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Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Ecuador
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yo si estoy trabajando. mucho trabajo ultimamente. mi esposa se queda en casa. :D

gracias.

que tal con ustedes?

Daniel

:energetic:

meh.... the wife is working... I am looking after "seperation" from last position :P she wanted to stay in medical field.. and shortest way was to get her into CNA course which she completed with ease (being MD in EC) and she is with a placement co here. next month starting in on Net Admin classes with Securities push.. maybe if I get the CISSP ... i can almost make about half as much as the wife after she completes the USMLE reqs :P but since she wants to ulitmately go into neonatal reconstructive surgery... i doubt i'll get half. but is ok... i', not chauvenistic in the dinero dept.. if she can make more.. she can spend more (there's this porche i been lookin at :whistle: ) :lol::lol:

when does/will your wife be workin? or she would prefer to be family mom soon? (my wife i know wants a little clonelette soon)

James & Sara - Aug 12, 05

Humanity... destined to pass the baton shortly.

Filed: Other Country: India
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yo si estoy trabajando. mucho trabajo ultimamente. mi esposa se queda en casa. :D

gracias.

que tal con ustedes?

Daniel

:energetic:

meh.... the wife is working... I am looking after "seperation" from last position :P she wanted to stay in medical field.. and shortest way was to get her into CNA course which she completed with ease (being MD in EC) and she is with a placement co here. next month starting in on Net Admin classes with Securities push.. maybe if I get the CISSP ... i can almost make about half as much as the wife after she completes the USMLE reqs :P but since she wants to ulitmately go into neonatal reconstructive surgery... i doubt i'll get half. but is ok... i', not chauvenistic in the dinero dept.. if she can make more.. she can spend more (there's this porche i been lookin at :whistle: ) :lol::lol:

when does/will your wife be workin? or she would prefer to be family mom soon? (my wife i know wants a little clonelette soon)

clonelette? :P

Married since 9-18-04(All K1 visa & GC details in timeline.)

Ishu tum he mere Prabhu:::Jesus you are my Lord

Filed: K-3 Visa Country: Mexico
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yo si estoy trabajando. mucho trabajo ultimamente. mi esposa se queda en casa. :D

gracias.

que tal con ustedes?

Daniel

:energetic:

meh.... the wife is working... I am looking after "seperation" from last position :P she wanted to stay in medical field.. and shortest way was to get her into CNA course which she completed with ease (being MD in EC) and she is with a placement co here. next month starting in on Net Admin classes with Securities push.. maybe if I get the CISSP ... i can almost make about half as much as the wife after she completes the USMLE reqs :P but since she wants to ulitmately go into neonatal reconstructive surgery... i doubt i'll get half. but is ok... i', not chauvenistic in the dinero dept.. if she can make more.. she can spend more (there's this porche i been lookin at :whistle: ) :lol::lol:

when does/will your wife be workin? or she would prefer to be family mom soon? (my wife i know wants a little clonelette soon)

excellent!

me and the little woman do want be ummm how do you say... of family way? :P so, yeah, that kind complicates the career path. she was an adminastrator at a univ in mexico. she loves the atmosphere and would love doing similar work here. we haven't got a 'master' plan so to speak. que sera sera.

Daniel

:energetic:

Ana (Mexico) ------ Daniel (California)(me)

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Sept. 11, 2004: Got married (civil), in Mexico :D

July 23, 2005: Church wedding

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K3(I-129F):

Oct. 28, 2004: Mailed I-129F.

~USPS, First-Class, Certified Mail, Rtn Recpt ($5.80)

Nov. 3, 2004: NOA1!!!!

Nov. 5, 2004: Check Cashed!!

zzzz deep hibernationn zzzz

May 12, 2005 NOA2!!!! #######!!! huh???

off to NVC.

May 26, 2005: NVC approves I129F.

CR1(I-130):

Oct. 6, 2004: Mailed I-130.

~USPS, First-Class, Certified Mail, Rtn Recpt ($5.80)

Oct. 8, 2004: I-130 Delivered to CSC in Laguna Niguel.

~Per USPS website's tracking tool.

Oct. 12, 2004 BCIS-CSC Signs for I-130 packet.

Oct. 21, 2004 Check cashed!

Oct. 25, 2004 NOA1 (I-130) Go CSC!!

Jan. 05, 2005 Approved!!!! Off to NVC!!!!

