I want to Divorce my Husband & back to Phils.

[Darnell 8,479]

I want to Divorce my Husband & back to Phils.

IF you really feel that way, then you should go.

If you want to grow yer marriage, then you should stay, do the work, grow the marriage.

Please pick one or the other - both are difficult to do, is no 'easy fix' for either.

[rheanick 42]

DI NIO KC NAINTINDIHAN FEELINGS KO

KAYA NGA IM HERE TO RELIEVE MY PAIN

GETTING IDEAS....GALIT PA KAYO SAKIN

MASAKIT SAKIN HE CANCELED THE XMAS IN PHILS KC MAS PINILI PA NIA BILHAN NG CAR ANG STEPDAUGHTER NIA

NAGAGALIT KUNG MARAMI AKONG TANONG MAGKANO GINAGASTOS NIA SA STEPDAUGHTER NIA

MARAMING BISIS NA SIA NAG SINUNGALING SAKIN

F KINUKULIT KO NAGAGALIT NA SIA

NANDITO PARIN GAMIT NG DIED GF NIA KAHIT MY ASAWA NA SIA

GALIT KUNG IPALAGAY KO SA BODEGA KC ITS NOT MY BUSINESS

GALIT F MALAKI ANG BILLING NG PHONE BUT DNAMAN SIA GALIT F MAGKANO BILL NG BABAE

D SINOSOOT ANG WEDING RING NAMIN DAHIL DNIA DAW FEEL HIS MARRIED (HURT)

GUSTO KONG UMUWI NALANG KC PAGOD NAKU AYAW NIA AKONG KUHAAN NG TICKET

ANO PA BA GINAGAWA KO DITO KUNG D NAMAN NIA AKO MATURING NA ASAWA

HURT SABIHIN SAYO NA DNIA FEEL GALAWIN KA NIA

DINA KAMI MATOLOG MAGKATABI KC WLA NAMAN SIANG PAKI NA MY TAO KATABI NIA

MABUTI PA ANG UNAN KC NIYAYAKAP

SIGAWAN KA NIA F MY MASABI AKO TUNGKOL SA BABAE

PALAKIHIN NIA ANG AWAY KUNG TUNGKOL NA SA BABAE ANG PINAG USAPAN NAMIN

GABI GABI NALANG AKO UMIIYAK DAHIL SOBRANG SAKIT NARARAMDAMAN KO

GUSTO KO NALANG UMUWI WLA NAMANG SAYSAY MAGKASAMA PA KAMI

DI NAMAN SIA NAGBAGO....SAKIN LANG MAGING PATAS NAMAN SIA SANA

MGA GAMIT NAMIN SA BEDROOM GAMIT PA NG LIVE IN NIA DATI

UNAN,KOMOT,BEDSHEET,ETC.OBVIOS NAMAN KC LUMA NA

DIMO ALAM BAKA SA KALSADA NA KAMI MATOTOLOG KC BAON NA SIA SA UTANG

WALA AKONG ALAM ANYTHING KC AYAW NIA SABIHIN AT GALIT F NAGTATANONG KA

MORE POWER SA MGA NG HUSGA SAKIN

GOD BLESS EVERYONE ! ! !

Heartbroken...

First, dont type on all caps. Be courteous sa mga tao nang VJ. Huwag mong sigawan dahil hindi naman sila ang kaaway mo. You want them to be your counsellor for free. Please be nice to them.

Second, please re-read lahat nang sinulat mo rito sa forum at makikita mo ang dahilan nang away nyo. Sa relasyon o away, dalawa ang involve dyan. Meron action at reaction. Kung hindi mo gusto ang action nang asawa mo, magagalit ka at ii-nag mo sya as your reaction... sa tingin mo ba may pupuntahan ito.

Hindi mo mababago ang isang tao. Hindi mo mapipilit ang isang tao sumunod sa gusto mo. Sarili mo lang ang mababago mo. Kung hindi effective ang nagging and crying mo ngayon para maintindihan ka nang asawa mo, change your attitude.

English thranslation: YOu could not change a person. You could not insist another person to follow what you want. You could only change yourself. If your nagging and crying is not effective in getting your message across (to your husband), change your attitude.

