Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1

[Thompson2 1]

Hey everyone,

I have a question for those of you filed for your stepchildren:

Can someone explain the difference between filing along with parent, as opposed to filing after the parent comes here? (I feel like a dyam teacher asking to explain the difference )

Anyways, Vaughn's old co-worker met an amaerican and they are going to file next month. She said she wanted to come here and get a job before she brought her son. I thought it was cheaper to file at the same time, but he doesn't have to come right away. Oh they are doing a K-1, that probably makes a difference. I'm clueless and have no idea where I got this from, but new you all would know the best way for her to come and then bring her son, once she starts working.

Happy Birthday DW!!!!! Let the celerbating begin and continue throughout your trip to JA!!

[sus 70]

Filing the K1 - you include the child on the petition and have up to a year to bring the child here - you don't have to pay the separate application fee for the child, but still have to pay the visa fee, medical, AOS, etc...

Filing the CR-1 - you have to file a separate I-130 for the child -

Not sure which exactly is cheaper, you would have to add the costs - but on the K1, she could come here, find a job, and then email the embassy to get the child's interview set, as long as it was within the first year.

[Eric_Jew Nug 2]

Morning all

Thompson-- couldn't have explained it any better than Sus. Oh yeah just to add. The visa fee went up to $350 from the $131. We got hit that bomb shell right before Eric left. Good thing I put some ducketts aside. Or that would have turned into just a trip back home and a blue slip.

Thanks for all the prayers and good luck wishes. I am stressed out here in the states. But I am trying not to get to worked up. It just kills me, because before he left he knew exactly where she lived and worked. Now 9mnts later everything has changed. What in the world do these men be thinking about? He is working on something, I didn't bother to call yesterday cause my head was killing me and my leg swelled up, so I went straight to bed when I got off.

[Eric_Jew Nug 2]

morning my3.... so are you getting the hang of the new position and work load?

[My4rmylife 0]

Yeah I am doing well ... I catch on fast it just the time away from hubby I don't like

[Eric_Jew Nug 2]

Yeah I am doing well ... I catch on fast it just the time away from hubby I don't like

Girl tell me about it. Even though we have our "I can't stand your Rass" moments, I miss my hubby too.

[sus 70]

Well, Eric can't find his baby momma's where abouts. So he will have to go the courts to get an affidavit. Don't ask me, but his father knows someone who works there and that is what they said. You know, when you right your right. I told that man, not to come until he got everything straight with that woman. Did he listen, HELL to the NAW. Now he trying to rip and run and get everything done before he returns on the 3rd.

Don't think we need the letter for interview, but we will need it for her to leave the country.

Good luck with this - I think you might need it for the interview (not positive, but it would seem likely that you would need proof of custody). How frustrating, though- Going through the courts in JA can take MONTHS

You might try contacting the Child Development Agency - they deal mainly with foster care and adoption, but might be able to help or give you a contact - http://www.cda.gov.jm

[MRStee 19]

Morning all

Thompson-- couldn't have explained it any better than Sus. Oh yeah just to add. The visa fee went up to $350 from the $131. We got hit that bomb shell right before Eric left. Good thing I put some ducketts aside. Or that would have turned into just a trip back home and a blue slip.

Thanks for all the prayers and good luck wishes. I am stressed out here in the states. But I am trying not to get to worked up. It just kills me, because before he left he knew exactly where she lived and worked. Now 9mnts later everything has changed. What in the world do these men be thinking about? He is working on something, I didn't bother to call yesterday cause my head was killing me and my leg swelled up, so I went straight to bed when I got off.

Mama, take it easy. It's important to get her here but at the same time, you have to secure your own health. We gonna claim it for you and keep you in our thoughts and prayers. Whatever is meant to happen will happen

[MRStee 19]

Girl tell me about it. Even though we have our "I can't stand your Rass" moments, I miss my hubby too.

I have to say that my hubby has been doing so good at his job. People are beginning to ask him to do side jobs because they love him and his work. Im so proud of him for that!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO DW AND REGAL!!!!

[finesse 3]

I have to say that my hubby has been doing so good at his job. People are beginning to ask him to do side jobs because they love him and his work. Im so proud of him for that!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO DW AND REGAL!!!!

way to go hubby

Happy b-day DW!!! extra sexy party time

Morning all

Thompson-- couldn't have explained it any better than Sus. Oh yeah just to add. The visa fee went up to $350 from the $131. We got hit that bomb shell right before Eric left. Good thing I put some ducketts aside. Or that would have turned into just a trip back home and a blue slip.

Thanks for all the prayers and good luck wishes. I am stressed out here in the states. But I am trying not to get to worked up. It just kills me, because before he left he knew exactly where she lived and worked. Now 9mnts later everything has changed. What in the world do these men be thinking about? He is working on something, I didn't bother to call yesterday cause my head was killing me and my leg swelled up, so I went straight to bed when I got off.

ouch

[MRStee 19]

Hi finesse how are the children doing?

[dillon 6]

Hi finesse how are the children doing?

She really wanted to say Hi finesse when is the next party. Don't let her fool you.

[Eric_Jew Nug 2]

Mama, take it easy. It's important to get her here but at the same time, you have to secure your own health. We gonna claim it for you and keep you in our thoughts and prayers. Whatever is meant to happen will happen

Tee--you are so right. But I am glad to say Eric found his baby mother and they got everything done. Thank You Lord!!!! I was so stressed, but what a huge relief.

And I am proud of your hubby. That is great that he is making a name for hisself. Eric is known by my family as Craigslist guy and the restorer. That man can bring the life back to anything.

Finesse--Yeah that is what I said when I saw that announcement. WTH. that is like a $219 increase. Blew my mind.

[Thompson2 1]

Thanks Sus and Jew

Way to go Steve!

Good job Jess

Sooooo excited September is here. Let's see if I can remember it all:

1. DW's birthday and return to JA as hubby and wife!

2. Tee's Birthday

3. Matt & Kaci's wedding (anyone know what day?)

4. The 1 yr anniversary of Vaughn moving here!!

5. I know I forgot someone or something.

Postive vibes to all!

[dillon 6]

Tee--you are so right. But I am glad to say Eric found his baby mother and they got everything done. Thank You Lord!!!! I was so stressed, but what a huge relief.

And I am proud of your hubby. That is great that he is making a name for hisself. Eric is known by my family as Craigslist guy and the restorer. That man can bring the life back to anything.

Finesse--Yeah that is what I said when I saw that announcement. WTH. that is like a $219 increase. Blew my mind.

Are you on FB?