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NVC:

Jan. 05, 2005 ---> in route from CSC

Jan. 12, 2005 Case entered system

Jan. 29, 2005 Received I-864 Bill

Jan. 31, 2005 Sent Payment to St. Louis(I864)

Feb. 01, 2005 Wife received DS3032(Choice of Agent)

Feb. 05, 2005 Payment Received in St. Louis(I864)

Feb. 08, 2005 Sent DS3032 to Portsmouth NH

Feb. 12, 2005 DS3032 Received by NVC

Mar. 04, 2005 Received IV Bill

Mar. 04, 2005 Sent IV Bill Payment

Mar. 08, 2005 Received I864

Mar. 19, 2005 Sent I864

Mar. 21, 2005 I864 Received my NVC

Apr. 18, 2005 Received DS230

Apr. 19, 2005 Sent DS230

Apr. 20, 2005 DS230 received by NVC (signed by S Merfeld)

Apr. 22, 2005 DS230 entered NVC system

Apr. 27, 2005 CASE COMPLETE

May 10, 2005 CASE SENT TO JUAREZ

Off to Cd. Juarez! :D

calls to NVC: 6

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CIUDAD JUAREZ, American Consulate:

Apr. 27, 2005 case completed at NVC.

May 10, 2005 in route to Juarez.

May 25, 2005 Case at consulate.

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Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Ecuador
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excellent!

me and the little woman do want be ummm how do you say... of family way? :P so, yeah, that kind complicates the career path. she was an adminastrator at a univ in mexico. she loves the atmosphere and would love doing similar work here. we haven't got a 'master' plan so to speak. que sera sera.

Daniel

:energetic:

yeah... but the job is kinda comin first... i hear rug-rats are expensive :o

James & Sara - Aug 12, 05

Humanity... destined to pass the baton shortly.

Filed: K-3 Visa Country: Mexico
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yeah... but the job is kinda comin first... i hear rug-rats are expensive :o

tax deductible i am told. besides, as the saying in mexico goes: just add more water to the beans!

Daniel

:energetic:

Ana (Mexico) ------ Daniel (California)(me)

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Sept. 11, 2004: Got married (civil), in Mexico :D

July 23, 2005: Church wedding

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K3(I-129F):

Oct. 28, 2004: Mailed I-129F.

~USPS, First-Class, Certified Mail, Rtn Recpt ($5.80)

Nov. 3, 2004: NOA1!!!!

Nov. 5, 2004: Check Cashed!!

zzzz deep hibernationn zzzz

May 12, 2005 NOA2!!!! #######!!! huh???

off to NVC.

May 26, 2005: NVC approves I129F.

CR1(I-130):

Oct. 6, 2004: Mailed I-130.

~USPS, First-Class, Certified Mail, Rtn Recpt ($5.80)

Oct. 8, 2004: I-130 Delivered to CSC in Laguna Niguel.

~Per USPS website's tracking tool.

Oct. 12, 2004 BCIS-CSC Signs for I-130 packet.

Oct. 21, 2004 Check cashed!

Oct. 25, 2004 NOA1 (I-130) Go CSC!!

Jan. 05, 2005 Approved!!!! Off to NVC!!!!

===============================

NVC:

Jan. 05, 2005 ---> in route from CSC

Jan. 12, 2005 Case entered system

Jan. 29, 2005 Received I-864 Bill

Jan. 31, 2005 Sent Payment to St. Louis(I864)

Feb. 01, 2005 Wife received DS3032(Choice of Agent)

Feb. 05, 2005 Payment Received in St. Louis(I864)

Feb. 08, 2005 Sent DS3032 to Portsmouth NH

Feb. 12, 2005 DS3032 Received by NVC

Mar. 04, 2005 Received IV Bill

Mar. 04, 2005 Sent IV Bill Payment

Mar. 08, 2005 Received I864

Mar. 19, 2005 Sent I864

Mar. 21, 2005 I864 Received my NVC

Apr. 18, 2005 Received DS230

Apr. 19, 2005 Sent DS230

Apr. 20, 2005 DS230 received by NVC (signed by S Merfeld)

Apr. 22, 2005 DS230 entered NVC system

Apr. 27, 2005 CASE COMPLETE

May 10, 2005 CASE SENT TO JUAREZ

Off to Cd. Juarez! :D

calls to NVC: 6

===============================

CIUDAD JUAREZ, American Consulate:

Apr. 27, 2005 case completed at NVC.

May 10, 2005 in route to Juarez.

May 25, 2005 Case at consulate.

===============================

-- Legal Disclaimer:What I say is only a reflection of what I did, going to do, or may do; it may also reflect what I have read others did, are going to do, or may do. What you do or may do is what you do or may do. You do so or may do so strictly out of your on voilition; or follow what a lawyer advised you to do, or may do. Having said that: have a nice day!

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THe article actually has a nonsensical assumption as its basis--that the subjects were ever "born-again" in the first place. It is simply impossible for a Christian who actually is "born-again" to regress (or apostasise).

