Thank you!

[YetundeAY 0]

I am officially a member but I had been reading all the posts on this forum since July 2010. I filed for my fiance in April but I didn't know half of what was to come. In July, his interview date was set for December 3 and I started to obsess about everything. I slept and woke up thinking how long Dec. 3 was and what to do fill the time and get ready and fortunately, I found this. It didn't stop the obsession, but I found something to fill the time and I learned A LOT about what was to come. To this, I wanna say a huge THANK YOU. Thank you to all the members and all the posts. I went through every post but I was afraid to become a member and start posting because it would be heart renching if he didn't get it. Thankfully, last Friday he was approved the visa. I actually came to Nigeria to be with him for the interview because that's how obsessed I was. I knew from the posts here that I won't be allowed him but that didn't stop me. And when I got to the embassy, I didn't even ask to be let in.

He said the interview was pretty stressful, that they asked questions we didn't even practice, because I printed and emailed all the questions from the posts of people who had theirs. He's yet to tell me all the questions he was asked, but I promise to post them all as soon as he tells. He said he was asked the last time he saw me, and when he said I was outside, the white man interviewer said "wow!". So I guess I didn't take time off work and go in vain. He said he was asked how I paid for college, and since I had always complained to him about paying back my loans, he knew. That was the last and defining question according to him.

He was approved the visa but till now, I still feel numb. I obsessed over it for so long, if he hadn't received it, there would have been a flood gate of emotions, but I'm most certainly thankful it was approved.

A issue he said he could have had was the fact that I printed all the photos for evidence the same day. I wrote on the back of the pictures the dates and situations the pics were taken, but he said the guy kept asking how come they were all printed the same day. He said he then had to tell him I had all the pics on my laptop and had to verbally state the situations they were taken. He had to describe to the man that he was bigger in some pics than others and he was younger in some than others. We have been together for over 8 years so only a blind man would not see how we had physically changed.

So once again thank you. I could write on till eternity but I'll probably wait till I get back to the US to write because I'm writing from my blackberry now.

[LADYDARE 28]

Congratulations and welcome to VJ

[Fela's Girl 1]

God Bless You! I wish you both a long & happy married life! I plan to go whenever my husband is scheduled an interview. I now know what to expect when go. Thanks!

[patient2010 93]

Congrats and welcome to VJ!!!!

[payxibka 10,045]

moving to progress reports forum

[Naijabound 1]

Congratulations!

[OBX 51]

Congratulations.

[YetundeAY 0]

Thanks

[YetundeAY 0]

Thanks

[DebbyNSeyi 15]

Congratulations! Yes, VJ has been a priceless source of information....I couldn't have gone through this whole process with no attorney without VJ...Good luck to you and your hubby on starting a new life together!

[Nwanyioma 11]

Congratulations!!! I can imagine how happy you must be. Take care

[adecrown 0]

Congrats

[jkelly07 120]

congratulations happy for you,