k1 mailing issues

[jessicaDiana 0]

my bf is an us citizen living in virginia, and im canadian living i canada.we are in a sticky situation, we want to get married and file for the k1 visa. im young and still live with my parents, i have certain reasons why i dont want my parents knowing im getting married up there but instead ill be telling them my bf/parents are sponsoring me instead. is there anyway i can get a PO box instead and get my packages i have to fill out and file for sent to that instead of my home so my parents dont find out about this k1 visa? is this possible? is there a place on my ppaers i can fill out that says i can put my po box down? i dont wnat anything sent to my house and if theres an option not to please let me know!!! will be very appreciated!

[Penny Lane 8,159]

On the I-129F, there are two places where it requires the beneficiary's address in their home country. There is no space for you to put a P.O box number, as far as I can see.

I know this is your life and your business, but I have to strongly advise against hiding something like this from your parents. That isn't a good way to start off a long, frustrating, and already stressful process.

[Inky 1,110]

Have you checked the rules for marrying in the state you intend to marry in? If your under a certain age you will have to have your parents consent, if you don't then no marry.

I believe your mail has to go to a physical mailing address. - How are you going to pay all the fees and get to the medical and interview etc? without them knowing you are applying for a visa.

Doesn't sound like a good idea to hide all that really.