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Love of My Life   2

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Hello everyone. Just a quick note to say hi to all the folks here.

Looks like some great information available here too. But just a quick question for those experienced folks out there.

My lovely soon to be wife (she's the American) has been having some difficulties with the physical "separation" during various stages of this journey. I was hoping if there were a few American women out there, maybe even in the western part of the country, that I could hook her up with for some moral support. And if close enough, have a coffee or two with etc etc. By all means, feel free to PM me if you like.

Thanks in advance, with any luck our own personal VISA journey will not take too long. And for those of you already hung up in the process, best of luck to you as well.

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carolynhotstuff   252

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Hello,

Welcome to Visa Journey and congratulations on your marriage proposal. That was very sweet of her to ask you to marry her.

We all know that long distance relationships are hard. You have to have a great deal of love and commitment to one another to make them work. You said at times she finds the physical separation difficult and most likely no matter what you do she will always find it difficult. It's the not knowing that bothers her I think. Not knowing when you will finally be living with her here in the States.

I haven't been with my husband in well over a year. We are at the end of the visa process and it's been very hard on both of us. The thing that keeps me going and keeps me sane is that we are in constant contact. There is not a day that goes by where he doesn't call me or come online. He doesn't take me for granted but tells me everyday how much he loves me and that he can't live without me.

We have had some problems along the way in getting our visa. Most, if not all, of the couples that filed their I-130 petitions with us are already here together in the States. That is heart-breaking to me and my husband. Yet we don't give up because we want so badly to be together.

The fact that you came online to ask for someone to write to her, shows you love her a great deal. Encourage her to visit you as often as possible. Make sure she talks to you everyday. Send her cards and love letters. Be a romantic man and a kind, understanding one.

Both of you take care of yourselves and love one another.

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Hello, welcome to VJ. Wishing you the best on your Journey.. :thumbs:

2005---We met by friend/Church member that was living in Nigeria

2006---We begin to talk about getting married

2007---I was going to met him face to face, but hurt my back couldn't walk..

2009---Was able to see each for the first time.. I got my engagement ring (WOW).. :wow:

2010-01-22 mailed I129f

2010-01-26 got NOA1

2010-05-12 called to see why no NOA2, I was told that our case is not being processed yet!!!!! No notes in the computer

other then the mailing of the NOA1!!!!!!! :angry:

2010-05-18 called SERVICE CENTER again to see what's going on with our case.. NOT BEING PROCESSED YET I WAS TOLD AGAIN!!!

2010-06-16 Got notice that NOA2 was approved 141 days after NOA1. We got our approval on Ossy's Birthday.. Happy birthday honey, I love you!!!!

2010-06-21 got NOA2 in hand

2010-06-22 called NVC to see if papers was there, but was told that my DOB was not right in the system. Just mailed a letter along with a copy of my birth certificate asking to change my DOB.. Way to go VCS..

2010-06-22 NVC received the case

2010-06-23 Case sent to Embassy in Barbados

2010-06-28 Embassy received our case

2010-08-09 Interview Administrative Review

2010-11-15 Approved for Visa (I was on the mission to make sure the INTERVIEWER that we had never interviewed anyone else and I did it).. Know that you have right and don't let the interviewer cross the line..

2010-12-10 Visa and Passport in hand!!! Thank God!!!

2010-12-19 Ossy will enter the States!!

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