Marriage contract

[Together4ever 1]

I'm not proud of this. I lost my temper. So much for my own humility.

[sarah and hicham 3]

YOU my dear certainly overly prideful in yourself. Go back and read what others say. If you feel so righteous fine. But belittling another is done out of self pride and you're dripping with it. I do NOT appreciate your pompous attitude. If that's not what you intend, then perhaps look at the way you present yourself. Its offensive and hiding behind Allah doesn't make it right.

Again... I have said it several times... What counts is what is between me and Allah. Man's interpretations can easily be erroneous. This is again why I do not subscribe to this sect philosophy. It's just that... a PHILOSOPHY based on Islam. That does not make it THE ONLY RIGHT ONE. IF it works for you, great. But you are no such saint or prophet to waltz around claiming yourself the expert on what the correct interpretation is.

I'm sorry but I'm really fed up with rubbish like this.

well said

I thought islam was also about humility.

whats cracking me up. are those that are freaking out over a second wife.

are you that insecure? he cant have a second wife in the USA anyways.

So you wouldn't mind if Javed wanted a second wife?

Interesting.

[Henia 11]

Everyone needs to discuss this with their SO not here...so there would be any surprises later on...

[iceyspots 0]

Believe it or not there are men in America who take one second, third and fourth wives. Only the first one is really legal, and for the other ones they just do a religious ceremony.

[babybunny 2]

I'm not proud of this. I lost my temper. So much for my own humility.

there are people on this board that make it a life to upset others.

[Ban Hammer 13,283]

whats cracking me up. are those that are freaking out over a second wife.

are you that insecure? he cant have a second wife in the USA anyways.

So you wouldn't mind if Javed wanted a second wife?

Interesting.

refer to the last sentence of shon's post - it's a moot point because he can't have one anyways. duh

[Bosco 1]

Believe it or not there are men in America who take one second, third and fourth wives. Only the first one is really legal, and for the other ones they just do a religious ceremony.

Yep, and there are also ones that have a wife in their home country.

[iceyspots 0]

Believe it or not there are men in America who take one second, third and fourth wives. Only the first one is really legal, and for the other ones they just do a religious ceremony.

Yep, and there are also ones that have a wife in their home country.

yes... there are quite a few who do that. typically in the detroit area I've found that quite a bit of Yemenis practice that method.

[Henia 11]

Believe it or not there are men in America who take one second, third and fourth wives. Only the first one is really legal, and for the other ones they just do a religious ceremony.

Yep, and there are also ones that have a wife in their home country.

yes... there are quite a few who do that. typically in the detroit area I've found that quite a bit of Yemenis practice that method.

O snaaaaaaaps don't I know it... Hmm was married to one.

Believe it or not there are men in America who take one second, third and fourth wives. Only the first one is really legal, and for the other ones they just do a religious ceremony.

Yep, and there are also ones that have a wife in their home country.

yes... there are quite a few who do that. typically in the detroit area I've found that quite a bit of Yemenis practice that method.

O snaaaaaaaps don't I know it... Hmm was married to one.

Sure convient to have a wifey every country you stay in

[iceyspots 0]

[babybunny 2]

Believe it or not there are men in America who take one second, third and fourth wives. Only the first one is really legal, and for the other ones they just do a religious ceremony.

Yep, and there are also ones that have a wife in their home country.

the ones that do get caught.

why you think there is AP/AR? its not all securitychecks..

the embassy does field investigatons to check marriage papers and to see if there

is more than one wife.

since i been a member of VJ there has been at least 2 couples denied.

because, the husband had a second wife.. one was this past DEC.

the other case was last summer.

Edited August 30, 2006 by babybunny

[Sofiyya 1,687]

Men who commit adultary (I can't call it marriage) in places where polgyny is illegal are sinning and need to repent. They have not done right by any of the women they are with and are not honorable men. It is abhorent to me that this state of sin is attributed to Islam when it is of Shaytan.

[iceyspots 0]

Believe it or not there are men in America who take one second, third and fourth wives. Only the first one is really legal, and for the other ones they just do a religious ceremony.

Yep, and there are also ones that have a wife in their home country.

the ones that do get caught.

why you think there is AP/AR? its not all securitychecks..

the embassy does field investigatons to check marriage papers and to see if there

is more than one wife.

since i been a member of VJ there has been at least 2 couples denied.

because, the husband had a second wife.. one was this past DEC.

the other case was last summer.

that doesnt stop them from getting married over there AFTER they have the green card.

[Sofiyya 1,687]

the ones that do get caught.

why you think there is AP/AR? its not all securitychecks..

the embassy does field investigatons to check marriage papers and to see if there

is more than one wife.

My brother-in-law tried this with a French woman. He got caught; bye bye French visa.

[Bosco 1]

Believe it or not there are men in America who take one second, third and fourth wives. Only the first one is really legal, and for the other ones they just do a religious ceremony.

Yep, and there are also ones that have a wife in their home country.

the ones that do get caught.

why you think there is AP/AR? its not all securitychecks..

the embassy does field investigatons to check marriage papers and to see if there

is more than one wife.

AP/AR doesn't stop them from taking a second wife on their first trip back home.

AP/AR also wasn't always what it is today and field investigations are not done in all places. My family knew of a few men who had a wife here and a wife back home when I was a child.