Question about pulling Sponsorship

[Kathryn41 3,205]

I am sorry that your marriage is faltering. It sounds like you have given it a good 'go' but there are too many obstacles to overcome. You do have the option at the interview to ask to speak to the adjudicator privately and explain to him your circumstances if you feel uncomfortable talking about these things in her presence. Just tell them the truth about what has happened, that you suspect your wife of using you for a green card, and state you would like to pull your sponsorship at that time. You can, of course, do this in the actual interview with both of you present but if that sounds overwhelming you can ask to speak to the adjudicator privately as well. With the affidavit of support 'pulled' the adjudicator will have no option but to deny her AOS application. She will not get a green card, and by doing this at the interview, it is unlikely a VAWA claim from her would be treated credibly as you have already talked to USCIS about your reasons for not continuing with the green card process. It sounds harsh, yes, but it is still an option that you can use. Good luck to you, and again, I am sorry you are having to go through this pain.

Edited November 15, 2010 by Kathryn41