Too much VJ

[AndyMisiu 0]

What has happened to me?? I used to have morals!! I used to have a life!! I remember jumping on Yodrak one time for being too Confrontational on this site. And look what happened to me, just 2 weeks later. I'm the one posting unnecessary threads, getting involved in controversy, and spending too much time on this site for the wrong reasons.

At first it was cool. I was in the middle of the process, gathering my papers, sending them in, asking questions, learning about IMBRA, waiting for NOA1, getting RFE's, and so on. Now I'm at a stale mate like everyone else. I keep coming to this site to stay connected with the process and vicariously to my fiancee.

Now that I have no more questions until I get the NOA2. I find myself getting too involved with this site and too wrapped up in the process. I'm bored with the normal things about this site and lately have been keeping my interest by proving theory's that don't even matter. Who do I think I am?? what am I doing??

I think I need to take a step back and remember why I'm here. I'm here to get advise from people who have been through what I'm heading into, and I'm here to give back the advise that I've gotten to the newbie.

I just wanted to say that I'm sorry for getting too involved, sorry for controversy, sorry if I've made anyone upset, sorry for being opinionated on others feelings, and sorry for not giving back the way I should be.

For now on I'm back to the basics! to ask and answer questions concerning the I-129F process.

God bless you all!! and good luck!!!!

[Sheriff Uling 3]

I feel the same and no worries. At the end of the day, I don't believe anyone takes anything personally. We're all human, and this site is an excellent escape from the madness of this process. Take a deep breath... regroup... and reconnect. We're all in the struggle together. I am really looking forward to our success. Keep the faith even though it's really really really hard.

[garya505 2]

Ya, I had morals once. Now if I could just remember where I misplaced them ...

[anya-D 8]

welcome to VJ addiction group

[sbgwolf1 0]

I used to work at work.....hmm

[bebop + rocksteady 0]

I'm the exact same way.

My interest in this place ebbs and flows.

One day I'll reply to every post in the forum and the other, I won't even think about coming to the site.

The days that I reply and read, I think are the days that I just need something to feel like there is progress and that I'm a step closer to getting to marry my baby. And I seem to think that maybe if I help someone else the good karma will work in my favor.

Cass (bebop the great)

[Sheriff Uling 3]

anya-D - LOL! Hi, I'm Uling... and I'm addicted to VJ!

[garya505 2]

I just have one thing to say - you PEOPLE are SICK!

[bebop + rocksteady 0]

Between the visa process and planning a wedding. I'm amazed that I haven't gotten fired yet.

Cass (bebop the great)

I used to work at work.....hmm

[sbgwolf1 0]

Between the visa process and planning a wedding. I'm amazed that I haven't gotten fired yet.

Cass (bebop the great)

I used to work at work.....hmm

Me too!!! When the new boss is appointed, I need to do something a lot more productive than live in the VJ world. (amazing how small that can feel)

wolf

[bebop + rocksteady 0]

It doesn't help me that my baby has started working third shift (we're on the same timezone) and therefore is awake for a large portion of my work day. And we are allowed to have IM programs on our computers.

*shakes head*

After noon, I pretty much don't even touch my work.

Cass (bebop the great)

Me too!!! When the new boss is appointed, I need to do something a lot more productive than live in the VJ world. (amazing how small that can feel)

wolf

[sbgwolf1 0]

It doesn't help me that my baby has started working third shift (we're on the same timezone) and therefore is awake for a large portion of my work day. And we are allowed to have IM programs on our computers.

*shakes head*

After noon, I pretty much don't even touch my work.

Cass (bebop the great)

Me too!!! When the new boss is appointed, I need to do something a lot more productive than live in the VJ world. (amazing how small that can feel)

wolf

I still am following the 'lots of paper on my desk makes me look busy' phylosophy. Of course, text messaging on my cell is kinda obvious.

wolf

[bebop + rocksteady 0]

I'm going the "have a current file open on my computer and I can switch to it on a whim" route. Seems to be working well. Except I think they are starting to notice there have been no changes in a file in the past weeks.

Cass (bebop the great)

I still am following the 'lots of paper on my desk makes me look busy' phylosophy. Of course, text messaging on my cell is kinda obvious.

wolf

[sbgwolf1 0]

I'm going the "have a current file open on my computer and I can switch to it on a whim" route. Seems to be working well. Except I think they are starting to notice there have been no changes in a file in the past weeks.

Cass (bebop the great)

I still am following the 'lots of paper on my desk makes me look busy' phylosophy. Of course, text messaging on my cell is kinda obvious.

wolf

I turned my computer around so noone sees my screen. The back of the monitor faces the aisle. Lucky I have an "L" shaped desk that allows that to happen. I see people coming and they are talking to me before they ever can get close enough to see anything on my screen

wolf

[sarah and hicham 3]

Oh so you're one of the ones who bashed Yodrak? Good to know. haha.