feels like the end before the beginning...

[LoriT 16]

It's been an incredibly hard day for me... like some of you who celebrate Christmas it was one more holiday alone. We filed in October and don't expect to hear anything until April or May at the earliest. I can handle the time. It's the uncertainty I cannot handle.

I am self employed... In 2010 I will have earned $25,000.00 in my business. I also work a part-time job that pays about $14,000.00 a year. I also receive about $15,000.00 a year in child support. All of those incomes are documented and I have proof of income. But again and again I read of circumstances where visa's are denied because of lack of income. Oh... I also have 2 children that are in my custody.

I did not meet my fiance on a "find a spouse" website. It was a random meeting almost 2 years ago on Facebook. Yes, another internet meeting..... go ahead with your comments, I have heard them all. But I love him more than I have ever loved anyone in my life. Neither one of us can bear the thought of living the rest of our lives without eachother.

My question to you is... when our k-1 visa is denied (I just have a gut feeling it will be), how much longer until I can file another one? I will get another job and work 20 hours a day if I have to. I will do whatever it takes to prove that I love him and that I want him with me. That he will not become a "charge" of the country. But a man who is willing to work if just given the chance. I will prove that he is not coming to this country for its "benefits" but because he is willing to give up his life, his job and his family because he loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me.

[pushbrk 12,542]

It's been an incredibly hard day for me... like some of you who celebrate Christmas it was one more holiday alone. We filed in October and don't expect to hear anything until April or May at the earliest. I can handle the time. It's the uncertainty I cannot handle.

I am self employed... In 2010 I will have earned $25,000.00 in my business. I also work a part-time job that pays about $14,000.00 a year. I also receive about $15,000.00 a year in child support. All of those incomes are documented and I have proof of income. But again and again I read of circumstances where visa's are denied because of lack of income. Oh... I also have 2 children that are in my custody.

I did not meet my fiance on a "find a spouse" website. It was a random meeting almost 2 years ago on Facebook. Yes, another internet meeting..... go ahead with your comments, I have heard them all. But I love him more than I have ever loved anyone in my life. Neither one of us can bear the thought of living the rest of our lives without eachother.

My question to you is... when our k-1 visa is denied (I just have a gut feeling it will be), how much longer until I can file another one? I will get another job and work 20 hours a day if I have to. I will do whatever it takes to prove that I love him and that I want him with me. That he will not become a "charge" of the country. But a man who is willing to work if just given the chance. I will prove that he is not coming to this country for its "benefits" but because he is willing to give up his life, his job and his family because he loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me.

The financial information you gave indicates you probably qualify as the sponsor. Why not set your worry aside until you file the next tax return in a few weeks. Look at line 22 and if it's enough, relax. You can always add and document the child support. As you go forward, make sure you understand the difference between revenue and income in the context of a "business". "Income" from the business) that counts will be what's left over on schedule C after you deduct all your business expenses from the gross revenue. You'll then add that number to the $14,000 from your job and the sum will be the "total income" to be considered from the tax return. You can then add and document the child support.

[LoriT 16]

Believe me.. I know.. I've been working night and day. I have not had a day off since June of 2009, and will not until Colin gets his AOS and a job. I understand that and I'm more than willing to accept that. It's more than worth it in the end. I've just seen way too many people get denied lately and it frightens me. I apologize for being an overemotional woman, it's a weakness. I'm just terrified of getting to that final interview and having it all gone to waste. Granted.. Colin is from the UK, which is one of the easier consulates. But you never know what someones mood is on that particular day. My apologies.. it's been a really rough day.

[Canadiandggal 49]

Believe me.. I know.. I've been working night and day. I have not had a day off since June of 2009, and will not until Colin gets his AOS and a job. I understand that and I'm more than willing to accept that. It's more than worth it in the end. I've just seen way too many people get denied lately and it frightens me. I apologize for being an overemotional woman, it's a weakness. I'm just terrified of getting to that final interview and having it all gone to waste. Granted.. Colin is from the UK, which is one of the easier consulates. But you never know what someones mood is on that particular day. My apologies.. it's been a really rough day.

From what i can see you will make approx 39,000.00 this year not including child support.

For your household size that should be more then enough.

2 person $18,212.00

3 person $22,887.00

4 person $27.562.00

5 person $32,237.00

even at a six person household it is $36,912.00.

I wish you luck and am sure he will do just fine and be approved.

try not to worry , although I went through the same thing and worried all the way up to the minute I got through the POE.

[LoriT 16]

Unfortunately... self employment is not your gross income but your income after expenses... most business owners write off as much as possible to pay the least amount of taxes. Your gross income is usually cut by at least 60%, which leaves my income at about $11,000.00. If I take out all the expenses I am allowed. Plus my part time job of $14K a year. Just about $3K under what I need to make.... My ex pays my mortgage in lieu of child support. I have a notarized statement from him stating our agreement plus a statement of the last mortgage payments for the past 2 years. Hopefully that will be enough. But it still frightens me...

[JlovesA 109]

Why not secure a co-sponsor so you can put your mind at ease? Even if it ends ip being unnecessary, you have a backup plan.

