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papillonlover   0

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I am so sorry for what you are going through. There are no words that can make you feel any better, but know that we are all thinking of you.

HUGE hugs for you...

Met on Facebook: 2009-04

Met in Cyprus and stayed for a month: 2010-04

Started the K1 visa journey: 2010-06

Enagaged: 2010-08-20

Leaving to bring him home: 2010-11-13

Service Center: Vermont Service Center

Consulate: Cyprus

I-129F Sent: 2010-06-12

I-129F NOA1: 2010-06-19

I-129F RFE(s: 2010-07-13

RFE Reply(s): 2010-08-10

I-129F NOA2: 2010-09-03

NVC Received: 2010-09-07

NVC Left : 2010-09-17

Interview Date: 2010-11-19 9am

Your I-129f was approved in 76 days from your NOA1 date.

Your interview took 153 days from your I-129F NOA1 date.

‎"Time is nothing. The desire to love you is everything."

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Rebecca Jo
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Amyydukk, I'm sorry this is happening to you. It can't be easy. As usual, Nik & Heather's advice is perfect. As she has said, don't do anything hasty. My next comments aren't just for you, but

Mel1990
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): I'm so sorry to hear that. I hate being in those situations myself. he hasn't even told you why?? Truthfully, i wouldn't withdraw the petition just yet incase this is some form coldfeet and last m

leahandlucas
leahandlucas

Hmmmm...i dont know what to tell you...but maybe there's more to the story than what he is telling you...or maybe you's both have had stress/arguements lately due to the whole distance thing... If it

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Fandango   1,439

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Personally? I'd let it linger until it ages out. Sometime after you get NOA2, he'll rec packet 3. I wonder what his reaction to that would be....

I'm terribly sorry you're going through this (F) But I totally believe that if it's really done, it just means that this wasn't for you...

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gap1   21

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I just can't find the words...I'm heartbroken for you. :(

Naturalization Process (FINALLY!)

05.29.14 - N-400 filed

06.02.14 - Packet received at the Lewisville Texas Center

06.05.14 - Check cleared

06.04.14 - NOA date

06.13.14 - Biometrics letter received

07.02.14 - Biometrics appointment

07.07.14 - In line

07.17.14 - 'Yellow Paper' date

09.10.14 - Interview scheduled NOA date

10.15.14 - Interview date

10.15.14 - RFE (missing documentation)

10.21.14 - RFE response received in NYC facility

11.04.14 - Oath ceremony scheduled, approved!

11.19.14 - Oath ceremony (8:30am) in Brooklyn - Completed! DONE WITH USCIS!

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Ryan H   3,812

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I'm sorry this has happened to you. I'll never get how people can just suddenly do something like that without even considering the heartache it will inevitably leave behind. Classless if you ask me.

Anyway, take care of yourself and I hope better days are ahead for you.

Our journey:

Spoiler

September 2007: Met online via social networking site (MySpace); began exchanging messages.
March 26, 2009: We become a couple!
September 10, 2009: Arrived for first meeting in-person!
June 17, 2010: Arrived for second in-person meeting and start of travel together to other areas of China!
June 21, 2010: Engaged!!!
September 1, 2010: Switched course from K1 to CR-1
December 8, 2010: Wedding date set; it will be on February 18, 2011!
February 9, 2011: Depart for China
February 11, 2011: Registered for marriage in Wuhan, officially married!!!
February 18, 2011: Wedding ceremony in Shiyan!!!
April 22, 2011: Mailed I-130 to Chicago
April 28, 2011: Received NOA1 via text/email, file routed to CSC (priority date April 25th)
April 29, 2011: Updated
May 3, 2011: Received NOA1 hardcopy in mail
July 26, 2011: Received NOA2 via text/email!!!
July 30, 2011: Received NOA2 hardcopy in mail
August 8, 2011: NVC received file
September 1, 2011: NVC case number assigned
September 2, 2011: AOS invoice received, OPTIN email for EP sent
September 7, 2011: Paid AOS bill (payment portal showed PAID on September 9, 2011)
September 8, 2011: OPTIN email accepted, GZO number assigned
September 10, 2011: Emailed AOS package
September 12, 2011: IV bill invoiced
September 13, 2011: Paid IV bill (payment portal showed PAID on September 14, 2011)
September 14, 2011: Emailed IV package
October 3, 2011: Emailed checklist response (checklist generated due to typo on Form DS-230)
October 6, 2011: Case complete at NVC
November 10, 2011: Interview - APPROVED!!!
December 7, 2011: POE - Sea-Tac Airport

