processing
December 5th, 2011: received EAD/AP card
February 22nd, 2012: Green card in production
February 27th, 2012: GREEN CARD in hand, yaaay!!!




November 10th, 2013: ROC

LoveMyMiky Explorer

LoveMyMiky   35

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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: South Korea
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The worse stuff: I have recieved physical threats from her family thats here in town. Now I know that their other business is a "massage parlor" of the worse kind. Her gangster, (tattoos clothes guns and drug stuff) "cousin", threatened to take care of me if I made her unhappy. Holy #######.

Yikes! Get out before it gets deeper! Knowing she was violating the terms of her Visa when you met her, chances are it runs in the family and in their Happy Endings Massage Business --- which is obviously also illegal! Got to say, if this was happening me, I probably wouldn't be able to stop myself from putting her entire family in my sight to get'em shut down and shipped out!

7/19/2010 NOA1

12/13/2010 NOA2 Document Received

12/27/2010 Embassy e-mail Package 3.5 received

01/31/2011 Embassy Interview Date

01/31/2011 K1 Visa Approved 6 months, 1 week, & 4 days from NAO1

02/26/2011 In the US

05/26/2011 Married!

Tahoma Veteran

Tahoma   2,292

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Philippines
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She has been so mean to me.

She calls me stupid and tells me that she is leaving as soon as she gets a green card.

She talks bad about my family

She is so mean that it is kind of depressing.

She slaps me sometimes

I hate my life and really want this to end.

I dont want to support her

I think I am being used.

I wish I could take back the affidavid of support

Is there a chance that I could tell Immigration

...he is so in love with this girl.

:lol: WAKE UP!!! :bonk:

leahandlucas Explorer

leahandlucas   15

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PULL THE I-864 AFFIDAVIT OF SUPPORT N-0-W!!! without that,...she is SCREWED...also CALL/WRITE/FAX a letter stating that you DO NOT wish to continue with the application!!!You'll save yourself ALOT of heartbreak...and also on the financial side...especially for the next 10 years!!!...get restraining orders as well...

BE CAREFUL for any VAWA claims! (Violence Against Women Act)

Channah&Aaron Proficient

Channah&Aaron   51

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:lol: WAKE UP!!! :bonk:

LOL... Wake up indeed!! :rofl:

Like seriously.. is this what love is about? Ummmm, make an educated guess..!

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heart-119.gif August 28th, 2011: Wedding heart-119.giflove-182.gif

AOS
August 31th, 2011: applied for SS#
September 6th: received SS#
September 26th, 2011: AOS sent
September 30th, 2011: NOA1
October 6th, 2011: NOA1 hard copy
October 26th,2011: Biometrics
October 28th, 2011: case transferred to California for faster processing
December 5th, 2011: received EAD/AP card
February 22nd, 2012: Green card in production
February 27th, 2012: GREEN CARD in hand, yaaay!!!




November 10th, 2013: ROC

KiwiBird Community Regular

KiwiBird   132

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Filed: Lift. Cond. (apr) Country: Australia
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Police will not laugh at claims of Domestic Violence. Go to the police!

Spoiler

 

07/20/2011-------I-485 and I-765 Sent
07/26/2011-------NOA1 received via email
08/05/2011-------RFE Notification via email and text
08/11/2011-------RFE Hardcopy in mail
08/12/2011-------RFE Sent back
08/15/2011-------RFE Received at USCIS
08/24/2011-------Biometrics Appointment
09/06/2011-------Notice of Interview! (via text)
09/15/2011-------EAD Approved Notification via text
10/06/2011-------Adjustment of Status Interview - APPROVED!!!

11/08/2011-------Green Card Received!!

07/09/2013-------Lifting Conditions Filed

07/12/2013-------NOA received

10/01/2013-------Approval Date

10/15/2013-------Ten Year Green Card Received! Finally!

 

 

James and Cynthia Community Regular

James and Cynthia   70

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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Philippines
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; I AM SORRY, MY CAPS LOCK, IS LIKE I SAID NOT WORKING PROPERLY. :innocent: THE LAST THING I WANT IS BEING DISRESPECTFUL... :rolleyes:

I'm sure most would not agree with jrmejia's opinion. I certainly don't agree, but it is still an opinion. You are being disprespectful by saying..., well I won't repeat it. Everyone knows what you said. Why do people have to be so mean about other people's opinions? Just say that you don't agree without critisizing. You and others I've read that act like that, certainly lose all respect from me. Let's be nice around here.

OP. I would look at the +numbers at the bottom of the posts. The one with the most is from Darnell. She always has great advise. I'm sorry for your situation. I hope you can make things better for yourself. Good luck.

-James

James and Cynthia

08-22-2008 - Met my wonderful wife in the Philippines.
03-21-2010 - I proposed to her in the Philippines.
09-07-2010 - I-129F filed for K-1 Visa.
09-12-2010 - NOA1 confirmation email received.
11-02-2010 - I visitied the Philippines again.

02-07-2011 - NOA2 email recieved. Approved.
03-22-2011 - Case at USEM.