And, please accept the fact that the girl came first in his life. They may not be related, but he could love her as her own daughter. You could not eliminate their bond coz you and your anak arrived in the picture. You have to accept the fact that the girl is there before you and your anak. If you continue denying this fact, you are slowly digging your own holes.

Being a wife does not give you the full privilege to run his life. If your husband has balls, you definitely dont have the full privilege to run his life. As a wife, you have the privilege to talk, suggest and influence your husband.

If you would continue what you are doing today, just ask for a ticket for you and your anak and go back to the Philippines.

[finallyfree 2]

Heart-Broken, why don't you suggest to your husband that maybe you should file your AOS paperwork as soon as possible so that you can get a driver's license, get a job and help him pay the expenses around the house? I understand the frustration of not being able to get around and just being cooped up inside the house. I don't know your husband's side of the story...i'm guessing he's also frustrated about something?

As for the overseas call, DO NOT call from your cellphone. It is way to expensive, (been there, done that and was totally horrified at the bill)! I've found a $5 calling card in my local Filipino store that lasts about 30 minutes. Maybe you can find one of those in your area.

Maybe you should have a calm talk with him and let him know how you really feel about things? Let it all out, don't hold anything back.

[tallcoolone 102]

I want to Divorce my Husband & back to Phils.

IF you really feel that way, then you should go.

If you want to grow yer marriage, then you should stay, do the work, grow the marriage.

Please pick one or the other - both are difficult to do, is no 'easy fix' for either.

BEST ANSWER YOU WILL GET ON THIS SUBJECT

T0PIC CLOSED...................

[Heart-Broken 1]

BEST ANSWER YOU WILL GET ON THIS SUBJECT

T0PIC CLOSED...................

close your profile

not my topic coz your not helping......

you mentioned above that much better to read other issues or problems

so why you still updated my topic ?

coz nobodys talk to you thats why your here ?

if you dont have any opinion....close your mouth.....

[Heart-Broken 1]

Heart-Broken, why don't you suggest to your husband that maybe you should file your AOS paperwork as soon as possible so that you can get a driver's license, get a job and help him pay the expenses around the house? I understand the frustration of not being able to get around and just being cooped up inside the house. I don't know your husband's side of the story...i'm guessing he's also frustrated about something?

As for the overseas call, DO NOT call from your cellphone. It is way to expensive, (been there, done that and was totally horrified at the bill)! I've found a $5 calling card in my local Filipino store that lasts about 30 minutes. Maybe you can find one of those in your area.

Maybe you should have a calm talk with him and let him know how you really feel about things? Let it all out, don't hold anything back.

our papers are ready except I-864

he dont want me to work coz he dont want i dont have much time w/him.....

Heart-Broken, why don't you suggest to your husband that maybe you should file your AOS paperwork as soon as possible so that you can get a driver's license, get a job and help him pay the expenses around the house? I understand the frustration of not being able to get around and just being cooped up inside the house. I don't know your husband's side of the story...i'm guessing he's also frustrated about something?

As for the overseas call, DO NOT call from your cellphone. It is way to expensive, (been there, done that and was totally horrified at the bill)! I've found a $5 calling card in my local Filipino store that lasts about 30 minutes. Maybe you can find one of those in your area.

Maybe you should have a calm talk with him and let him know how you really feel about things? Let it all out, don't hold anything back.

our papers are ready except I-864

he dont want me to work coz he dont want i dont have much time w/him.....

[tallcoolone 102]

close your profile

not my topic coz your not helping......

you mentioned above that much better to read other issues or problems

so why you still updated my topic ?

coz nobodys talk to you thats why your here ?

if you dont have any opinion....close your mouth.....

Ding Ding, It's On Now.

My Opinion is that you need to grow up and make your own decisions.

You are the person who will have to live with them, not others giving you thier opinion.

Stop acting like a helpless child and looking for others to tell you what you should do, They are not your brain.

Act like a grown up and make your own decisions.............

[Heart-Broken 1]

Heartbroken...

First, dont type on all caps. Be courteous sa mga tao nang VJ. Huwag mong sigawan dahil hindi naman sila ang kaaway mo. You want them to be your counsellor for free. Please be nice to them.

