Inappropriate or not?

[Merlion@ 0]

But it was you that she offered the contact information to, not him, right? You seem to focus too much on what she did...do you feel like your husband did any reciprocating, other than what you stated? Holding her hand and not yours during a turkish sexy song, with you right there on the dance floor does not qualify, no matter how much leg she showed.

Thanks for trying to make me look at this objectively. They did speak some French (which I understand a bit), talked about Canada, but I was at the table, so was her husband. I think if there was no kiss I would have been okay. I know he wouldn't have made the move, so it's not his fault. But I still convinced myself that it was and made it like it was. So now I can';t get it out of my head. I will try though. Thanks for rationalizing with me.

[Ban Hammer 13,349]

Just to be sure, maybe you should check his cell phone and email for a while to make sure nothing is going on.

did anyone else notice this

She gave me her e-mail and phone from their hotels

i say they are swingers.

[chri'stina 190]

Just think of it this way:

Your husband was courteous and amiable. It would've been rude if he avoided her "kiss" or refused to dance with her. Everybody's friendly and merry during Christmas and New Year's Eve.

Even if the woman was flirting a bit with your man, you are supposed to be glad because that means aside from you, other people also find your husband attractive; an attractive man has chosen to be with you.

I guess it will be good that you forget the whole thing and prepare a good breakfast for him tomorrow like nothing happened and then talk to him about how you've been feeling.

I wouldn't think it'd be rude if he avoided her kiss or refused to dance with her, considering they'd probably never see them again.

Though I don't fault the husband for this whole situation, I know Suj(my husband) would avoid things he would find too close for comfort from a woman. But he is very conservative in this way too, while polite towards people even strangers, but not that polite.

Edited January 4, 2011 by chri'stina

[Minya's wife 25]

cri'stina, maybe so. because in that context you smiling may be uncalled for, especially to the opposite sex. that does not make the woman untrustful, it's a mattr of cultural upbringing and what is considered okay in that culture.

i judged the encountered based on my upbringing and usually in my culture we kiss good-bye but it is the male that initiates the kiss. i'm trying to justify it coming from her given the French influence although she is not French.

I have never experienced this...the hello/good-bye kiss is not only male initiated...it happens at random, by whoever is leaving first, or whoever leans in first. What does this woman being French have anything to do with this situation? I wasn't aware that the French practice any different hello/goodbye kissing that what is done in Romania...except perhaps that "embrasse moi" is stated before the kissing rather than "hai sa te pup".

Edited January 4, 2011 by Minya's wife

[spookyturtle 9,466]

did anyone else notice this

i say they are swingers.

:lol: It sounds mighty suspicious.

[Amby 490]

but it's kisses on the cheek. it's not like they had their tongues down each others throats!

everyone here knows how uptight I am about stuff like this and I think you need to chill!

[Calypso 464]

What if she grabbed his junk? Should he be polite and let her?

But she didn't.

[spookyturtle 9,466]

But she didn't.

Maybe his wife didn't see?

[Amby 490]

junk grabbing means hello in scotland

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[chri'stina 190]

If someone we only just met tried to come dancing with us, I think we'd both think "get away, annoying lady". But I wouldn't blame my husband for her weirdness. lol.

[spookyturtle 9,466]

junk grabbing means hello in scotland

It figures.

[Minya's wife 25]

junk grabbing means hello in scotland

and test of manhood down under...at least that's what I was lead to believe upon watching Crocodile Dundee.

[spookyturtle 9,466]

If someone we only just met tried to come dancing with us, I think we'd both think "get away, annoying lady". But I wouldn't blame my husband for her weirdness. lol.

But what about his?

[Amby 490]

ok sooo...maybe doing a google search for "####### rubbing customs" was a bad idea