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Divorce after 1 month in US....Long-sad-story

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james&olya   1,121

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well after digging around.. THE REXIE is gone.. and so is johnny.. sad story.. but i assume it happens alot

Johnny is still around I think. He had posted a while back about a trip he was making to Ukraine. I would also love to hear an update on this story as well as how his Ukraine connections are going!

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Johnny, you are clearly a kind, smart, honorable guy and I wish you the best in your future.

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It’s been almost 4 months since my last post on VJ. Mainly I’ve just been too embarrassed by recent events with my marriage and upcoming divorce. I’m mainly posting this story so others in this situ

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LOL! I think it's hilariously ironic that someone called 'Happy Bunny' is having a disagreement with someone called 'Hop'

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I have to say though...my MIL is from the Philippines and I have met some of her family as well so yeah...their family bonds and way of handling things can be way different than what I was used to, i.e. my MIL went to a fair the day her husband died...she didn't think if that would look appropriate or not for (western) people around her.

In the Filipino culture, what your MIL did is considered very very VERY rude

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I was in a rush and I ended up breaking off our relationship and then got tangled with this filipina who couldn't wait to get to the US for obvious reasons.

This girl is from my country! Yep a lot of them are like that (not all though,obviously.. lol). I'm glad you got through it. Indeed your daughter is very pretty :)

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yeah family can be a b**ch and ruin relationships but in your case it was your wife that screwed up everything. im really sorry for what you had to go through. i feel a small piece of that thing and i hope you'll soon find the woman you've been looking for. i almost divorced 4 days after marriage because of my husband's family

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Ok, I'll be the bad guy here. From another perspective - mine - you were talking advantage of a young, naive and, I am guessing, very poor girl. Because you obviously weren't into it for her mind or soul, were you? I am guessing she is hot and young and that sealed the deal for you. I am sorry, but I am not really blaming her for wanting a way out of poverty ans someone younger and unattached to go to bed with.


USCIS [*] 22 Nov. 2011 - I-129 package sent; [*] 25 Nov. 2011 - Package delivered; [*] 25 Nov. 2011 - NOA1/petition received and routed to the California Service Center; [*] 30 Nov. 2011 - Touched/confirmation though text message and email; [*] 03 Dec. 2011 - Hard copy received; [*]24 April 2012 - NOA2 (no RFEs)/text message/email/USCIS account updated; [*] 27 April 2012 - NOA2 hard copy received.

NVC [*] 14 May 2012 - Petition received by NVC ; [*] 16 May 2012 - Petition left NVC.

EMBASSY [*] 18 May 2012 - Petition arrived at the US Embassy in Bucharest; [*] 22 May 2012 - Package 3 received; [*] 24 May 2012 - Package sent to the consulate, interview date set; [*] 14 June 2012 - Interview date, approved.

POE [*] 04 July 2012 - Minneapolis/St.Paul. [*] 16 September 2012 - Wedding Day!

AOS/EAD/AP [*] 04 February 2013 - AOS/EAD/AP package sent; [*] 07 February 2013 - AOS/EAD/AP package delivered; [*] 12 February 2013 - NOA1 text messages/emails; [*] 16 February 2013 - NOA1 received in the regular mail; [*] 28 February 2013 - Biometrics letter received (appointment date, March 8th); [*] 04 March 2013 - Biometrics walk-in completed (9 out of 10 fingerprints taken, pinky would not give in); [*] 04 April 2013 - EAD/AP card approved; [*] 11 April 2013 - Combo card sent/tracking number obtained; [*] 15 April 2013 - Card delivered.

[*] 15 May 2013 - Moved from MN to LA; [*] 17 May 2013 - Applied for a new SS card/filed an AR-11 online (unsuccessfully), therefore called and spoke to a Tier 2 and changed the address; [*] 22 May 2013 - Address updated on My Case Status (finally can see the case numbers online); [*] 28 May 2013 - Letter received in the mail confirming the change of address; [*] 31 July 2013 - Went to Romania; [*] 12 September 2013 - returned to the US using the AP, POE Houston, everything went smoothly; [*] 20 September 2013 - Spoke to a Tier2 and put in a service request; [*] 23 September 2013 - Got "Possible Interview Waiver" letter (originally sent on August, 29th to my old address, returned and re-routed to my current address); [*] 1 October 2013 - Started a new job.

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Ok, I'll be the bad guy here. From another perspective - mine - you were talking advantage of a young, naive and, I am guessing, very poor girl. Because you obviously weren't into it for her mind or soul, were you? I am guessing she is hot and young and that sealed the deal for you. I am sorry, but I am not really blaming her for wanting a way out of poverty ans someone younger and unattached to go to bed with.

sometimes a guy just falls in love with a girl for who she appears to be. sometimes "taking advantage" and this kind of stuff is not even in the picture. sometimes it's just part of the background that there is a difference in economic status. sometimes the guy is the "naive" one in the picture. sometimes the guy is in it for the mind and soul the girl shares with him. sometimes she doesn't share the truth, but he has from the beginning.

