lived together for 3 years b4 filing for k1

[nattrav 0]

hi, i see that many people on here have met online, and a lot of the 'proof' for the k1 is items such as boarding passes and phone records...

since my fiance and i lived together for 3 years (in Moscow for one year, then in spain for 2 years )we don't have these kinds of proof! can anyone who is in the same situation as us tell us what they used to prove their relationship?

we filed in june and have just received notification of an RFE, which we are waiting to arrive in the mail

we HOPE it's an error in filling in a form etc, NOT more proof of relationship but are preparing for the worst (while hoping for the best)

we included letters from family members, photos of us with each other's families, apartment rental contract with both our names, rental payment slips from each of us to our landlady, ATM slips from the same bank/city, payslips from the same company we both worked for, work contracts from the same company/city

wow - now i read that, how could they dispute our claim?

oh, but they could, as that's the prerogative of bureaucracy!!

any and all suggestions for more proof welcome!

thanks

[canadian_wife 1,822]

If you provided proof of living together, such as the rental contracts you stated, then I am sure the RFE is a paperwor error (as in you missed a section or put a blank somewehre) and not to do with the proof aspect

Review the copies you (hopefully) kept of your K-1 packet and see what, if anything was left off or left blank

Good luck

[nattrav 0]

If you provided proof of living together, such as the rental contracts you stated, then I am sure the RFE is a paperwor error (as in you missed a section or put a blank somewehre) and not to do with the proof aspect

Review the copies you (hopefully) kept of your K-1 packet and see what, if anything was left off or left blank

Good luck

fiance got RFE - ur right - he'd forgotten to check the box that said he'd never been convicted of a crime....doh...he's completed it and sent it off....phew

SOOOO relieved, was sure it would be something like that, but there's always that little nagging voice in the back of your mind.....

and sometimes just 'saying' the worry out loud is what's needed - the hardest thing about this process is that the one other person who understands the process and how it makes you feel, is the one who's the farthest away and you can't run all the worries by - especially with the time difference - this forum has been a life saviour, just knowing that others are going through the same thing, or have FINISHED the process makes it easier