hey guys!!

[jrmejia 31]

Me again,

I am not as psychologist nor a therapist. So for now all I need to do is "give the benefit of the doubt." Yes, I love her and I am looking forward for a bright future with her. If anything goes wrong, don't worry, no one will get blamed. That's for sure.

But it has been fun getting to know her!

my 2 cents

[warayakoh 1]

Hello B&A,

I went to visit her just to get to know each a bit more in person. I believe it was the right thing to do.

I got to know her better in person and the time we spent I can not describe the feeling. It was great. Like always her attention and respect top notch. I know many say that things change after they arrive in USA but I am willing to take a change with this one.

[warayakoh 1]

Hello,

I am wondering if mine will have less adjustment to do than the average. Why do I say this? well, she has been working aboard, in Dubai, for about four years.

She already tasted what is like to miss her family and friends.

She keeps telling me that maybe her adjustment might be a bit easier than those who leave their family for the first time.

Oh well, I just saw a lot of progress between us and I am loving it.

Me again,

I am not as psychologist nor a therapist. So for now all I need to do is "give the benefit of the doubt." Yes, I love her and I am looking forward for a bright future with her. If anything goes wrong, don't worry, no one will get blamed. That's for sure.

But it has been fun getting to know her!

my 2 cents

[tallcoolone 102]

[jrmejia 31]

salamat po

[tallcoolone 102]

Here a some Guidelines for meeting girls in PI.

Stay away from Manila

Don't marry a girl with a kid

Don't marry a girl from a dirt poor family

Make sure your girl has some type of degree so she can make you money when she gets to USA

Age range between 18 to 26

[Deputy Purple 1,294]

Here a some Guidelines for meeting girls in PI.

Stay away from Manila

Don't marry a girl with a kid

Don't marry a girl from a dirt poor family

Make sure your girl has some type of degree so she can make you money when she gets to USA

Age range between 18 to 26

Nice if you just want a trophy wife hanging from your arm.

Otherwise, don't follow your ####### but listen to your heart and understand the difference between pity and love.

My wife already had a child and wasn't able to finis her college education due to financial difficulties but that doesn't diminish her as a person.

Your list of requirements is as shallow as a list containing body measurements, hair or eye color.

Don't marry a women because she can earn x dollars or any other item on a stupid list.

Marry a woman because her soul touches yours.

BTW, TCO I do realize that you're nothing more than a professional troll here on VJ. My response isn't for you but for anyone who might think your words have any value...

Edited January 16, 2011 by Bob 4 Anna

[Atencio 43]

Marry a woman because her soul touches yours.

So true. Shallow needs will eventually fade away.

[Gumbolette 58]

Nice if you just want a trophy wife hanging from your arm.

Otherwise, don't follow your ####### but listen to your heart and understand the difference between pity and love.

My wife already had a child and wasn't able to finis her college education due to financial difficulties but that doesn't diminish her as a person.

Your list of requirements is as shallow as a list containing body measurements, hair or eye color.

Don't marry a women because she can earn x dollars or any other item on a stupid list.

Marry a woman because her soul touches yours.

BTW, TCO I do realize that you're nothing more than a professional troll here on VJ. My response isn't for you but for anyone who might think your words have any value...

Couldn't agree more Bob.

I just don't understand why some man tend to be so conceited that they caught the perfect fish the the Philippine Island and not to mention they are not so "Good looking" to even brag themselves.

Tell you what TCO, here's a list for you too;

Start going to the gym rather than getting fat while walking with superb sexy 23 yr old filipina wife.

Be ready to live in the streets because she will take everything what you have when she divorce you real soon since she is SMART w/ degree.

Start living in the fantasy that she feels the same way when you marry her.

Most especially, get back to us when reach at least your 10th year anniversary see if YOUR LIST WORKS BEFORE I HIGHLY RECOMMEND IT.

[Tahoma 2,292]

Here a some Guidelines for meeting girls in PI.

Stay away from Manila

Don't marry a girl with a kid

Don't marry a girl from a dirt poor family

Make sure your girl has some type of degree so she can make you money when she gets to USA

Age range between 18 to 26

I also recommend that the girl be a member in good standing with her bass-fishing club. How about you?

[jrmejia 31]

Nice if you just want a trophy wife hanging from your arm.

Otherwise, don't follow your ####### but listen to your heart and understand the difference between pity and love.

My wife already had a child and wasn't able to finis her college education due to financial difficulties but that doesn't diminish her as a person.

Your list of requirements is as shallow as a list containing body measurements, hair or eye color.

Don't marry a women because she can earn x dollars or any other item on a stupid list.

Marry a woman because her soul touches yours.

BTW, TCO I do realize that you're nothing more than a professional troll here on VJ. My response isn't for you but for anyone who might think your words have any value...

ummmhum

[jrmejia 31]

Here a some Guidelines for meeting girls in PI.

Stay away from Manila

Don't marry a girl with a kid

Don't marry a girl from a dirt poor family

Make sure your girl has some type of degree so she can make you money when she gets to USA

Age range between 18 to 26

My fiancee has a kid and that did not stop me from wanting to marry her. Not a BIT!

Back to my

Edited January 17, 2011 by jrmejia

[jrmejia 31]

Couldn't agree more Bob.

I just don't understand why some man tend to be so conceited that they caught the perfect fish the the Philippine Island and not to mention they are not so "Good looking" to even brag themselves.

Tell you what TCO, here's a list for you too;

Start going to the gym rather than getting fat while walking with superb sexy 23 yr old filipina wife.

Be ready to live in the streets because she will take everything what you have when she divorce you real soon since she is SMART w/ degree.

Start living in the fantasy that she feels the same way when you marry her.

Most especially, get back to us when reach at least your 10th year anniversary see if YOUR LIST WORKS BEFORE I HIGHLY RECOMMEND IT.

Allow me to ROLF

Edited January 17, 2011 by jrmejia

[sunandmoon 450]

Here a some Guidelines for meeting girls in PI.

Stay away from Manila

Don't marry a girl with a kid

Don't marry a girl from a dirt poor family

Make sure your girl has some type of degree so she can make you money when she gets to USA

Age range between 18 to 26

and once you've found her, she should follow these guidelines...

Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have be thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospect of a good meal (especially his favourite dish) is part of the warm welcome needed.

Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you'll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people.

Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.

Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives. Run a dustcloth over the tables.

Over the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering for his comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction.

Minimize all noise. At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer or vacuum. Encourage the children to be quiet.

Be happy to see him.

Greet him with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please him.

Listen to him. You may have a dozen important things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first - remember, his topics of conversation are more important than yours.

Make the evening his. Never complain if he comes home late or goes out to dinner or other places of entertainment without you. Instead, try to understand his world of strain and pressure and his very real need to be at home and relax.

Your goal: To try and make sure your home is a place of peace, order, and tranquillity where your husband can renew himself in body and spirit.

Don't greet him with complaints and problems.

Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or have him lie down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him.

Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice.

Don't ask him questions about his actions or question his judgment or integrity. Remember, he is the master of the house and as such will always exercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question him.

A good wife always knows her place.

{ The Good Wife's Guide circa 1955 )

Edited January 17, 2011 by sunandmoon

[Tahoma 2,292]

^^^