sending back

[SteveNanik 0]

i never like to be negative but wow i have to agree with Euro on this one. The way you have talked about your former fiancee would be like something that you go to the store and buy. Its really sad for both of you! I hope that you find someone that treats you the way you need to be treated. But when you talk like this about women, "Do I pay for it, do I write or call someone?" "is it tough to send her back or am I stuck with her?" you may have a tough time. I could be wrong about you. I have read your previous posts and i will have to say its been interesting to say the least!

[flipside 0]

Yeah.. this is a real shocker considering they couldn't even talk to each other...

[dmartmar 1]

This has got to be the best example yet of a mail order bride.

[arrowhead 0]

You made the correct choice! I would definitely purchase an airplane ticket home for her. Use this as a learning experience. I know that if a girl is not affectionate with you, she does not love you. A girl who loves you will go out of her way to give you attention and affection. Even girls who are very shy open up at some point and do not make such excuses. We've all been in similar situations before, where we were the ones pulling all of the weight in a relationship, hoping that the other person would eventually come around. But my past experience tells me otherwise. Don't ever give up. Try again and you will find the right person for you. Just make sure that the next girl is putting forth as much effort into the relationship as you are before bringing her here. Good luck!!

[tina21 0]

NATE IAM SORRY BUT I HAVE TO SAY THAT IS THE DUMMEST DECISION THAT YOU MADE .

YOU MADE YOUR FIANCEE LEAVE EVERYTHING AND NOW YOU ARE SENDING HER BACK NOT EVEN GIVING HER TIME .

ITS NOT EVEN THREE MONTHS SENCE SHE WAS HERE WHAT THE HELL DID YOU THINK WHEN YOU STARTED THIS PROCESS IN THE FIRST PLACE ?????

YES IT IS VERY HARD BUT THIS IS A HUMAN WE ARE TALKING ABOUT NOT A DOG OR A CAT THAT YOU JUST ADOPTED .

IAM SORRY FOR BEING SO MEAN BUT YOU ASKED FOR IT .

AND HELL YES YOU HAVE TO PAY FOR EVERYTHING BECAUSE YOU BROUGHT HER IN FIRST PLACE IN THIS SITUATION .

[Billy 0]

You made the correct choice! I would definitely purchase an airplane ticket home for her. Use this as a learning experience. I know that if a girl is not affectionate with you, she does not love you. A girl who loves you will go out of her way to give you attention and affection. Even girls who are very shy open up at some point and do not make such excuses. We've all been in similar situations before, where we were the ones pulling all of the weight in a relationship, hoping that the other person would eventually come around. But my past experience tells me otherwise. Don't ever give up. Try again and you will find the right person for you. Just make sure that the next girl is putting forth as much effort into the relationship as you are before bringing her here. Good luck!!

Hello arrowhead

I'm just curious about your post here. Have you ever filed a pettion for k1 before? Just wonder.

Billy

[miranda 0]

ok the tough decision has been made, now the question, how do I send someone back to their home country? Do I pay for it, do I write or call someone? I wish I did not have to go this direction. I now am soooo depressed.

Nate

it is sad BUT forgive me for saying that your post sounded a little tactless ................lemme tell you what it sounded like,

I got a faulty GPS so i called the store i got it from & sent it back, pssssst by the way i used USPS!!

but that said, I hope your hurt will soon pass!!

had to EDIT..jeez my english is just so #######!!!

I don't think his post was tactless at all. His original post was wrought with pain and hurt. He's just asking a simple question here. He truly cares for this woman, unfortunately she does not return his emotion.

NATE IAM SORRY BUT I HAVE TO SAY THAT IS THE DUMMEST DECISION THAT YOU MADE .

YOU MADE YOUR FIANCEE LEAVE EVERYTHING AND NOW YOU ARE SENDING HER BACK NOT EVEN GIVING HER TIME .

ITS NOT EVEN THREE MONTHS SENCE SHE WAS HERE WHAT THE HELL DID YOU THINK WHEN YOU STARTED THIS PROCESS IN THE FIRST PLACE ?????

YES IT IS VERY HARD BUT THIS IS A HUMAN WE ARE TALKING ABOUT NOT A DOG OR A CAT THAT YOU JUST ADOPTED .

IAM SORRY FOR BEING SO MEAN BUT YOU ASKED FOR IT .

AND HELL YES YOU HAVE TO PAY FOR EVERYTHING BECAUSE YOU BROUGHT HER IN FIRST PLACE IN THIS SITUATION .

Tina,

I'm sorry but your post was way too negative. He didn't bring her here, this was a joint decision for them both. I think he's made a wise decision because if she loved him he would know it. He's doubting because she doesn't even want to sit next to him inside their own home. If you love someone they wouldn't have to ask you to sit next to them on the couch. If you've read his previous posts you'd see that he truly cares for her, but in the end a marriage takes two individuals and he was going down the road alone.

Nate, I'm sorry you have such negative people responding to you. It's really none of our business what you choose to do. You came here for a few answers and a little support and people have really let you down. Do what you think is best and don't let anyone make you feel bad for it.

[I'm Gone 60]

ok the tough decision has been made, now the question, how do I send someone back to their home country?

Fed Ex would probably get her there the fastest and be sure to put air holes in the box.

[aussiewench 9]

ok the tough decision has been made, now the question, how do I send someone back to their home country?

Fed Ex would probably get her there the fastest and be sure to put air holes in the box.

[arrowhead 0]

Hi Billy,

I just applied for a K-1 visa yesterday for the first time ever.

[Billy 0]

Hi Billy,

I just applied for a K-1 visa yesterday for the first time ever.

hello Arrowhead....

Best wishes to you...hope your petition will approve soon.

Cheer

Billy

[flipside 0]

The girls posts in this thread are hysterical.. If you followed up on the history of this, you would see that they couldn't even talk to each other literally!

I'm not sure where "love" and "hurt" comes in.

As dmartmar said above, this is a perfect example of a "mail order bride".

[daisy16 0]

ok the tough decision has been made, now the question, how do I send someone back to their home country?

Fed Ex would probably get her there the fastest and be sure to put air holes in the box.

[Jasman0717 9]

ok the tough decision has been made, now the question, how do I send someone back to their home country?

Fed Ex would probably get her there the fastest and be sure to put air holes in the box.

You crack me up

[dmartmar 1]

ok the tough decision has been made, now the question, how do I send someone back to their home country? Do I pay for it, do I write or call someone?

Just as it was your responsibility to bring her over, it is also your responsibility to send her back, although you cannot make her leave. All you can do is offer her a one-way return ticket and say you wish her the best. What she does after you give her the plane ticket is up to her. If I was you, I'd drive her to the airport and make sure she either went through the gate or got on the plane.

Since you haven't gotten married yet, I would inform the Agency of your situation leading up to your current decision of sending her back to her home country. That way, you free yourself of any responsabilities you may have related to her. Make sure you include giving her a ticket, driving her to the airport and seeing to it that she actually boarded the plane.

And looking at the pics, she doesn't seem happy in any one of them.

Was this a pre-arranged marriage? Sure seems like it!

Edited February 23, 2006 by dmartmar