Can some one translate this from tagalog

[jrmejia 31]

it just asked and said...to whom is she engaged and she's the 2nd one to be engaged on that day....just basically congratulating...I can be wrong but thats the way I get it...

Good Luck!!

Yah, that is what it is.

[proud_bisaya 3]

To whom dorz? Hahah..ageh 2nd ka na ds day..gnkkalsan ak iyo.. Hahah.. Well..congratz nla n advance dorz..heheh

-- Thanks

*translates*

Hello Jrmejia... I'm from leyte also and I know what she's talking all about. Actually we have 2 dialects in leyte namely: BISAYA and Waray-waray. I can say that what she said is in Waraywaray dialect in texting or jejemon's way

hahah--- --------------------------shes laughing/ smiling

ageh 2nd ka na ds day------- ohhh you're the second this day

gnkkalsan ak iyo--------------- you make me surprised

""To whom dorz? hahah. Ohhh You're the second this day. You make me surprised.hahah. Well..congratz to you and advance dorz..heheh"""

[SomedaySomehow 1]

Hello Jrmejia... I'm from leyte also and I know what she's talking all about. Actually we have 2 dialects in leyte namely: BISAYA and Waray-waray. I can say that what she said is in Waraywaray dialect in texting or jejemon's way

hahah--- --------------------------shes laughing/ smiling

ageh 2nd ka na ds day------- ohhh you're the second this day

gnkkalsan ak iyo--------------- you make me surprised

""To whom dorz? hahah. Ohhh You're the second this day. You make me surprised.hahah. Well..congratz to you and advance dorz..heheh"""

hi asa man ka sa visaya??????? yup in leyte hve to dialect waray-waray and visaya,.,.

[proud_bisaya 3]

hi asa man ka sa visaya??????? yup in leyte hve to dialect waray-waray and visaya,.,.

Im here in Biliran Province.

[jrmejia 31]

Thanks guys

[rlogan 2,036]

I understand what you saying but I surrounded for one way love. I think I can handle that as long that she respects my house.

Just wow.

If she doesn't love you then she certainly won't be happy nor respect you. I cannot imagine the depression and anguish you will face.

[crystal01 29]

I didn't understand what exactly was said as it is a dialect other than tagalog but based from the others' interpretation and the context on why it was said, it does look like a harmless FB post. It is true, we get excited like that and get giddy and happy over relationship updates in FB specially if two of our friends got engaged on the same day ( I can speak for myself and my friends :-))

I noticed you mentioned you weren't sure if it's you she was referring to on her relationship update. To be sure, you can have your name linked in FB. You can see that option in the same place where the relationship statuses can be updated. So you'd see (name) is engaged to (name). Clicking on the name brings you to the person's profile.

On another note, I have seen your other posts and the red flags you are seeing in your relationship. As someone who is on the other side of the coin as you( the one being petitioned) I am very much aware of what other motives women can have in entering this kind of relationship aside from love. This is a big step for both of you. Do you see yourself living the rest of your life with one sided love? Do you think it will be enough for her? How long do you think it will last?

I can't imagine myself in that position. I wouldn't commit myself, move halfway around the world, leave my family and friends, and learn a different culture if my heart and soul is not fully committed in the relationship and if I see a hint of doubt or sense something wrong with my fiance.

Again that's just my opinion. I hope you have a heart to heart talk with her and lay out all your doubts. Set your emotions aside and use your rational mind in figuring her out. I can see you are a very good person and deserve someone better than one who doesn't trully love and care for you. I hope you are not just settling for something less.

I wish you all the best.

[jrmejia 31]

I didn't understand what exactly was said as it is a dialect other than tagalog but based from the others' interpretation and the context on why it was said, it does look like a harmless FB post. It is true, we get excited like that and get giddy and happy over relationship updates in FB specially if two of our friends got engaged on the same day ( I can speak for myself and my friends :-))

I noticed you mentioned you weren't sure if it's you she was referring to on her relationship update. To be sure, you can have your name linked in FB. You can see that option in the same place where the relationship statuses can be updated. So you'd see (name) is engaged to (name). Clicking on the name brings you to the person's profile.

On another note, I have seen your other posts and the red flags you are seeing in your relationship. As someone who is on the other side of the coin as you( the one being petitioned) I am very much aware of what other motives women can have in entering this kind of relationship aside from love. This is a big step for both of you. Do you see yourself living the rest of your life with one sided love? Do you think it will be enough for her? How long do you think it will last?

I can't imagine myself in that position. I wouldn't commit myself, move halfway around the world, leave my family and friends, and learn a different culture if my heart and soul is not fully committed in the relationship and if I see a hint of doubt or sense something wrong with my fiance.

Again that's just my opinion. I hope you have a heart to heart talk with her and lay out all your doubts. Set your emotions aside and use your rational mind in figuring her out. I can see you are a very good person and deserve someone better than one who doesn't trully love and care for you. I hope you are not just settling for something less.

I wish you all the best.

I saw the engaged but she did not put engaged to <name> I see that many places but she did not write my name. Also, she has pictures of every body in the universe except me ...cheers...

[tallcoolone 102]

Here is your quick solution.

Bring her to USA.

Wait about 75 days to until you marry (Give both of you time to start to know each other)

Don't get her pregnant the first couple of years (That way if you have to divorce her, then you are not bound by a 18 year payment plan).

Over time the true person and her intention will always come out. You might of made the best decison of you life.

But either way it's a win win solution for you.

If your marriage is happy then you win.

If your marriage turns into a divorce, then you hop a plane and go back to PI (Don't Internet Date This Time) and find a handful of girls to court and pick one to marry. Then you win again.

Good Luck.......

