to all pakistanis

[dynex12 0]

visa journey helped me put together my husbands visa and it did get him here to the US. the reason am voicing out to the pakistanis is that he walked out on me, yes left and took his bags and walked out, we have been together for 6 years, married, and our son is turning 3 years old soon. i am wondering why someone would do something like this? is it because i am not muslim and not pakistani? just venting.

[dynex12 0]

visa journey helped me put together my husbands visa and it did get him here to the US. the reason am voicing out to the pakistanis is that he walked out on me, yes left and took his bags and walked out, we have been together for 6 years, married, and our son is turning 3 years old soon. i am wondering why someone would do something like this? is it because i am not muslim and not pakistani? just venting.

[ELW 5]

I am so sorry that happened to you. But may I say that there are so many reasons for things not to work out, it's not as if its due to different cultures, though it may be a partial cause sometimes. So many other things are involved - personalities, habits, tendencies. Maybe you two can work it out...sending prayers for you and your small son.

[Laveau 67]

Did he not give you a reason why he left?

How are you hanging in there?

[^_^ 5,021]

i am wondering why someone would do something like this? is it because i am not muslim and not pakistani? just venting.

There could be any number of reasons. You're married to him, you're probably in the best position to answer.

[dynex12 0]

We were fighting alot,i guess i was mean to him, also i didnt feel like he knew what he was doing here in america, had only been here 7 months and he didnt really get up to plan his life out here and i got so frustrated and got angry when i got home and how i was treating him. but all i wanted was for him to work hard for us his family and his son, he went to his uncles, said we were too different

[ghanagal 2]

Aww I am so sorry for you, I hope things work out for you however you want. Stop being mean to him, marriage takes two I uderstand but you need to have a lil patience with him. Good luck!

[dynex12 0]

green card is still conditional, still waiting for him to respond to me, does not call does not answer emails. no real answer about wanting to be with his son - just said i will do a father role.

[Batta 6]

I wonder what made you marry him in the 1st place? If you both are different!

[Ban Hammer 13,364]

moved from mena regional to Asia: South regional as pakistan is in that regional section.

[R.&S. 2]

Make things right between him and you. Life is so short.. Hopefully he will also understand that.

pray!

Good luck.

[Saddle Bronc 124]

I wonder what made you marry him in the 1st place? If you both are different!

You do recognise that there are stacks of VJ'ers for whom your question would apply?

[Batta 6]

The reason I asked this question was for her to look back and see what are the good things to which it made them to come together and possible try to work from that point!

[Ban Hammer 13,364]

duplicate topics have been merged.

[dynex12 0]

im waiting for him hopefully he will come around back to me and his son =( in the meantime i am so alone and so hurtful. i will pray