[LoriT 16]

Unfortunately, I am an only child with very unsupportive parents. I have asked several friend who are hesitant to risk the financial burden and display of their income. I am on my own in this situation.

[pushbrk 12,542]

Unfortunately... self employment is not your gross income but your income after expenses... most business owners write off as much as possible to pay the least amount of taxes. Your gross income is usually cut by at least 60%, which leaves my income at about $11,000.00. If I take out all the expenses I am allowed. Plus my part time job of $14K a year. Just about $3K under what I need to make.... My ex pays my mortgage in lieu of child support. I have a notarized statement from him stating our agreement plus a statement of the last mortgage payments for the past 2 years. Hopefully that will be enough. But it still frightens me...

You are allowed but not required to take all your "deductions". You may amend any tax return later.

Mortgage in lieu of child support is a problem but you can solve it by changing the agreement and paying your own bills. You have solutions and time to implement them if you'll do it.

[ptgarner1 8]

Lori....cold and lonely in Minnesota.....I understand your depression...and probably most on her do as well. It is especially hard to dream of being together for Christmas and fall short. The best we could do was for her and her 6 year old to watch our Christmas morning via Skype....but I am trying to be thankful for that...It doesnt matter where

or how you met....true feelings are the same....and most of us have secretly thought about having our visa rejected.

Chances are everything will be fine....you will get your Noa 2 ...and life will be good..

[Didisan 0]

The financial information you gave indicates you probably qualify as the sponsor. Why not set your worry aside until you file the next tax return in a few weeks. Look at line 22 and if it's enough, relax. You can always add and document the child support. As you go forward, make sure you understand the difference between revenue and income in the context of a "business". "Income" from the business) that counts will be what's left over on schedule C after you deduct all your business expenses from the gross revenue. You'll then add that number to the $14,000 from your job and the sum will be the "total income" to be considered from the tax return. You can then add and document the child support.

Hi there, I would like to ask you at which document is this line 22, many people comment some document about the financial support and I am not sure what you are talking about. I have my interview next month and I want to be sure that everything is ok before it. Thanks a lot, have a merry Xmas

[Didisan 0]

It's been an incredibly hard day for me... like some of you who celebrate Christmas it was one more holiday alone. We filed in October and don't expect to hear anything until April or May at the earliest. I can handle the time. It's the uncertainty I cannot handle.

I am self employed... In 2010 I will have earned $25,000.00 in my business. I also work a part-time job that pays about $14,000.00 a year. I also receive about $15,000.00 a year in child support. All of those incomes are documented and I have proof of income. But again and again I read of circumstances where visa's are denied because of lack of income. Oh... I also have 2 children that are in my custody.

I did not meet my fiance on a "find a spouse" website. It was a random meeting almost 2 years ago on Facebook. Yes, another internet meeting..... go ahead with your comments, I have heard them all. But I love him more than I have ever loved anyone in my life. Neither one of us can bear the thought of living the rest of our lives without eachother.

My question to you is... when our k-1 visa is denied (I just have a gut feeling it will be), how much longer until I can file another one? I will get another job and work 20 hours a day if I have to. I will do whatever it takes to prove that I love him and that I want him with me. That he will not become a "charge" of the country. But a man who is willing to work if just given the chance. I will prove that he is not coming to this country for its "benefits" but because he is willing to give up his life, his job and his family because he loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me.

Hi there,

First of all, please, try not to be so negative and try to think positively. I know it is very hard...My interview is next month and now I am under such pressure...Not to mention that now we are not able to be together for the holidays with my fiance and I miss him even much more...It is very difficult time for me right now not knowing what will happen at the interview ,if I will be given a visa...We just want to be together, to live together not like in the previous whole year he to come in my country for awhile or to meet each other somewhere in Europe or to speak on skype. I know how you feel right now and I am with sympathy with you. But try to be more positive, just believe in sth and it will happen...

[coraliesolms 47]

Well, I dont have anything to say on finances, I believe you have read many good responses about it. However, if you read around on this website you will see OODLES of people who met on the internet. I myself met my husband playing a playstation video game on line. Please dont dispair, and really really NEVER feel ashamed about how you met

Good luck with your journey, you will find plenty of support here.

[pushbrk 12,542]

Hi there, I would like to ask you at which document is this line 22, many people comment some document about the financial support and I am not sure what you are talking about. I have my interview next month and I want to be sure that everything is ok before it. Thanks a lot, have a merry Xmas

Line 22 of the 1040 form used to file a tax return.

[JoyDee 21]

Line 22 of the 1040 form used to file a tax return.

I file using the 1040EZ. Is there a difference between the total income (line 22, 1040) and the adjusted gross income (line 4, 1040EZ)?

[pushbrk 12,542]

I file using the 1040EZ. Is there a difference between the total income (line 22, 1040) and the adjusted gross income (line 4, 1040EZ)?

Strange question, in that if you use 1040EZ, you don't use 1040 at the same time. If using 1040EZ, then adjusted gross income is the figure you state as income from that year.