Edited September 15, 2010 by tallcoolone

[crystal01 29]

I saw the engaged but she did not put engaged to <name> I see that many places but she did not write my name. Also, she has pictures of every body in the universe except me ...cheers...

Maybe you can ask her to put your name?

As for the pictures, do you have any with both of you in it? Why don't you upload it in yours and just tag her so it shows in her profile. If she removes it.. that means something.

Facebook may seem trivial but simple things like these acknowledges your role in her life.

[SomedaySomehow 1]

Im here in Biliran Province.

ahhhhhhhh mother in law ng sister ko tga jan..ehehehe tga matag-ob ako pero d2 na ako s usa now..

[jrmejia 31]

As for the pictures, do you have any with both of you in it? Why don't you upload it in yours and just tag her so it shows in her profile. If she removes it.. that means something.

Thanks i like this:

[rlogan 2,036]

I saw the engaged but she did not put engaged to <name> I see that many places but she did not write my name. Also, she has pictures of every body in the universe except me ...cheers...

This has been reading like a textbook of red flags for foreign marriages.

One of the affectations about Filipinas I like is their romance. They splash pictures of their loved one all over their facebook along with quotes about how they can't live without them. They put music to it with love songs and pink background, etc.

Not all of them of course. It is a general tendency, and that seems to be the kind of woman you would cherish.

Instead you have one that doesn't put a single picture of you up on her site - everyone in the universe EXCEPT you. Talk about a slap in the face!

It isn't just a matter of her not loving you. She dislikes you.

There are numerous problems with trying to smuggle pictures of yourself onto her facebook indirectly. She isn't even acknowledging your presence and like a puppy dog you're jumping up on her trying to get attention. A person loses their dignity, their self-respect, and the respect of others this way.

You deserve better, and it is never going to come from her. It will come from one of the millions of other Filipinas looking for a guy like you.

Edited September 16, 2010 by rlogan

[jrmejia 31]

This has been reading like a textbook of red flags for foreign marriages.

One of the affectations about Filipinas I like is their romance. They splash pictures of their loved one all over their facebook along with quotes about how they can't live without them. They put music to it with love songs and pink background, etc.

Not all of them of course. It is a general tendency, and that seems to be the kind of woman you would cherish.

Instead you have one that doesn't put a single picture of you up on her site - everyone in the universe EXCEPT you. Talk about a slap in the face!

It isn't just a matter of her not loving you. She dislikes you.

There are numerous problems with trying to smuggle pictures of yourself onto her facebook indirectly. She isn't even acknowledging your presence and like a puppy dog you're jumping up on her trying to get attention. A person loses their dignity, their self-respect, and the respect of others this way.

You deserve better, and it is never going to come from her. It will come from one of the millions of other Filipinas looking for a guy like you.

One of my best friend at work and his wife are both on my FB. They are friends with me and my fiancee on FB. The other day, they invited me to a bbq at their house. The first thing his wife said was "when you came from the phil. and showed us all the pictures, we approved your relation with her. But after we saw her FB and not one pix of you, we have double feeling about her ".

I really wanted to hide my face, I don't know why. Since I did not have anything to add, I said to her I take some pictures of bubo. Bubo is their puppy.

I have no idea if puppy read my eyes or not. He posed like never before. The only way I can describe is, hey hey!! why.....but I try to ingnore that (hey hey why).. His eyes were amazing focus and I kept asking why he is doing that. What does not know that I don't know? After I finished taking pictures he looked at me again as if he was asking for permission to stop posing for pictures. I was puzzled but nevertheless I let my eyes to be noticed by any one? or was it too late and the puppy found out? No wonder he was paying so much attention to me?

Between time, some magic allowed me to enjoy the event and no longer the FB was within reach for me to think about. It just flew by my mind. Does it bothers me? Honestly can not tell. There is something that keeps repeating me that that whatever she does to me is the right thing for her to do to me.

To close the topic for today....let me cut and paste a msg from her. Imaginary cut and paste of course. "jr I am going to the bar with my cousin okay? "

Should I let you guess what I told her? No need, you guys already had enough of my #######.

Sure bb, hey bb, do you have enough budget to go out today?

END OF MSG

Edited September 16, 2010 by jrmejia

[jrmejia 31]

One of my best friend at work and his wife are both on my FB. They are friends with me and my fiancee on FB. The other day, they invited me to a bbq at their house. The first thing his wife said was "when you came from the phil. and showed us all the pictures, we approved your relation with her. But after we saw her FB and not one pix of you, we have double feeling about her ".

I really wanted to hide my face, I don't know why. Since I did not have anything to add, I said to her I take some pictures of bubo. Bubo is their puppy.

I have no idea if puppy read my eyes or not. He posed like never before. The only way I can describe is, hey hey!! why.....but I try to ingnore that (hey hey why).. His eyes were amazing focus and I kept asking why he is doing that. What does not know that I don't know? After I finished taking pictures he looked at me again as if he was asking for permission to stop posing for pictures. I was puzzled but nevertheless I let my eyes to be noticed by any one? or was it too late and the puppy found out? No wonder he was paying so much attention to me?

Between time, some magic allowed me to enjoy the event and no longer the FB was within reach for me to think about. It just flew by my mind. Does it bothers me? Honestly can not tell. There is something that keeps repeating me that that whatever she does to me is the right thing for her to do to me.

To close the topic for today....let me cut and paste a msg from her. Imaginary cut and paste of course. "jr I am going to the bar with my cousin okay? "

Should I let you guess what I told her? No need, you guys already had enough of my #######.

Sure bb, hey bb, do you have enough budget to go out today?

END OF MSG

there were some typo in the original...just came from wor+gym..so tired..need to prepare dinner now