i am breaking up.....lolo

[JenT 0]

lol yeah i think i will translate everything from now on to avoid any hard feelings...playing it safe ! though im sure if i stray you will be there to light the fire under my A** and set me straight lol

Nah... but I'm not afraid to speak up...

Your wife, by the way, is a wise woman.

[William33 110]

Click here to read the fortune cookie!

Mew, that was brilliant!!!! Was that your idea?

Go Mew!!!!

[sleepless in OR 2]

Kitkat,

I would think that by this time you would be up to a methadone tablet and a shot!

Thank you for at least making me laugh!!!!!

The discovery of vicodin in the bathroom a few days ago (from some dental work in the spring, I think) was a bad find. Although I am exercising every day, I am drinking every night. And now, since I've had horrible back pain (stress, anyone?) the vicodin is coming in much too handy!!!

aNd iThiNk It's gOoD fOr cSC iNdUCEd dAin bRaMAgE. tOo!!!

[gugu24 0]

Ive certainly noticed lol. Thanks for the compliment to my fiance. She is wise and witty. Infact she is double checking everything i write from now on lol

[Mew 0]

Click here to read the fortune cookie!

Mew, that was brilliant!!!! Was that your idea?

Go Mew!!!!

I just contacted the little Chinese men who live inside the computer. They're responsible for the fortune cookie...

[Sheriff Uling 3]

Well, I'm just glad that two individuals who are known to perpetuate, antagonize, and argue points to pure exhaustion are not apart of this thread. Thank goodness for small miracles. Anyway, please give "gugu24" a break and find something else to B*&$% about... like CSC... your petition... NVC... the dahamn Manila Embassy with thir 120 - 150 day wait for a freakin interview... why we can’t call CSC directly… what’s up USCIS with the don’t contact us for six months… something... there is a lot to complain about… LOL!

Edited August 24, 2006 by Uling

[gugu24 0]

Amen to that!!!!!!!! the list of complaints can go forever. I'd rather just carry on in a merry way then spit teeth at everything and everyone. helps me get through each day.

[digbeezgrl 0]

MMMMKAYYY I really fail to find any humor in this whatsoever... and since you're obviously referring to me and my post yesterday, as well as drelewis, my next question to you will be: ####### have I done to you?

I also think it's really arrogant for YOU to be telling US not to get our undergarments in a bunch... what is fun about this? What is fun about going through SO much pain, joy, sorrow, elation, and fear in a year and a half just to have it all ripped out from under me like a rug? YEAH, MY UNDERGARMENTS ARE IN A BUNCH, I JUST LOST MY FIANCE FOR CHRISSAKE!

Go away if you don't have anything supportive to say.

[JenT 0]

MMMMKAYYY I really fail to find any humor in this whatsoever... and since you're obviously referring to me and my post yesterday, as well as drelewis, my next question to you will be: ####### have I done to you?

I also think it's really arrogant for YOU to be telling US not to get our undergarments in a bunch... what is fun about this? What is fun about going through SO much pain, joy, sorrow, elation, and fear in a year and a half just to have it all ripped out from under me like a rug? YEAH, MY UNDERGARMENTS ARE IN A BUNCH, I JUST LOST MY FIANCE FOR CHRISSAKE!

Go away if you don't have anything supportive to say.

I was hoping that this thread would have been sufficiently buried before you saw it...

Clearly, it wasn't....

are you ok?

[no name 1]

I really fail to find any humor in this whatsoever...

[digbeezgrl 0]

No, unfortunately, I saw it, as soon as I got to work this morning. I'm sure I am overreacting to some degree, but come on. We're supposed to be here to f*cking support each other, not to make offhanded comments about the rest of us not surviving this ride.

Whatever. People will always say stupid sh!t, and there's nothing I can do about it, eh?

I am guilty of this myself, it just never feels good to be on the burning end. And for the rest of you who did find that 'joke' funny, shame on you. If you had been one of the ones making the post I made yesterday, you wouldn't be laughing. You'd be doing what I've been doing for 48 hours now. Crying.

[JenT 0]

Your emotions are raw, Sara... try to shrug it off. I tried to deflect it but there will always be people who spin things for their own pleasure. You are right... there's nothing you can do about it except rise above it and move on.

[digbeezgrl 0]

Oh, believe me, it's not a matter of me 'having to rise above' anyone or anything, Jen. I am already there. I just let people who make idiot remarks know that I think they're being an idiot is all.

I am ok, and thank you very much for your concern. You are one of the most articulate, sensitive, and compassionate posters here, and I can always count on you for a kind and thoughtful word. For that I am eternally grateful, JenT.

Now, I must concentrate on doing my job today, as hard as it is to even think straight.

Gugu24, I saw that you later apologized for your idiot comment, so I relent. Just try to be a little less of a jokester next time, mmmkay? At least wait till we're back together before joking about us breaking up! LOL

I am obviously not one to hold a grudge, even for 30 seconds. I wish us ALL the best on each of our journeys, no matter what the circumstance. Fortunately, I have not even lost ALL hope for my own, and with a stroke of luck or divine intervention or whatever, maybe it will happen for me too. All I can do is hope.

[gugu24 0]

hey i am here now. i been out all day long and my fiance/wife was bz with our daughter. i just turned on the computer and we got this thing again on the board. well I thought the thread was gone with the wind. I swear I never thought of hurting anyone. The main thing is that since both of you had been to your destination after going through so much painful waiting, you ended up in seprating. So seeing your thing, I just said to my wife/fiance since we have been going through the misery since last three years then why dont we break-up and get aproved. It was not to hurt your feelings but the irony of our situation. If you get a chance to read your own thread then I was the second one to suport your decision. If dont belive then go and read your thread. See what did i say about it.

[Joey559 1]

Oh, believe me, it's not a matter of me 'having to rise above' anyone or anything, Jen. I am already there. I just let people who make idiot remarks know that I think they're being an idiot is all.

I am ok, and thank you very much for your concern. You are one of the most articulate, sensitive, and compassionate posters here, and I can always count on you for a kind and thoughtful word. For that I am eternally grateful, JenT.

Now, I must concentrate on doing my job today, as hard as it is to even think straight.

Gugu24, I saw that you later apologized for your idiot comment, so I relent. Just try to be a little less of a jokester next time, mmmkay? At least wait till we're back together before joking about us breaking up! LOL

I am obviously not one to hold a grudge, even for 30 seconds. I wish us ALL the best on each of our journeys, no matter what the circumstance. Fortunately, I have not even lost ALL hope for my own, and with a stroke of luck or divine intervention or whatever, maybe it will happen for me too. All I can do is hope.

HUG. I can't believe you went to work, you are an incredibly strong person.

There are people like gugu who aren't bad people, but people who make bad decisions sometimes (as we all do).

Then there are the trolls like that magizee person who are just hateful. Karma's a ###### my friend, just remember that!

Keep feeling better.

Joey