September 17, 2013: Mailed I-751 to CSC

September 23, 2013: Received NOA1 in mail (receipt date September 19th)

October 16, 2013: Biometrics Appointment

January 28, 2014: Production of new Green Card ordered

February 3, 2014: New Green Card received; done with USCIS until fall of 2023*

December 18, 2023:  Filed I-90 to renew Green Card

December 21, 2023:  Production of new Green Card ordered - will be seeing USCIS again every 10 years for renewal

 

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Lucy NY   1

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We love you and miss you already :blush: Be strong hun. I again wouldnt recommend it just yet either.....wait a while, you have time. U are not in the right frame of mind anyway.....concentrate on yourself at the moment. Love xxxxxx

I129F Petition Sent: End of June '10
NOA1 - 17th July '10
Touches - 23rd July & 3rd October '10
NOA2 - 30th December '10 - A great new yr gift
NVC Rec'd - 4th January '11
NVC Sent - 5th January '11
Embassy Received - 8th January '11
Embassy Recorded - 11th January '11
Packet 3 Forms sent - 11th January '11
Visa Fee Paid - 18th January '11
Packet 3 Forms Logged - 24th January '11
Medical Exam - 10th February '11
Embassy Received Medical Results - 15th February '11
London Consulate K1 Visa Interview - 11th March '11
JFK Port of Entry - 24th March '11

Removal Of Conditions.

Petition Signed for - 26th August 2013

Check Cashed - 11th September 2013

NOA1 -

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Aztec&Taino   144

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I'm heartbroken. I don't know what happened. He called it off, says he doesn't want to be with me. Maybe he never loved me, but I sure loved him. My life feels like it's in complete shambles. I wish I could just wake up and this would all have been a bad dream. But unfortunately it's not.

I need to know what I have to do to close my k-1 petition. It's still at VSC waiting to be adjudicated. Please tell me I don't have to wait for my NOA2. I don't think I could stand to see it in the mailbox after all this heartbreak.

I am so so sorry to read this. But, isn't there hope? Maybe the stress of being apart got to him and he said something he did not mean. Could you further talk with him about his decision and his reasons to make sure this is a final decision? Once you are sure, you could call USCIS to find out the official way to request closing your petition. Yet, I still have hope that things may be sorted out! If not, remember that you have your VJ family still and that we are quite sympathetic and supportive of you.

Best wishes!

August 23, 2010 - I-129 F package sent via USPS priority mail with delivery confirmation.

August 30, 2010 - Per Department of Homeland Security (DHS) e-mail, petition received and routed to California Service Center for processing. Check cashed. I-797C Notice of Action by mail (NOA 1) - Received date 08/25/2010. Notice date 08/27/2010.

After 150 days of imposed anxious patience...

January 24, 2011 - Per USCIS website, petition approved and notice mailed.

January 31, 2011 - Approval receipt notice (NOA 2) received by mail. Called NVC, given Santo Domingo case number, and informed that petition was sent same day to consulate.

Called Visa Specialist at the Department of State every day for a case update. Informed of interview date on February, 16 2011. Informed that packet was mailed to fiance on February, 15 2011.

February 21, 2011 - Fiance has not yet received packet. Called 1-877-804-5402 (Visa Information Center of the United States Embassy) to request a duplicate packet in person pick-up at the US consulate in Santo Domingo. Packet can be picked-up by fiance on 02/28.

March 1, 2011 - Medical exam completed at Consultorios de Visa in Santo Domingo.