Second, please re-read lahat nang sinulat mo rito sa forum at makikita mo ang dahilan nang away nyo. Sa relasyon o away, dalawa ang involve dyan. Meron action at reaction. Kung hindi mo gusto ang action nang asawa mo, magagalit ka at ii-nag mo sya as your reaction... sa tingin mo ba may pupuntahan ito.

Hindi mo mababago ang isang tao. Hindi mo mapipilit ang isang tao sumunod sa gusto mo. Sarili mo lang ang mababago mo. Kung hindi effective ang nagging and crying mo ngayon para maintindihan ka nang asawa mo, change your attitude.

English thranslation: YOu could not change a person. You could not insist another person to follow what you want. You could only change yourself. If your nagging and crying is not effective in getting your message across (to your husband), change your attitude.

And, please accept the fact that the girl came first in his life. They may not be related, but he could love her as her own daughter. You could not eliminate their bond coz you and your anak arrived in the picture. You have to accept the fact that the girl is there before you and your anak. If you continue denying this fact, you are slowly digging your own holes.

Being a wife does not give you the full privilege to run his life. If your husband has balls, you definitely dont have the full privilege to run his life. As a wife, you have the privilege to talk, suggest and influence your husband.

If you would continue what you are doing today, just ask for a ticket for you and your anak and go back to the Philippines.

Apektado ka bakit caps ginamit ko ?

Bakit bawal ba mag gamit ng capslak ?

Binasa moba from page 1 to last page ?

But di kaya , pagsabihan mo muna ang mga nakisawsaw sa usapan dito di naman nakatolong

Bago mo sabihin sakin na baguhin ko attitude ko....

Im not looking trouble here...in what way im bastos here ?

Kung nakikisali kc kayo para lang mangbastos pinapahaba nio lng ang usapan....

Bago mo sabihin sakin be curteous sa mga taong VJ....unahin mo muna ang mga bastos na nakisali sa topic

Hwag kang maging 1sided...nabasa moba lahat ?

Kung hindi pa basahin mo muna bago ka makisali sa topic.....

Try to analyze what i wrote above & and read very well for how many times bago mo i share ang ideas mo.....

[tallcoolone 102]

our papers are ready except I-864

he dont want me to work coz he dont want i dont have much time w/him.....

[William33 110]

Please stay on topic. This means no you tube videos.

[kokobearus 4]

hay childish naman ni Heart-broken. you should have known everything about your husband before you married him.Goodluck to you!hope everything goes well! I respect your husband and you, juts try to relax and consider your husbands feelings. You need to work so that you can do what you want to do without being to dependent to your husband.

[tallcoolone 102]

hay childish naman ni Heart-broken.

Exactly..........

[Heart-Broken 1]

hay childish naman ni Heart-broken. you should have known everything about your husband before you married him.Goodluck to you!hope everything goes well! I respect your husband and you, juts try to relax and consider your husbands feelings. You need to work so that you can do what you want to do without being to dependent to your husband.

hi ...tnx viewing my post....im wonder im in regional - Phils.post its ok to talk tagalog ?

honestly im relax except sa mga highblood dito...

how do you knows everything about your husband wla naman akong pwede matanungan about him

kakausapin ko family nia at magtatanong ?

tapos sabihin nia dnaman ako naniniwala sa mga sinasabi nia?

honestly sa pinas pa ako alam ko my stepdaughter sia not living w/him

but d nia nabanggit about nga sa mga bills....

ang iba kasi dito iba ang pagka intindi at sinasabi that i mentioned above tapos kahit ano2 nalang ang mga sina suggest ....

hahay....read very well before joining the topic.....

[~happyndinlove~ 540]

Ding Ding, It's On Now.

Have you been drinking?

Why do you want to pick on the girl?

She's obviously very frustrated and needs to vent and get some ideas. Although I agree, that I wouldn't "air my laundry" in a public forum and yes, these are her problems to deal with but, consider that she might not have anyone to share this with...not even her husband, Pretty lonely place for her to be right now...

So why don't you go pick on someone your own size? (or myb just go fishing)

The newbies will take some time to become desensitized to your version of humor.

Edited August 18, 2010 by ~happyndinlove~

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