Could I get some opinions on this?

[jezebelseven 0]

For that matter. I shouldnt say this, but I will. Those that know our frustration could be a little more understanding...the 'approved in 15 days' or 'i love the vsc' is unnecessary. You are approved, congratulations. Dont brag about the short term when we are suffering and having to tell our fiancees to be patient.

Going on the 'I shouldn't say this but I will'--

I don't think people posting the 'approved in 15 days' or anything is trying to upset you. They're more likely excited for themselves and are hoping they can somehow give you some hope that there is actually *something* going on if anything. I'd rather see someone getting approved, despite the date, versus no one getting approved... You act as if they're rubbing it in your face, when I assure you none of them are trying to. No one here is excited that people are being left behind, but can you blame them for being excited that they got somewhere?

Don't make people feel bad for celebrating their own good news just because the USCIS is making your case go slower than desired... It's not our fault, and I'd say we all sympathize with you, but there's nothing we can do personally to make your case get picked before ours... Just please don't make us feel bad for being happy for our own situations.

Be angry with USCIS, not the people here, basically. If I were in your spot I'd be furious too, but it's no one's fault here.

Edited August 15, 2006 by jezebelseven

[mendeleev 68]

The 15-day wonder who posted earlier today was clearly really excited.

As I read their timeline, they were approved 37 days after they filed their I-129F -- 15 days after their NOA1. Their post was confusing.

15 days or 37 days is probably salt in the wounds of those waiting from March -- and no one disagrees that theirs is an unjustly difficult circumstance.

Sometimes these journeys take a long time, for lots of reasons.