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This is enough information to make me doubt this kind of realationship . must be hard being told what to do most of the time . Good luck !

If one doesn't have the balls to try then it is good that you don't even try. VN woman are tough to saddle break but can be done with persistence and patience.whistling.gif

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If one doesn't have the balls to try then it is good that you don't even try. VN woman are tough to saddle break but can be done with persistence and patience.whistling.gif

Let us know how it works out for you. :lol:

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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Vietnam
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I don't know about my fiance being bossy. She is not demanding and doesn't hold things hostage if she does not get her way. I am very happy she is not the bossy type. I heard other guys tell me that they better do what their wives tell them or they won't be getting any love in bed. Sorry for sounding harsh but that does not sound like a marriage to me. This is not aimed at anybody from VJ but just in general. Fortunately my fiance is a very soft and gentle personality who doesn't pout when things don't go her way. We work extremely well TOGETHER and that is why fell in love with each other.

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I don't know about my fiance being bossy. She is not demanding and doesn't hold things hostage if she does not get her way. I am very happy she is not the bossy type. I heard other guys tell me that they better do what their wives tell them or they won't be getting any love in bed. Sorry for sounding harsh but that does not sound like a marriage to me. This is not aimed at anybody from VJ but just in general. Fortunately my fiance is a very soft and gentle personality who doesn't pout when things don't go her way. We work extremely well TOGETHER and that is why fell in love with each other.

Then hide her toys away! When she asks you if you've seen it/them, tell her "Who's DA boss now?"

Just remember, life over there in VN is NOT real! Your money will be worth a LOT less once you get back over here. Back to reality, cowboy!

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If one doesn't have the balls to try then it is good that you don't even try. VN woman are tough to saddle break but can be done with persistence and patience.whistling.gif

Well i wasnt trying to start and arguments here , i dont lack the balls at all for this type of relationship i just happen to think that everyone is different and they all act different.

I was invloved with a nice filipino girl but it didnt work out for reason related to money mainly so i learned maybe she wasnt a true blue person so as we all know there is a higer degree of risk in this type of love affair and its a risk at best ! some work and some dont.

I doubt i will try again guess always a maybe but at this time i doubt it .

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Let us know how it works out for you. :lol:

Hey I said it takes persistence and patience and I am trying.whistling.gif

A few times I have let her know that I am twice her size and could break her in two. She each time just poked her tiny finger in my chest and said, "but you won't." I just let her know that I could.

I have learned when she gets to be like a mother and tried to tell me to do something and I don't want to to just put on a poker face and look at her. She will point at me like a mother and then say loudly again what she wants me to do and I continue to stare saying nothing. She eventually will lose her composure and stamp her feet a couple of times and in a pitiful voice say, "please.' I then just laugh. Sometimes I will then do it as she looks so pitiful and sometimes I won't.

I have learned the haggling and when she wants something I will say what I want. She hates cooking me bacon for breakfast and I will see how badly she wants me to do something. If I get the promise of bacon then I know she really wants it and I will do it. No bacon then I assume it isn't that important. There are other things she knows I love to eat that she cooks and if I know she is cooking any of them then I am more amenable to doing something she wants. One night she was making 3 of my favorite foods and I knew she really wanted me to do something for her badly and knew I would say NO. She is good, very good.

 
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