how to close my petition

[Amyyduck 20]

Thank you all for your kind words and support.

I tried to talk to him about it, I said everything I could think to say to get him to reconsider, to take more time and to talk it through with me. He didn't want to hear any of it. We were supposed to see each other in 3 weeks for Thanksgiving and he wasn't even willing to wait until then to see me in person and work through things. I even offered to give up my life here and move to England to be with him, but he didn't want to hear that either.

I guess I will call USCIS when I am calmer. I don't think they'd be able to even understand me right now through the sobs.

jrmejia, please don't let a small argument come between you two. Give her some space for a day or two and then apologize and talk it out. You'll get through it. Do everything in your power to make sure this is not the end. Hopefully you will be more successful than I.

[Nikki + Tomislav 7]

Oh Amy, I'm so sorry. My heart really breaks for you. I'd recommend you take a bit more time before you close the petition though. I'm so sorry

[Mel1990 3]

I'm so sorry to hear this happened to you. D:

Much as I wish to ask what happened, I know it's a personal matter. It seems you already tried talking to him...): I wish I could say more of what to do.

I've had fights with my fiance where I wouldn't talk to him or ages, told him it's over. ect...but each time we both come around after the tears and anger. D: I pray you two might find someway.

[jrmejia 31]

a friendly one! since we are almost in same situation

[♥Muslimqueen♥ 2]

you deserve better hunny dont let it get you down.

[jrmejia 31]

are you sure is over i mean couples always have there "dont talk to be anymore" or "dont ever call me again" but its just in the heat od the mommet, good luck

it is the final notice

[Amyyduck 20]

Much as I wish to ask what happened, I know it's a personal matter.

Mel I would gladly tell you what happened, if only I knew for myself..

[thelastpetitioner 218]

how long have you been together,as a couple?

[Amyyduck 20]

how long have you been together,as a couple?

Officially we'd been together a year and a half. But we'd been friends since we were 10 years old.

[thelastpetitioner 218]

i asked because if you know him well enough,if you know this is not like him,and if you think there is the slightest chance of things turning around i suggest you dont withdraw just yet.you are so far along,it would suck to close it for the sake of a mental break down and regret it later on.

[marklovetina 52]

Thank you all for your kind words and support.

I tried to talk to him about it, I said everything I could think to say to get him to reconsider, to take more time and to talk it through with me. He didn't want to hear any of it. We were supposed to see each other in 3 weeks for Thanksgiving and he wasn't even willing to wait until then to see me in person and work through things. I even offered to give up my life here and move to England to be with him, but he didn't want to hear that either.

I guess I will call USCIS when I am calmer. I don't think they'd be able to even understand me right now through the sobs.

jrmejia, please don't let a small argument come between you two. Give her some space for a day or two and then apologize and talk it out. You'll get through it. Do everything in your power to make sure this is not the end. Hopefully you will be more successful than I.

so sorry for what happened.. sad... but all of what u are experiencing right now has a reason, pray and move on... good luck and God bless..

[Mel1990 3]

Mel I would gladly tell you what happened, if only I knew for myself..

): I'm so sorry to hear that. I hate being in those situations myself. he hasn't even told you why??

Truthfully, i wouldn't withdraw the petition just yet incase this is some form coldfeet and last minute mental breaking. Considing he is seemingly speaking to you. try to find out at least 'what' happened. o3o

Best of luck. pm me if you need someone to chat with.

[REINITA♥REY 8]

So sorry to hear about this. I hope he has a revelation and it can work out. If not, at least it happened now before it was more permanent. Take care and best of luck.

[Caribbean Lady 3]

Sorry Amy......I hope things work out for the best for your sake. Like others are saying, most couples have these type of talks and disagreements and if he really loves you, he'll be back. You are in my thoughts and prayers..be strong!

[leahandlucas 15]

Hmmmm...i dont know what to tell you...but maybe there's more to the story than what he is telling you...or maybe you's both have had stress/arguements lately due to the whole distance thing...

If its not the whole distance thing,...then something has happened on his end,that he has not told you because you said that you yourself do not even know.

So i hope that he will at least to the RIGHT thing and be HONEST with you so you can have some peace of mind,heart and tranqulity