Research; Sex - Passion dies after 4yrs of marriage article.

[Icy 0]

Article link; http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/arti...in_page_id=1770

What’s you’re answer to their research?

Edited August 16, 2006 by Icy

[Fandango 1,439]

it's bollocks

[ladybutterfly 0]

I would say it makes alot of sense, but really, after four years of marriage ... how about after four months of marriage instead?!? It is in my case anyway!

[Yodrak 7]

Icy,

"But a woman's chief concern is establishing a 'pair bond' to create a secure future for herself and her offspring. Scientists have found that after four years in a relationship, fewer than half of women say they want to make love regularly.

In contrast, men's sexual desire remains just as strong regardless of how long they have been with their partner."

Agree that a man's sexual desire remains strong - but is it still his wife that he desires? If a woman's chief concern is creating a secure future for herself and her offspring then she'll want to ensure that it is?

The individual facts may be correct, but the linkages leave something to be desired.

Yodrak

Article link; http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/arti...in_page_id=1770

What's you're answer to their research?

Edited August 16, 2006 by Yodrak

[MrMrsKnight 0]

I think it can happen.... it depends on if you'll just let it go and consider it normal or do something about it IMO.

I always try to make things better even being apart.... and let me tell you after living together for 2 years I realized I had a lot more fun in sex after all that time than I did before, when we didn't know as much. Sure it's all new at first.... but man.... knowing that we've been together for 3 years and being able to go crazy and let it all out is a turn on to me.

[mawilson 2,133]

What’s you’re answer to their research?

Which grammatically makes no sense whatsoever.

"What is you are answer to their research?"

[triaxiom 0]

I would say it makes alot of sense, but really, after four years of marriage ... how about after four months of marriage instead?!? It is in my case anyway!

You sound desperately frustrated.

I have it on good authority a girl could do worse than having one of these around in times of desperation.

[ladybutterfly 0]

I would say it makes alot of sense, but really, after four years of marriage ... how about after four months of marriage instead?!? It is in my case anyway!

You sound desperately frustrated.

I have it on good authority a girl could do worse than having one of these around in times of desperation.

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I have actually got one, just like the picture above! But even that doesnt get used that often .... cause I can only use it when hubby is out of the house!

[*Robert* 2]

I agree with Yodrak's observations.

[amarceau 0]

What about the other way around? Woman has higher sex drive then man? Signs of concern perhaps?

[Tim and Bethanie 1]

I would say it makes alot of sense, but really, after four years of marriage ... how about after four months of marriage instead?!? It is in my case anyway!

You sound desperately frustrated.

I have it on good authority a girl could do worse than having one of these around in times of desperation.

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I have actually got one, just like the picture above! But even that doesnt get used that often .... cause I can only use it when hubby is out of the house!

Fire that baby up with him laying there, it's your right!

[PlatyPius 5]

I would say it makes alot of sense, but really, after four years of marriage ... how about after four months of marriage instead?!? It is in my case anyway!

You sound desperately frustrated.

I have it on good authority a girl could do worse than having one of these around in times of desperation.

I have actually got one, just like the picture above! But even that doesnt get used that often .... cause I can only use it when hubby is out of the house!

Fire that baby up with him laying there, it's your right!

Does that thing have a tiller attachment??? Looks like I could use it to start a car. Or maybe it's an electronic thumb for hitching rides on passing spacecraft....

Edited August 18, 2006 by Cian

[kittykatwoman 0]

"But a woman's chief concern is establishing a 'pair bond' to create a secure future for herself and her offspring....."

What about the women that don't want kids and so don't searc for the future father of their kids ?

I don't believe the sexual attraction and desire dies unless something happened like betrayal, lack of communication, issues that were not solved by the couple etc etc

It just doesn't die instantly, like it has some kind of expiration date...

[mawilson 2,133]

Does that thing have a tiller attachment??? Looks like I could use it to start a car. Or maybe it's an electronic thumb for hitching rides on passing spacecraft....

Seriously, what's the purpose of that weird attachment that looks like a thumb with a pair of pincers?

[kittykatwoman 0]

A clit rubber!