How long apart?

[brian89 2]

Hey everyone,

I just said goodbye to the one I love after a amazing 3 weeks together. The plan is that I wont see her for nearly 6 months. We both are finishing school and she has a lot of wedding planning to do. We're currently in the K1 proces (September 2010 filers) aiming that our wedding will be on Augst 6. 2011 and me leaving to be with her in July.

Now Im really down with that time that we have to be apart. This is the longest we havent seen eachother, herefor almost 4 months. Now my question is to see how long other people havent seen there beloved ones, hopefully it will make me feel better.

Thank you

[Messybrownhair 251]

We were only together for about a total of 2 months for the entire 2010 :/ It sucks but just focus on the light at the end of the tunnel! ^.^

[M&S forever 4]

Hey everyone,

I just said goodbye to the one I love after a amazing 3 weeks together. The plan is that I wont see her for nearly 6 months. We both are finishing school and she has a lot of wedding planning to do. We're currently in the K1 proces (September 2010 filers) aiming that our wedding will be on Augst 6. 2011 and me leaving to be with her in July.

Now Im really down with that time that we have to be apart. This is the longest we havent seen eachother, herefor almost 4 months. Now my question is to see how long other people havent seen there beloved ones, hopefully it will make me feel better.

Thank you

Hi,

We are July filler and we did not see each other with my beloved almost 7 months, January21 will be complete 7 months and the two months(I hope no longer) till interview and total will be 8-9 months.I miss my beloved so much but we still keep patient because soon this be apart will be finish and we will be together forever.

Keep faith and if it your soul mate then this time no matter be patient heee we all do this here with our VJ family

[brian89 2]

This is our time together:

December 18th 2009 - January 6th 2010

March 15th 2010 - March 29th 2010

July 1st 2010 - August 31th 2010

December 20th 2010 - January 13th 2011

Now I have to wait like 6 months...179 days to be exact lol. All depends on how long the visajourney takes.

[TwoCats 55]

At our longest, we've been apart five months.

Right now, we don't know when the next time we'll see each other is.

I had plans on visiting in April, but that might not be possible.

We'll see.

[bucknutt76 0]

Due to my current deployment Kim and I will have been apart for a total of almost 9 months and thats only if I cna get her Visa sorted out before I leave this place. Trust me I feel your pain.

[melissa_endrie 0]

I've never seen my husband for almost 10 Months already, Long distance is killing us. We only shared two amazing weeks together here in philippines, and since the day he went away, half of my life is missing. I just tried my self to keep busy and as much as possible fighting the depression.

But believe me, as long as the process is done and we will be in our loved ones arms again, this long wait worth it!

stay strong! =)

[patient2010 93]

It was 8 months for us....i saw him in march 2010 and didnt see him again until november

[Blob18 111]

5 months so far for me. Was last there in August 2010. Won't be seeing her until I go there for her interview so more than likely it will be 8-9 months since I last saw her.

[baron555 934]

We were together for only 10 days and then didn't see each other physically until 10 months.

So if we could do that you may be able to do the same.

We did talk on the phone or see each other on Skype almost every day.

It's really not that hard.

[Blob18 111]

We were together for only 10 days and then didn't see each other physically until 10 months.

So if we could do that you may be able to do the same.

We did talk on the phone or see each other on Skype almost every day.

It's really not that hard.

That is your opinion. It's harder for some, easier for others.

[Jade & Earl 2]

We first met in person after 5 months, spent one week together then it was ANOTHER 5 months before we saw each other again. We then spent almost 3 months together and I arrived back in the UK 3 days ago. Although I am seeing him again Valentines week, this has been the most difficult goodbye because we got to see what it was like to be a real couple every day, to wake up together, meet each others friends and family and spend just about every waking moment together. To go from that to being apart again is breaking our hearts. Sometimes it hurts so much you wonder how you are ever going to get through it.

Just keep the communication going, no one who hasn't gone through this realises how hard it really is, but it takes a very special couple to do it. You know if you an get through this the chances of you having a very happy marriage are high. Take it one day at a time and set aside quality time together. Watch movies in sync over the webcam, text and talk on the phone. You will get through this.

Six months is not a lot in the great scheme of things, but it feels like a life time I know. Just remember it will all be worth it in the end. Keep your chin up. Jade

[Penny Lane 8,159]

We were together for only 10 days and then didn't see each other physically until 10 months.

So if we could do that you may be able to do the same.

We did talk on the phone or see each other on Skype almost every day.

It's really not that hard.

Perhaps it wasn't hard for you. Not everybody deals with situations the way you do.

[LoveinPeru 2]

I'm a September filer also. I left Peru mid July and didn't see him for 5 months (went there for the holidays). Now we don't know how long it will be as I don't have any planned trips down there and we are just waiting for the visa. We have an August 14th wedding planned (near yours!), but hopefully he gets here as soon as March or April?

[brian89 2]

Thanks everyone for your comments. Knowing that I'm a September 2010 filer, is it realistic for us to plan a wedding for August 6th 2011??