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But most of the time the guy is just a creep.


USCIS [*] 22 Nov. 2011 - I-129 package sent; [*] 25 Nov. 2011 - Package delivered; [*] 25 Nov. 2011 - NOA1/petition received and routed to the California Service Center; [*] 30 Nov. 2011 - Touched/confirmation though text message and email; [*] 03 Dec. 2011 - Hard copy received; [*]24 April 2012 - NOA2 (no RFEs)/text message/email/USCIS account updated; [*] 27 April 2012 - NOA2 hard copy received.

NVC [*] 14 May 2012 - Petition received by NVC ; [*] 16 May 2012 - Petition left NVC.

EMBASSY [*] 18 May 2012 - Petition arrived at the US Embassy in Bucharest; [*] 22 May 2012 - Package 3 received; [*] 24 May 2012 - Package sent to the consulate, interview date set; [*] 14 June 2012 - Interview date, approved.

POE [*] 04 July 2012 - Minneapolis/St.Paul. [*] 16 September 2012 - Wedding Day!

AOS/EAD/AP [*] 04 February 2013 - AOS/EAD/AP package sent; [*] 07 February 2013 - AOS/EAD/AP package delivered; [*] 12 February 2013 - NOA1 text messages/emails; [*] 16 February 2013 - NOA1 received in the regular mail; [*] 28 February 2013 - Biometrics letter received (appointment date, March 8th); [*] 04 March 2013 - Biometrics walk-in completed (9 out of 10 fingerprints taken, pinky would not give in); [*] 04 April 2013 - EAD/AP card approved; [*] 11 April 2013 - Combo card sent/tracking number obtained; [*] 15 April 2013 - Card delivered.

[*] 15 May 2013 - Moved from MN to LA; [*] 17 May 2013 - Applied for a new SS card/filed an AR-11 online (unsuccessfully), therefore called and spoke to a Tier 2 and changed the address; [*] 22 May 2013 - Address updated on My Case Status (finally can see the case numbers online); [*] 28 May 2013 - Letter received in the mail confirming the change of address; [*] 31 July 2013 - Went to Romania; [*] 12 September 2013 - returned to the US using the AP, POE Houston, everything went smoothly; [*] 20 September 2013 - Spoke to a Tier2 and put in a service request; [*] 23 September 2013 - Got "Possible Interview Waiver" letter (originally sent on August, 29th to my old address, returned and re-routed to my current address); [*] 1 October 2013 - Started a new job.

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http://voices.yahoo.com/almost-legal-citizen-but-not-quite-12155565.html?cat=9

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But most of the time the guy is just a creep.

Good point. It's always the guys fault. Id love to drop you in Bangkok for a week. I'd make a fortune.'

Smoke another one.

:rofl:

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Ok, I'll be the bad guy here. From another perspective - mine - you were talking advantage of a young, naive and, I am guessing, very poor girl. Because you obviously weren't into it for her mind or soul, were you? I am guessing she is hot and young and that sealed the deal for you. I am sorry, but I am not really blaming her for wanting a way out of poverty ans someone younger and unattached to go to bed with.

But most of the time the guy is just a creep.

^^^ I see you are still, as rlogan so accurately describes it, "opening your mouth and removing all doubt"... :bonk:

Smoke another one.

:rofl:

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Current cut off date F2A - Current 

Brother's Journey (F2A) - PD Dec 30, 2010


Dec 30 2010 - Notice of Action 1 (NOA1)
May 12 2011 - Notice of Action 2 (NOA2)
May 23 2011 - NVC case # Assigned
Nov 17 2011 - COA / I-864 received
Nov 18 2011 - Sent COA
Apr 30 2012 - Pay AOS fee
Oct 15 2012 - Pay IV fee
Oct 25 2012 - Sent AOS/IV Package
Oct 29 2012 - Pkg Delivered
Dec 24 2012 - Case Complete
May 17 2013 - Interview-Approved

July 19 2013 - Enter the USA

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del-2-5-2014   1,339

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I think people need to ask themself, would a 21 year old girl in the U.S. date a 47 year old men, they call the sugar dady.

It depends on their culture.

For two people from the same country, perhaps it's in their culture as is common in Africa.

The thing here is that baring any personal previous and/or moral issue, it's up to the two individuals to decipher what works for them.

As an example, I've heard that in the Philippines, that it is not normal for a 21 year old Woman to marry a 45 year old Man while in Nigeria that specific relationship is normal. The reversal is abnormal in both countries.

YMMV.

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THIS THREAD IS 2 YEARS OLD. LET IT REST IN PEACE.

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