March 9, 2011 at 6 AM - Interview, approved!

March 18, 2011 - POE together. JFK and O'Hare airports. Legal wedding: May 16, 2011.

Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined.

-Henry David Thoreau

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RightClicK Community Regular

RightClicK   17

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It might be a test , he is going to leave his whole country and live with you , so just hold on and be strong and we are all here for you , but i don't recommend you to wait until NOA2 , wait a month or something and see if he got back...if he didn't then he choose .

Btw , Thank god , he might been a bad person and you didn't know or he would do something to you after getting there or leaving after the visa..so what happened might be good .

Beautiful patience.

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I'm so sorry to hear about this Amyyduck! I know how hard this process is, and to have him back out on you like that, that's awful. Still it's far better to have it happen now than after getting married. I know it probably doesn't make you feel any better though. :(

If I've read your story correctly, you are both still pretty young, maybe fresh out of college? He could just be having a freak-out and will come around. I would wait a week or two to see if anything changes. Maybe in time you'll come back to each other.

Good luck no matter what happens.

I'm the USC petitioner.

Timeline:

10/06/2005 Met in Ireland while I was on a study abroad

03/15/2010 K-1 NOA1

05/27/2010 K-1 NOA2

09/10/2010 K-1 Interview

09/22/2010 POE

10/01/2010 Wedding

10/27/2010 AOS/EAD/AP NOA1s

12/22/2010 EAD/AP Approved

04/05/2011 AOS Approved - no interview

04/09/2011 Green Card received

01/24/2013 ROC NOA1

06/28/2013 ROC Approved - no interview

07/05/2013 10-year Green Card received

08/19/2014 N-400 NOA

12/06/2014 N-400 Interview

01/09/2014 Naturalization ceremony

My husband is now a US Citizen! Our journey is over!

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Sorry to hear that Amy...I am sure things will work out for you in the end and in the future you will look back on this only as a slight bump in the road.

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gap1   21

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You don't know what happened , so don't assume , and don't curse .

Don't curse? Seriously? :lol:

He is a jerk for doing this to her.

Naturalization Process (FINALLY!)

05.29.14 - N-400 filed

06.02.14 - Packet received at the Lewisville Texas Center

06.05.14 - Check cleared

06.04.14 - NOA date

06.13.14 - Biometrics letter received

07.02.14 - Biometrics appointment

07.07.14 - In line

07.17.14 - 'Yellow Paper' date

09.10.14 - Interview scheduled NOA date

10.15.14 - Interview date

10.15.14 - RFE (missing documentation)

10.21.14 - RFE response received in NYC facility

11.04.14 - Oath ceremony scheduled, approved!

11.19.14 - Oath ceremony (8:30am) in Brooklyn - Completed! DONE WITH USCIS!

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RightClicK   17

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Don't curse? Seriously? :lol:

He is a jerk for doing this to her.

You seem to be a part of their relationship....and seem to hear all of their calls to each other and see all of their chats huh, Don't assume ,No offense but she might did something to him, you don't know the reason ,you don't know whats between them so......

Beautiful patience.

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thelastpetitioner   218

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sam,while i respect you as a member,you dont know what HE did to her,so you have to stay out of it as much as you want others to,we know amy,amy is our friend,so naturally we will comment based on what is best for her in our mind.it would only make sense

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Penny Lane   8,159

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I'm heartbroken. I don't know what happened. He called it off, says he doesn't want to be with me. Maybe he never loved me, but I sure loved him. My life feels like it's in complete shambles. I wish I could just wake up and this would all have been a bad dream. But unfortunately it's not.

I need to know what I have to do to close my k-1 petition. It's still at VSC waiting to be adjudicated. Please tell me I don't have to wait for my NOA2. I don't think I could stand to see it in the mailbox after all this heartbreak.

Oh my god, Amy... I'm so, so sorry. I hate to see this post coming from you. :( I wish you the best, and if you ever need someone to talk to, I'm around.

And Sam, we are simply trying to be here for a friend. Nobody here needs you to come in and start dictating our behaviour.

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