2005/07/10 I-129F filed for Pras

2005/11/07 I-129F approved, forwarded to NVC--to Chennai Consulate 2005/11/14

2005/12/02 Packet-3 received from Chennai

2005/12/21 Visa Interview Date

2006/04/04 Pras' entry into US at DTW

2006/04/15 Church Wedding at Novi (Detroit suburb), MI

2006/05/01 AOS Packet (I-485/I-131/I-765) filed at Chicago

2006/08/23 AP and EAD approved. Two down, 1.5 to go

2006/10/13 Pras' I-485 interview--APPROVED!

2006/10/27 Pras' conditional GC arrives -- .5 to go (2 yrs to Conditions Removal)

2008/07/21 I-751 (conditions removal) filed

2008/08/22 I-751 biometrics completed

2009/06/18 I-751 approved

2009/07/03 10-year GC received; last 0.5 done!

2009/07/23 Pras files N-400

2009/11/16 My 46TH birthday, Pras N-400 approved

2010/03/18 Pras' swear-in

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As long as the LORD's beside me, I don't care if this road ever ends.

Filed: K-3 Visa Country: Mexico
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THe article actually has a nonsensical assumption as its basis--that the subjects were ever "born-again" in the first place. It is simply impossible for a Christian who actually is "born-again" to regress (or apostasise).

So, any 'born-again' who does regress was never truly 'born-again'? Is that what you are saying?

The way I see this line is more like: We are in a constant battle. Even Peter denied Jesus. Not once, not twice, but three times in a matter of hours.

So really, it does not surprise me that Christian, of whatever branch, go through different phases. As it applies to the article, it looks downright correct. Some are able to keep on the road. Others veer off. Some of those that veered off may eventually get back on.

have a nice day.

Daniel

:energetic:

Ana (Mexico) ------ Daniel (California)(me)

---------------------------------------------

Sept. 11, 2004: Got married (civil), in Mexico :D

July 23, 2005: Church wedding

===============================

K3(I-129F):

Oct. 28, 2004: Mailed I-129F.

~USPS, First-Class, Certified Mail, Rtn Recpt ($5.80)

Nov. 3, 2004: NOA1!!!!

Nov. 5, 2004: Check Cashed!!

zzzz deep hibernationn zzzz

May 12, 2005 NOA2!!!! #######!!! huh???

off to NVC.

May 26, 2005: NVC approves I129F.

CR1(I-130):

Oct. 6, 2004: Mailed I-130.

~USPS, First-Class, Certified Mail, Rtn Recpt ($5.80)

Oct. 8, 2004: I-130 Delivered to CSC in Laguna Niguel.

~Per USPS website's tracking tool.

Oct. 12, 2004 BCIS-CSC Signs for I-130 packet.

Oct. 21, 2004 Check cashed!

Oct. 25, 2004 NOA1 (I-130) Go CSC!!

Jan. 05, 2005 Approved!!!! Off to NVC!!!!

===============================

NVC:

Jan. 05, 2005 ---> in route from CSC

Jan. 12, 2005 Case entered system

Jan. 29, 2005 Received I-864 Bill

Jan. 31, 2005 Sent Payment to St. Louis(I864)

Feb. 01, 2005 Wife received DS3032(Choice of Agent)

Feb. 05, 2005 Payment Received in St. Louis(I864)

Feb. 08, 2005 Sent DS3032 to Portsmouth NH

Feb. 12, 2005 DS3032 Received by NVC

Mar. 04, 2005 Received IV Bill

Mar. 04, 2005 Sent IV Bill Payment

Mar. 08, 2005 Received I864

Mar. 19, 2005 Sent I864

Mar. 21, 2005 I864 Received my NVC

Apr. 18, 2005 Received DS230

Apr. 19, 2005 Sent DS230

Apr. 20, 2005 DS230 received by NVC (signed by S Merfeld)

Apr. 22, 2005 DS230 entered NVC system

Apr. 27, 2005 CASE COMPLETE

May 10, 2005 CASE SENT TO JUAREZ

Off to Cd. Juarez! :D

calls to NVC: 6

===============================

CIUDAD JUAREZ, American Consulate:

Apr. 27, 2005 case completed at NVC.

May 10, 2005 in route to Juarez.

May 25, 2005 Case at consulate.

===============================

-- Legal Disclaimer:What I say is only a reflection of what I did, going to do, or may do; it may also reflect what I have read others did, are going to do, or may do. What you do or may do is what you do or may do. You do so or may do so strictly out of your on voilition; or follow what a lawyer advised you to do, or may do. Having said that: have a nice day!

Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Thailand
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To me, its education that sets them free... not becoming "liberal"!!! :)

K-1 Timeline

11-29-05: Mailed I-129F Petition to CSC

12-06-05: NOA1

03-02-06: NOA2

03-23-06: Interview Date May 16

05-17-06: K-1 Visa Issued

05-20-06: Arrived at POE, Honolulu

07-17-06: Married

AOS Timeline

08-14-06: Mailed I-485 to Chicago

08-24-06: NOA for I-485

09-08-06: Biometrics Appointment

09-25-06: I-485 transferred to CSC

09-28-06: I-485 received at CSC

10-18-06: AOS Approved

10-21-06: Approval notice mailed

10-23-06: Received "Welcome Letter"

10-27-06: Received 2 yr Green Card

I-751 Timeline

07-21-08: Mailed I-751 to VSC

07-25-08: NOA for I-751

08-27-08: Biometrics Appointment

02-25-09: I-751 transferred to CSC

04-17-09: I-751 Approved

06-22-09: Received 10 yr Green Card

N-400 Timeline

07-20-09: Mailed N-400 to Lewisville, TX

07-23-09: NOA for N-400

08-14-09: Biometrics Appointment

09-08-09: Interview Date Oct 07

10-30-09: Oath Ceremony

11-20-09: Received Passport!!!

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THe article actually has a nonsensical assumption as its basis--that the subjects were ever "born-again" in the first place. It is simply impossible for a Christian who actually is "born-again" to regress (or apostasise).

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Filed: Other Country: India
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THe article actually has a nonsensical assumption as its basis--that the subjects were ever "born-again" in the first place. It is simply impossible for a Christian who actually is "born-again" to regress (or apostasise).

So, any 'born-again' who does regress was never truly 'born-again'? Is that what you are saying?

The way I see this line is more like: We are in a constant battle. Even Peter denied Jesus. Not once, not twice, but three times in a matter of hours.

So really, it does not surprise me that Christian, of whatever branch, go through different phases. As it applies to the article, it looks downright correct. Some are able to keep on the road. Others veer off. Some of those that veered off may eventually get back on.

have a nice day.

Daniel

:energetic:

gotta agree with Daniel on this one. :thumbs:

I think it's very possible for someone who is very devoted to their walk and consider themselves born again to turn away from it later on. I personally have known many like that, and they really were devoted to God at some point but later something made them want to turn away and reject their faith. That's sad to me of course. But I wouldn't say they were never born again. They were, and had then turned away from it. Some go back again, some don't. It's a doctrinal difference I guess. I don't believe in 'once saved, always saved'.

Married since 9-18-04(All K1 visa & GC details in timeline.)

Ishu tum he mere Prabhu:::Jesus you are my Lord

Filed: Other Country: United Kingdom
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THe article actually has a nonsensical assumption as its basis--that the subjects were ever "born-again" in the first place. It is simply impossible for a Christian who actually is "born-again" to regress (or apostasise).

Is it possible perhaps, that the people who 'lose their faith' as a result of a college education might not have particularly strong beliefs to begin with?

Its not uncommon for people with not much in their lives to turn to something to fill that gap. Whether it be VJ, video games, drinking, religion?

Filed: Other Country: Germany
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THe article actually has a nonsensical assumption as its basis--that the subjects were ever "born-again" in the first place. It is simply impossible for a Christian who actually is "born-again" to regress (or apostasise).

So, any 'born-again' who does regress was never truly 'born-again'? Is that what you are saying?

The way I see this line is more like: We are in a constant battle. Even Peter denied Jesus. Not once, not twice, but three times in a matter of hours.

So really, it does not surprise me that Christian, of whatever branch, go through different phases. As it applies to the article, it looks downright correct. Some are able to keep on the road. Others veer off. Some of those that veered off may eventually get back on.

have a nice day.

Daniel

:energetic:

gotta agree with Daniel on this one. :thumbs:

I think it's very possible for someone who is very devoted to their walk and consider themselves born again to turn away from it later on. I personally have known many like that, and they really were devoted to God at some point but later something made them want to turn away and reject their faith. That's sad to me of course. But I wouldn't say they were never born again. They were, and had then turned away from it. Some go back again, some don't. It's a doctrinal difference I guess. I don't believe in 'once saved, always saved'.

Yup. It shows that "being born again" is not considered the same in different evangelical groups. From an orthodox calvinist perspective, it is possible to slide back into a life of sin. There are two reasons for this, one being the person was not part of the elect in the first place, the other that the person while a member of the elect decided for the moment not to accept God's grace.

Depending on your perspective on this issue, the college kids who lose their faith can come from both groups. However, the fact that they were not able to withstand the temptations posed by the secular environment indicates that most likely they are not ready to accept grace in their life as of yet. No harm done in most cases.

Permanent Green Card Holder since 2006, considering citizenship application in the future.

Filed: Other Country: Germany
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Fishk, you are a professor, correct? Of what?

Nope, I'm a grad student in the humanities which is one of the main reasons I'm appalled by the attacks on American universities. What I see every day doesn't square at all with the way universities are oftentimes portrayed.

Permanent Green Card Holder since 2006, considering citizenship application in the future.

 

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