pregnant, but not from husband..not a citizen

[Olga1111 1]

Please don't get an abortion! Does babies are more important than any GC or Naturalization. You don't have to be in this country to have a good life with your children. You and your baby's father can move to your home country if that's what it comes down to. YOUR BABIES COME FIRST!

no, no.. i'm not gonna do it..babies come first, agree:) that's why i'm looking for ways how to solve this problem..

i don't mind to go to my country for good, but babies' father really wants and loves them already..

and maybe i should leave USA now, just to escape, and then , later... solve all these immigration problems..

[Olga1111 1]

Great!

You were already in the US when you met your husband and you had a solid relationship for a while (or else he would not marry you). Your timeline looks reasonable, so as long as you can gather evidence for the USCIS, your removal of condition should work. MOST waiver filers with divorce get approved.

What you need urgently, is a divorce. You need it for ROC to be approved and you need it to marry babies' daddy.

In Florida, you can marry the next day.

http://www.totaldivorce.com/process/requirements/remarriage-after-divorce-waiting-period.aspx

New marriage may be considered a red flag because if you knew your future husband before marriage to your first husband, it may look like you used your first husband as a vehicle to gain permanent resident status. If you met your babies' daddy after first marriage took place - then this can not be true. Anyhow, you could get married again before your ROC is approved. It is just that ROC will be considered only on the merits of the first marriage. And, divorce can take a long time, so better start soon.

Good luck!

thanks!!

so.. it might take long time. should i hide that i'm pregnant? because they can ask for DNA test,,, it will take more time..

Great!

You were already in the US when you met your husband and you had a solid relationship for a while (or else he would not marry you). Your timeline looks reasonable, so as long as you can gather evidence for the USCIS, your removal of condition should work. MOST waiver filers with divorce get approved.

What you need urgently, is a divorce. You need it for ROC to be approved and you need it to marry babies' daddy.

In Florida, you can marry the next day.

http://www.totaldivorce.com/process/requirements/remarriage-after-divorce-waiting-period.aspx

New marriage may be considered a red flag because if you knew your future husband before marriage to your first husband, it may look like you used your first husband as a vehicle to gain permanent resident status. If you met your babies' daddy after first marriage took place - then this can not be true. Anyhow, you could get married again before your ROC is approved. It is just that ROC will be considered only on the merits of the first marriage. And, divorce can take a long time, so better start soon.

Good luck!

thanks!!

so.. it might take long time. should i hide that i'm pregnant? because they can ask for DNA test,,, it will take more time..

[rika60607 215]

It is never advisable to "hide" things from courts or immigration.

And your pregnancy probably will be unhideable by the time of court hearing.

Look up the rules for divorce in Florida (grounds and if there is a requirement for separation). Ask your husband if he will agree to divorce and, if he cooperates, divorce may be possible within months. If he does not cooperate, it may take years.

You say your husband does not care, but I can imagine he should be furious with you for cheating. So, you better be an active participant in your own divorce.

thanks!!

so.. it might take long time. should i hide that i'm pregnant? because they can ask for DNA test,,, it will take more time..

[rika60607 215]

Oh, and be prepared with your I-751 petition and evidence of good faith marriage - you should file this as soon as you are divorced or before your conditional GC expires, whichever comes first. Or you will find yourself out of status.

Also, if you choose to return to your home country and sort out immigration later, beware that absence from the US of more than 1 year will cause you to lose your GC. In any event, sorting out immigration later is dangerous, because removal of conditions can not be granted until you have divorce decree. You may find yourself in removal proceedings if you can not provide that divorce decree. You still will be able to ask the immigration judge to await for the divorce to be final, and to stay in the US. But then who knows what will happen with your ability to travel internationally and eligibility to work in the US.

[Sayha or bust. 71]

Good luck your going to need it.

Edited January 17, 2011 by Sayha or bust.