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HELP! He suddenly has the worst pre-wedding cold feet and we're falling apart!!!

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So sorry to read this....

So where are you staying at ? I have some single friends....... :dance:

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The OP states the relationship has suffered at least twice prior to this incident. So this does not seem like the average case of cold feet to me. It seems the two families know each other. What pa

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I am not full of the best advice, but I do understand the cold feet. Man I was going to get married to my husband in Australia and I totally hyperventilated 3 days before the wedding. I didn't know if

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Thank you for your insights! I thought of postponing my flight, but I dismissed it, because it will prolong the agony of not knowing. The last time we were together was in April. We were as happy as a

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With all the hurdles you went through, you definitely deserve someone better. Someone who will step up to the plate.

YOu are amazing. No matter how much hurt you have been through you have not given up LOVE. I admire that. I wish you all the best of luck. I know that you will find that right one for you.

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WOW! That man is coward. He should have informed you of his feeling before he put you throught all this. That is very selfish of him.

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cold feet...

I remember someone told me once he had cold feet, i broke up with him the same day. i cried and cried, and one day i stopped crying , the pain went away, and my life was back on life's misterious and amazing track. few years later i found the best man any girl can ever hope for(sorry girls, i took him, and now he's mine :P )

I don't believe in cold feet. Cold feet means a very polite way to bring up the break up subject. Because cold feet means he is not sure, he is not sure he wants to spend the rest of his life with you. It's sad, and i'm sure we all at some point suffered from this disease called "brocken heart"...but nobody died, and that's a good thing, because you deserve someone who is sure he loves you, who is 1000% sure he wants to spend the rest of his life and eternity with you.

they say..everything happens for a reason, so maybe just maybe this is for the best? The guy is engaged to be married to you in two weeks and he finds he is atracted to this girl just like that...last minute. fighting for him is not the answer, you already have the answer ...and you know it..deep down in your heart you know it.

you know i heard this thing one day and i sooo agree with it " if you love someone let it go..if it comes back it's yours if not,it never was".

if he really loves you he will realize the mistake, and the fear of loosing you will drive him crazy, and then he will be the one fighting for you.

i really hope he will realize what a fool he is and you two go on and live happily ever after :luv:

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