Inappropriate or not?

[^_^ 5,021]

Have some integrity, man.

No. There are advantages to having a woman around all the time.

[Ban Hammer 13,475]

If I spit anything else on this computer you're buying me a new one. :lol:

no spitting! (i feel weird saying that to spooky)

[chri'stina 190]

if they were regular canadians, then can that lead to divorce?

Of course, haven't you seen the statistics?

[Merlion@ 0]

If I was married to a woman with trust issues, I'd cheat on her every chance I got (which would probably be quite infrequent but I digress). You know why? Because she wouldn't trust me even if I was faithful. If I'm going to be treated like a cheater, I might as well actually be one.

Let's just say that I'm the conservative type and he can be too friendly sometimes, which makes me feel uncomfortable. But it's an interesting comment you posted.

[Ban Hammer 13,475]

Of course, haven't you seen the statistics?

must be from fighting over the last timbit.

[^_^ 5,021]

Let's just say that I'm the conservative type and he can be too friendly sometimes ...

I understand, actually. In my marriage I'm the conservative reserved type and my wife is saying hi and smiling to everyone. Luckily for me I don't have trust issues or I'd go insane. Luckily for me she's not like me either, or we'd have no new friends

[scandal 951]

No. There are advantages to having a woman around all the time.

I think Spooky's gonna demand a new computer from you for that remark

[chri'stina 190]

must be from fighting over the last timbit.

That was on the list of top reasons.

[Calypso 464]

This comment may not help but you should know that you are just showing how insecure you are.

[chri'stina 190]

I understand, actually. In my marriage I'm the conservative reserved type and my wife is saying hi and smiling to everyone. Luckily for me I don't have trust issues or I'd go insane. Luckily for me she's not like me either, or we'd have no new friends

You'd go insane because your wife is polite? Is she winking at people too?

[^_^ 5,021]

Alla would bite me until I was dead. In my sleep.

Wow!

[Minya's wife 25]

Let's just say that I'm the conservative type and he can be too friendly sometimes, which makes me feel uncomfortable. But it's an interesting comment you posted.

But continuing to give him the silent treatment after he's apologized is not helping the situation much, nor is it doing anything to alleviate your discomfort. You've hinted that there are other issues behind your feelings. Those should be discussed either between you two, or with the help of some sort of mediator.

[Merlion@ 0]

x2

Majority of the people from that part of the world kiss on both cheeks as a greeting and good-bye, so I see nothing inappropriate in that. You said she and her husband kissed both of you...so it does not seem like she singled your husband out. The whole dancing thing...from what you described, I'm thinking you were dancing some sort of hora, which requires everyone holding hands...nothing inappropriate about that. Her husband sitting and not dancing...well maybe he doesn't know/like to dance. My husband and I went to a wedding not long ago, and my husband injured his back on the day of the event...so he sat at the table and while I danced, with friends, both male and female. It was a party and my husband wanted me to enjoy it as much as possible. Same thing goes here...you were at a 'party' and it should have been something enjoyable. I'm sorry you don't see it that way. The worst is that in the aftermath, with not speaking to him you're creating a bigger bouhaha than necessary. He's offered an explanation and apologized to you (though, given what you're recounted, I don't see anything he needs to apologize for) what else are you wanting from him?

No, actually it wasn't hora. It was a turkish kind of sexy song. Hard to explain but she showed off her legs in the process. We danced hora too, but she was not in the picture. I was totally okay with him dancing hora.

She kissed him good-bye but did not kiss me. Her man kissed me but it was only after she made the move. As if he copied her..when we introduced each other he did not hand his hand to me. She did to both me and my husband, but she did not kiss me good-bye.

[^_^ 5,021]

You'd go insane because your wife is polite? Is she winking at people too?

no winking. But if I had trust issues I could easily see the hi's and the smiles and assume they were much more. That's what happens when you have trust issues, you don't see what is, you see what you fear.

She kissed him good-bye but did not kiss me. Her man kissed me but it was only after she made the move. As if he copied her..when we introduced each other he did not hand his hand to me. She did to both me and my husband, but she did not kiss me good-bye.

What she did shouldn't be at issue here. Focus on what your husband did. You're married to him, not to her.

[spookyturtle 9,466]

I think Spooky's gonna demand a new computer from you for that remark

I'm nor eating or drinking anything now. He keeps making me laugh.