What to do next? Have green card

[Anh map 2,098]

Your spouse can petition to remove the conditions on her Green Card without you. So you do not have anything to threaten her with regarding immigration.

As others have suggested, contact a family law attorney to determine the proper steps regarding your marriage and child custody. Let your spouse address the immigration concerns.

* Moved from Adjustment of Status (family) forum to Removing Conditions forum as OP circumstances/question is about Removing Conditions on 2 year Green Card *

* Will request that a Moderator change/alter thread title to help avoid confusion *

Edited August 31, 2010 by Anh map

[raysfan 0]

I'm not forcing anyone! she just wants to leave US with my son! That's it!

So let me get this straight.

You want to force your wife to leave the US and leave her child with you?

Is that the crux of the matter.

wouldn't you help her remove her conditions? She still wont be able to leave the country without your permission regardless even if the conditions are removed.

How is she a flight risk? Didn't she leave the US and return WITH the child? I'm pretty sure had she chosen she could have just refused to get on the return flight. She came back. She is not a flight risk.

That notarized letter allowed her to leave the US but it didn't force her to return.(MY Dominican friend had to get the same notarized letter in order to take her children out of the country and Immigration called her ex husband to make sure she could leave the US even WITH the notarized letter)

Hell on earth is always a subjective description. It may well be more hellish to have your child resent you for forcing his mother to leave the country.

Do what is in the best interest of your child. I doubt a court is going to award sole custody to you. For the most part it will be joint...and remember when you file for divorce the court will order a child support order if the child resides with your wife.

Best of everything!

[raysfan 0]

I thing that's the right thing to do! but she is the one threatening me about taking my son with her! that is my only concern, she can do what ever she wants with immigration! my only concern is my son.

Your spouse can petition to remove the conditions on her Green Card without you. So you do not have anything to threaten her with regarding immigration.

As others have suggested, contact a family law attorney to determine the proper steps regarding your marriage and child custody. Let your spouse address the immigration concerns.

* Moved from Adjustment of Status (family) forum to Removing Conditions forum as OP circumstances/question is about Removing Conditions on 2 year Green Card *

* Will request that a Moderator change/alter thread title to help avoid confusion *

[tom_g 3]

Logically I would say: do whatever you can to help her remove conditions (WITHOUT lying to USCIS), and try to get her to settle locally, so that you both have access to your son, so he can be raised properly with both parents. If you really want a relationship with your son you're both going to have to act like adults and compromise.

And personally, I wouldn't go posting stuff like this on the internet. Quite apart from the danger of your wife's lawyer getting hold of the comments and tearing you a new one in the custody court, if you really want help (which you do, by the way), you need to find the right forum.

good luck.