End of the road

[Alex+R 0]

Im sorry to hear this. Maybe it's a case of cold feet and she'll reconsider. Your visa is good for six months. I don't want to give you false hope, but effectively you have till January to 'make up'.

Majizee, if you are a 'real person' and not the troll I think you are, and if you think entering on a K1 and then marrying someone other than the USC petitioner 'works' you are dead wrong. In case you are thinking of doing what you implied the OP was doing. Just a little heads up.

Oh I was just about to post both of those things! I'm glad you did first. How awesome are you?

Majizee is a real guy...unfortunately. He also hates women in general.

[TracyTN 237]

I'm very sorry to read this, drelewis.

[no name 1]

I'm sorry drelewis.

[Robor007 0]

Very sorry to hear your story. When I read the title I thought it was good news - as in the coming to the end of the process. Sorry to hear I was wrong. Maybe it will work out after some time and separation? Either way, I wish the best for you. Stay strong!

[lisaf 0]

sorry to hear,

good luck to you

[Mew 0]

Aaaawww, stories like this break my heart... I'm sorry for you guys.

[aj1 1]

Aaaawww, stories like this break my heart... I'm sorry for you guys.

Just remember one thing that True Love will endure all things. good and bad. I am sorry to hear about this. I will pray for both of you and i wish you both the best in all things in your lives.

AJ1

[noura 0]

drelewis, I'm sorry to hear of this for you... I wish you well in your life journey - wherever it may take you.

On another note, the amount of rudeness and other impolite comments (bigotry, etc.) on this board never ceases to amaze me.... it's sad, really

Noura

[drelewis 0]

******* UPDATE ************

Well i have just cancelled the honeymoon and all the flights for friends and family and just called to let her know that there is nothing to worry about.

She asked me how i felt and i said devostated and that i still loved her and wanted to be with her and that this was so tough.

She agreed and said that she still wanted to marry me and felt the same but not just yet, she said it was all just too much too soon.

I said ok but what do we do now? we cannot continue a long distance relationship as its just to hard after two years of being apart, we are both on the verge of a nervous breakdown!

As i could earn enough money for us both to live on here in the UK we are talking about spending 6 months together over here or maybe up till Jan. No promises and we are both thinking this over.

The reason i say all this and tell my story is because i think people on here should know about the hard times and not just the joy of getting a visa. Ever since i got it our relationship went down hill due to the fact that it became real. We were going to get married and she had enjoyed all the plans and dresses. I think its something we should all think about.

One step at a time.... for us. I love her and she loves me and everything is fine when we are together its the distance which is the hard part.

[NAM3 0]

Sad too sad, follow your heart and life goes on and on.....

[Sheriff Uling 3]

drelewis - Good luck! And I believe that most of us understand what you mean. Hopefully, in time, things will settle for both of you. Thanks for sharing and I wish you the very best.

[Joey559 1]

I'm really sorry to hear that . It's nice to identify with a few people who have gone through the process all at the same time and we were together in this timeline wise.

I hope you guys can try the 6month visit to the UK. I know it's what got paul and I to realize we were ready for marriage. GOOD LUCK!

Joey

Edited August 23, 2006 by Joey559

[hockeygal 0]

I'm sorry.

We all understand the problems with a long distance relationship. One step at a time is a good plan. Good luck to you both.

[JenT 0]

Take some time for yourselves now and see what happens.

After David and I met last year in August, things were serious very quickly and I was not ready. As much as I tried to be, I was too unsettled to make such a commitment that meant he would have to change his life so dramatically. I couldn't wrap my head around the fact that he could be so willing to give up his life where he was to live with me in the US after only having spent 27 hours together in August...

He was supposed to come for 6 weeks over the holidays, but I wasn't ready for that. We broke up in November and exchanged the rare text message until his birthday in January when I phoned him. I realized that my feelings were stronger than ever and that I needed to see him again. I went for 10 days in February and as soon as I saw him in the airport, that was 'IT'. When I went back in March with my kids for their spring break, he proposed and I have never had any doubts since.

Best wishes with whichever direction you choose. True love will surpass all things.

Jen

[The_dip_sticks 0]

News like this is so hard to give and take. I really hope that you can work things out. I wish you the best in what ever path you both decide to take.