Physical Attraction

[Sheriff Uling 3]

[Welshcookie 17]

I voted for it only goes so far....because physical attributes are the often the first impressions we have when meeting a person but has very little to do with the person they are.

[vartan 0]

Physical attraction is very very important.. but so is everything else.. there must be a complete package.. not just a pretty girl with no brains and not a smart girl with no attraction.. My fiance is the most beautiful women I have ever seen in my life .. and much much smarter then me .. so I am good to go.

[kittykatwoman 0]

I voted "must exist in the relationship"

I can't imagine not being attracted to the man i am with, i could not have sex with him if i was not attracted by his physical appearance.

As Vartan said it's the whole personn that has to attract me, the envelopp and the content.

[babybunny 2]

He has to be HOT right from the start. < Thank god my bingo is too dayum HOT > cant hook up with no ugly dudes - let alone marry one.

[vartan 0]

He has to be HOT right from the start. < Thank god my bingo is too dayum HOT > cant hook up with no ugly dudes - let alone marry one.

Shon you crack me up.

[Mew 0]

I just wonder how physical attraction does not matter at all. I voted 'it must exist'.

I voted "must exist in the relationship"

I can't imagine not being attracted to the man i am with, i could not have sex with him if i was not attracted by his physical appearance.

As Vartan said it's the whole personn that has to attract me, the envelopp and the content.

I agree 100%.

[Jenn! 918]

Aren't we all 100% attracted to our chosen partners? I voted a "10". Even if your SO is not considered particularly attractive by societal standards, I would think that you find him physically attractive. Otherwise, how would that work???? I think maybe people interpreted this question in different ways.

[VetsWife328 7]

It must be there from the start and I believe the more you love someone the more you'll be attracted to that person.

I have always been attracted to my man physically but I feel that I want him even more now then when we met.

Back then he was just another good looking man,now he is MY good looking man.And I could write an ongoing list about all the things I love about him and that attract me to him.Physically,mentally and emotionally.

I could not imagine a better man on the face of this earth.

Some may think he's NOT all that handsome but to me he is,looks and personality combined that's what counts.And by God he's got it all!

Nat

[Mew 0]

It must be there from the start and I believe the more you love someone the more you'll be attracted to that person.

I have always been attracted to my man physically but I feel that I want him even more now then when we met.

Back then he was just another good looking man,now he is MY good looking man.And I could write an ongoing list about all the things I love about him and that attract me to him.Physically,mentally and emotionally.

I could not imagine a better man on the face of this earth.

Some may think he's NOT all that handsome but to me he is,looks and personality combined that's what counts.And by God he's got it all!

Nat

Awwww, I love your pic!

[Tim and Bethanie 1]

Never met anyone that stated "my other half is ugly as hell but I love him/her", looks do matter. This points to the old saying "beauty is in the eye of the beholder". Some might find my spouse to be extremely unattractive, but to me the first time I saw him I thought he was gorgeous.

[Sheriff Uling 3]

Tim and Bethanie - I have spoken with women before who knew (openly admitted) their partner was not attractive to them and didn't care. Some folks do really do search for inner beauty with no regards to the external. It's hard for me to believe too, but I just let it go. There is no denying I do believe that "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" cuz when I see my Lady's booty... I be holdin' it. LOL!

vartan - We are brothers separated at birth! LOL! I feel the same... Attraction is important and must exist but so does everything else (the complete package).

Natashabrenda - That is so true. Being in love does enhance that attraction and there has to be more than physical attraction. My last girlfriend was a beautiful person inside and out but I wasn't in love with her and thus my attraction and relationship faded away. And I walked right out of her life because I wasn’t attracted to the complete package and I knew that I would hurt her in the end. Of course, she holds a grudge against me. In other words, she thinks I'm an a$#hole, but she’ll secretly thank me in the end.

jenn3539 - People do read into this question/poll in many ways. I was actually thinking... Does attraction really matter to you (you being everyone) when FIRST entering into a relationship. I have lusted for women, but when I have not been genuinely attracted to the person beyond the beauty, it has never lasted. However, I must be attracted to my partner physically as well as emotionally (the entire package) if the relationship has any hopes of surviving. I am so thankful to have my Baby because we click on every level.

Everyone - Please vote! Thanks to all for the comments.

Edited August 27, 2006 by Uling

[vartan 0]

vartan - We are brothers separated at birth! LOL! I feel the same... Attraction is important and must exist but so does everything else (the complete package).

Hahah I can't help it Uling.. while I am the complete package for my fiance.. hahahha I am so humble.. hahaha kidding

[VetsWife328 7]

Mew-thank you.They're cuties huh?! LOL

Wouldn't trade them in for the world,the big one is bullheaded as can be and the little one is a hurricane....

Nat

[MrMrsKnight 0]

I voted "must exist in the relationship"

I can't imagine not being attracted to the man i am with, i could not have sex with him if i was not attracted by his physical appearance.

As Vartan said it's the whole personn that has to attract me, the envelopp and the content.

I agree 100%!