04-15-2011 - Interview Date. She passed.
05-01-2011 - POE

06-25-2011 - We were married.

-Life has been great ever since.

James and Cynthia Community Regular

James and Cynthia   70

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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Philippines
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Interesting how these visa abusers often start acting badly preemptively.

I am surprised about this too. Not very smart. I guess it's a good thing that they can't hide their true intentions long enough for their plan to work.

-James

James and Cynthia

08-22-2008 - Met my wonderful wife in the Philippines.
03-21-2010 - I proposed to her in the Philippines.
09-07-2010 - I-129F filed for K-1 Visa.
09-12-2010 - NOA1 confirmation email received.
11-02-2010 - I visitied the Philippines again.

02-07-2011 - NOA2 email recieved. Approved.
03-22-2011 - Case at USEM.

04-15-2011 - Interview Date. She passed.
05-01-2011 - POE

06-25-2011 - We were married.

-Life has been great ever since.

jrmejia Proficient

jrmejia   31

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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Philippines
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; I AM SORRY, MY CAPS LOCK, IS LIKE I SAID NOT WORKING PROPERLY. :innocent: THE LAST THING I WANT IS BEING DISRESPECTFUL... :rolleyes:

Cool!

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"The perfection/respect/credibility of a man decreases by the number of marriages he has had and by the number of kids he has outside his current marriage. ", Quote by Bite YourDust
  • Met on yahoo chat through a friend.
  • April 2010 - Decided to meet in person
  • 06.01.2010 - She flew from Dubai to Philippines for vacationing
  • 06.21.2010 - We met in Philippines
  • 06.24.2010 - Engaged
  • 06.28.2010 - Came back to USA
  • 07.05.2010 - She flew back to Dubai (work)
  • 08.02.2010 - Mailed I129F to VSC
  • 08.03.2010 - Delivered to VSC. Signed by D RENAUD.
  • 08.09.2010 - Check cashed
  • 08.14.2010 - NOA1 (Dated 08/06/2010)!!!!!!!!
  • 08.19.2010 - Touched!
  • 08.27.2010 - Received snail mail that typographical error was fixed.
  • 10.03.2010 - Touched!
  • 11.21.2010 - Visited her for a week in Dubai!
  • 02.14.2011 - NOA2 Approved on St. Valentine day!!!!!!!
  • 02.17.2011 - Packet left from NVC to ABU DHABI (Dubai)
  • 02.19.2011 - NOA2 hard copy received
  • 02.22.2011 - Packet reached ABU DHABI's consulate
  • 03.02.2011 - packet 3 & 4 received by email
  • 03.02.2011 - Confirmation of Interview on 04.14.2011 -
  • 03.07.2011 - Fiancee passed medical exam.
  • 04.14.2011 - K1-Visa Approved!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • 04.21.2011 - Picked up Visa !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
jrmejia Proficient

jrmejia   31

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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Philippines
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Posted

I'm sure most would not agree with jrmejia's opinion. I certainly don't agree, but it is still an opinion. You are being disprespectful by saying..., well I won't repeat it. Everyone knows what you said. Why do people have to be so mean about other people's opinions? Just say that you don't agree without critisizing. You and others I've read that act like that, certainly lose all respect from me. Let's be nice around here.

-James

Exactly what I said.

I don't care if people disagree with me but at least do it with style or respect. I don't recall using obscene words when I disagree with anyone.

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"The perfection/respect/credibility of a man decreases by the number of marriages he has had and by the number of kids he has outside his current marriage. ", Quote by Bite YourDust
  • Met on yahoo chat through a friend.
  • April 2010 - Decided to meet in person
  • 06.01.2010 - She flew from Dubai to Philippines for vacationing
  • 06.21.2010 - We met in Philippines
  • 06.24.2010 - Engaged
  • 06.28.2010 - Came back to USA
  • 07.05.2010 - She flew back to Dubai (work)
  • 08.02.2010 - Mailed I129F to VSC
  • 08.03.2010 - Delivered to VSC. Signed by D RENAUD.
  • 08.09.2010 - Check cashed
  • 08.14.2010 - NOA1 (Dated 08/06/2010)!!!!!!!!
  • 08.19.2010 - Touched!
  • 08.27.2010 - Received snail mail that typographical error was fixed.
  • 10.03.2010 - Touched!
  • 11.21.2010 - Visited her for a week in Dubai!
  • 02.14.2011 - NOA2 Approved on St. Valentine day!!!!!!!
  • 02.17.2011 - Packet left from NVC to ABU DHABI (Dubai)
  • 02.19.2011 - NOA2 hard copy received
  • 02.22.2011 - Packet reached ABU DHABI's consulate
  • 03.02.2011 - packet 3 & 4 received by email
  • 03.02.2011 - Confirmation of Interview on 04.14.2011 -
  • 03.07.2011 - Fiancee passed medical exam.
  • 04.14.2011 - K1-Visa Approved!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • 04.21.2011 - Picked up Visa !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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