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idocare   3

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Opps you didn't say you all were put in AP, my bad.

idocare

NSC, NOA1 September 26th,03

received NOA1 in mail Oct. 03,03

RFE - received in mail March 29th,04

RFE returned April 17th,04

RFE received April 21,04 at NSC online

NOA2 received April 29th,04 via online

NOA2 received May 03,04 in mail

NVC receives file May 6th,04

NVC sends file to Nigeria May 11th,04

Lagos receives our file, notified thru e-mail May 19th,04

Victor goes and picks up packet #3....May 20th,04

Sent request for earlier interview date via e-mail May 20th,04

May 27th, Lagos won't change date.

August 16th, 2004 fly to Nigeria for Victors interview

August 19th, 2004 Interview date, visa approved.

August 25th, 2004 Victor picks up passport with visa stamp.

August 26th, 2004 fly back to USA

September 18th, 2004 Victor arrives in USA, Lord willing.

October 9th, 2004, we become husband and wife

October 25th, 2004 I learn that I'm pregnant.

Feburary 25th, 2005 AOS Appointment

( went to appt. and requested a reschedule)

June 7th, 05 gave birth to a boy child.

July 5th, 05 Victor packs he suitcase and leaves for good.

July 2005 2nd AOS appointment

( went and requested a reschedule )

August 2005- I file for divorce. and withdraw immigration paperwork.

Washington State/ Nigeria

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masterpiece   2

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This is not the first time that "idontcare" has treaded the path of "putting asunder". I have long concluded that "Idontcare", based solely on her unfortunate experiences, has made it a point of duty to lump all marriages that involve Nigerians into one miserable box. I suggest that the OP takes time to consider her options. I know not your entire situation but this much i know: swallowing hook, line, sinker any thoughts, suggestions, ideas and what have you from "IDONTCARE" will be a blunder of amazing proportions..........

Is it not ironical that after several months of being away from VJ (and SS-Africa) i stop by briefly and the one thread i peruse has IDONTCARE going off the deep end as usual? Hmmm maybe i was meant to neutralize some of her comments...if i take this upon myself i think IDONTCARE may need a long vacation....but then we are talking indicators of probability here, arnt we...... IF!!!

By the way i think there are one or two who may have tried to contact me over the past few months. Hey if you have, please feel free to drop a new note. I apologize for not being in touch. I will check back later today and will certainly be happy to share any experiences...

K1 Trip

6-23-2006: I-129 mailed

8-31-2006: K1 approved

11-15-2006: K1 Interview: done and visa approved

11-21-2006: K1 visa issued

11-27-2006: JFK as POE: Work authorized stamp on I-94

AOS Mission

12-16-2006: 1-485 + I-765 mailed

1-3-2007: NOA1 received: Notice date 12-28-2006

1-16-2007: Biometrics

1-17-2007: Case transferred to CSC

2-10-2007: I-693 RFE (whatever happened to the panel physician`s medical report?)

4-3-2007: Another I-693 RFE

5-8-2007: Resident Permit Card received Next Stop: February 6, 2009 (I-751)

Removal of Conditional Basis of Residency (Form I-751)

2-6-2009 Mailed Form 1-751:::VSC

2-14-2009 Received I-751 Receipt notice indicating one year extension of conditional residency status

3-6-2009 Biometrics:::::::::::::waiting for VSC

7-7-2009: E-mail notice received: Card production ordered

8-3-2009: 10year Green Card Received in the mail.

Naturalization Application (N-400)

2-16-2010: N-400 sent in..

4-2-2010: Biometrics

5-18-2010: Interview

6-16-2010: Certificate of Nat. received- Masterpiece is a USC!

7-16-2010: U.S Passport in hand

His Glory Rising Star

His Glory   25

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idocare use to infuriate me but now having gone through what i have....im amazed she can be so articulate. Im so angry that I cant express myself in such away. ghanagal...im glad u will have an open mind about it. Everyone (including myself at the time) wants to believe their situation is unique but there is no denying that there is a pattern of deceit when it comes to these greencard relationships. But no one could talk sense to me. its something you have to go through to believe what some are capable of doing for greener pastures. Its shocking. My story is not nearly as bad as some by far, but im still in awe how blind i was. It was choice so i cant go crying in my beer everynight but i wish i wasnt so naive when it comes to the type of mentally that some have. I know i couldnt do that and i naively projected my morality on my spouse. oh well :) I can smile and even laugh aboutit now. But some stories are way worse than mine. But i hope ghanagalthings work out for u both but just keep yr eyes open and anybody is capable of anything given the right circumstances. open yr eyes to the circumstances. sorry if i dont make sense im not as articulate as idocare. But ihope the best for all..there is nothing like being in love...i just didnt realize i was the only one truly in love.

03/09/2013: Married

09/10/2013: Sent I-130

09/12/2013: Case Received.

03/04/2014: Petition transferred to Nebraska Service Center.

03/25/2014: I-130 Petition approved

03/28/2014: Petition sent to NVC

04/09/2014: NVC received case

05/08/2014: NVC assigned case number

05/16/2014: Paid AOS fee

10/02/2014: Case Closed

10/10/2014: Interview Date Scheduled

11/17/2014: Interview - APPROVED!!

Nwanyioma Rising Star

Nwanyioma   11

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Nigeria
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This is not the first time that "idontcare" has treaded the path of "putting asunder". I have long concluded that "Idontcare", based solely on her unfortunate experiences, has made it a point of duty to lump all marriages that involve Nigerians into one miserable box. I suggest that the OP takes time to consider her options. I know not your entire situation but this much i know: swallowing hook, line, sinker any thoughts, suggestions, ideas and what have you from "IDONTCARE" will be a blunder of amazing proportions..........

Is it not ironical that after several months of being away from VJ (and SS-Africa) i stop by briefly and the one thread i peruse has IDONTCARE going off the deep end as usual? Hmmm maybe i was meant to neutralize some of her comments...if i take this upon myself i think IDONTCARE may need a long vacation....but then we are talking indicators of probability here, arnt we...... IF!!!

By the way i think there are one or two who may have tried to contact me over the past few months. Hey if you have, please feel free to drop a new note. I apologize for not being in touch. I will check back later today and will certainly be happy to share any experiences...

:rofl::thumbs:

AOS Timeline
7-23-2010 AOS package mailed priority via USPS to Chicago Lockbox (expected delivery date 7-26-2010)
7-27-2010 AOS package delivered
8-3-2010 NOA 1 AOS/EAD/AP (received hard copy NOA 1's in mailbox 8-7-2010)
8-6-2010 AOS/EAD/AP Touched
8-9-2010 AOS/EAD/AP Touched
9-15-2010 Biometrics walk-in at Alexandria,VA ASC(original appointment date 10-5-2010)
9-15-2010 AOS/EAD Touched
9-16-2010 AOS/EAD Touched
9-22-2010 EAD/AP Touched
9-22-2010 EAD card production ordered. Approved!!!!!
9-23-2010 EAD/AP Touched
9-30-2010 EAD received in mail
10-4-2010 Received interview letter in the mail
11-9-2010 AOS interview 11:00am in Baltimore, Maryland
11-9-2010 Greencard approved!!

 
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