Cheating husband

[Damaged 0]

hi,

i am american citizen and i sponsored my husband from brazil this year, and he got a green card thats good for 10 years, hes cheating on me and please tell me what i can do to deport him. he called police on me and accused me of beating him.

please help

[Inky 1,111]

Sorry you can't do anything he has a greencard. Change your locks on your house/ appartment and get him out of your place.

[twowls 217]

As Inky says, you cannot have him deported. But you can file for divorce, talk to the police about the false claim, see about protection for yourself while you get him away from you, and move on with your life. You cannot "punish" him in any greater way because he is an immigrant as opposed to a natural born citizen. So don't bother thinking in those terms, and just think about your situation as if it were any other failing marriage. (Get a lawyer.)

[JimVaPhuong 4,863]

Sorry you can't do anything he has a greencard. Change your locks on your house/ appartment and get him out of your place.

Actually, if he has filed police reports on her then he might be able to get an order to have HER removed from the house.

You are correct, though. He has a 10 year green card. Unless she has evidence he obtained his visa or green card fraudulently, or is guilty of some deportable crime, then there's nothing she can do to have him deported. Cheating on her is not a crime.

[Damaged 0]

These days hes going after other women and hes talking to his female friends in his country i am so sorry for myself. things are not going good.

[the__tourist 0]

Sorry to hear about your situation. Unfortunately as the others mentioned you can not have him deported.

Your best move is to not have any contact with him as this can make it easier for him to file abuse claims from the contact (even if they are false). And as everyone else mentioned as well, change the locks and "remove" him from your life as much as possible (locks, end phone contracts, etc).

Best wishes as you move on from this!

[JimVaPhuong 4,863]

Sorry to hear about your situation. Unfortunately as the others mentioned you can not have him deported.

Your best move is to not have any contact with him as this can make it easier for him to file abuse claims from the contact (even if they are false). And as everyone else mentioned as well, change the locks and "remove" him from your life as much as possible (locks, end phone contracts, etc).

Best wishes as you move on from this!

Please be careful with this "change the locks" advice. Depending on the circumstances, what you're advising her to do may not be legal, and she may get into trouble if she does it. For example, if his name is on the lease then he's a lawful tenant, and she cannot lock him out without a court order.

[luckytxn 2,265]

hi,

i am american citizen and i sponsored my husband from brazil this year, and he got a green card thats good for 10 years, hes cheating on me and please tell me what i can do to deport him. he called police on me and accused me of beating him.

please help

Strange that has able to receive a 10 year green card before getting the two year conditional green card.

[rin and john 71]

Strange that has able to receive a 10 year green card before getting the two year conditional green card.

If they had been married two years by the time the GC was issued, then it would be for 10 yrs (Rin did not get her GC until Nov 2008, married Oct 2006 - received 10 yr card).

John

[payxibka 10,047]

Strange that has able to receive a 10 year green card before getting the two year conditional green card.

not strange