Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1

[Sonshyne 2]

It's been a long time since I've posted here.. Just dropping in to see how everyone is doing. Trying to catch up is impossible

Edited August 30, 2010 by Sonshyne

[sugarapple 1]

Hey everyone so the wedding well it was beautiful it was in the church and then on the beach. I will post pictures soon..I guess I picked the right date cause as I type we are experiencing tropical storm winds we have Hurricane earl headed for us power is gone but the house has a big generator so we running on that... I just want it to end quickly AHHHH what a honeymoon ehhhh. at least it nothing compare to hurrican marilyn now that was destruction it took us a year to get power then. Pray for the VI and all leeward islands.

[finesse 3]

Oh I see. You know first hand what it's like. I see where he gets his brains from. I've just heard people say for maturity reasons they don't want their kids to skip, so I was just curious if that was your reasoning too. That's good he learned his lesson. I'm still excited Moy Moy gets to go all day now. That is great!

Ok everyone (or anyone that wants to give their 2 cents), how do you deal with hubby's friends back in JA asking for things? He has one friend that has already asked for a new phone and $100. He asked hubby for the phone and hubby just ignored him (it was visa FB he asked), then he just asked be tonight if I could send $100 and just keep it between him and I. Vaughn has a big family and none of them have even asked for anything, so I think this friend is out of line. I'm happy to help anyone that is important to my husband but I just feel he is thinking I have an endless supply of cash. What makes it hard is that he sees our pictures on FB going to all these places, so how do I say no? I told I can't because hubby and I aren't working this year and are just spending time together before we get serious about work and kids. I'm thinking that he's thinking we aren't just sitting at home so if we have money to go places then why not for him? I'm sure some of you have encounted this before and just would like to know how you handled it.

Just like this: NO

you shouldnt feel guilty for living the life that you live....you dont owe anyone an explanation.. Everyone makes decisions in life.....sorry dude is broke but you shouldnt feel a way cuz your not..

we had a few encounters like this...the more you say yes, the more people will ask..

if i had a zillion dollars, then that would be one thing....but i dont...shoot, people got bills to pay

[bajankutie 4]

Thanks JG! I knew others have had to gone through it.

Trust me I fully understand for instance Krissy is staying with Andrae's grandmother an daunt we made sure she had everything need as far as food school clothes supplies and regular clothes so he told his aunt what we will send her monthly and she said it wasn't enough I got so made but then I though ok it is only temporary and we have no choice. Last sunday we call his grandmother say Krissy start school on 9/6 she said it about 15 times then we call yesteday and it is the same thing. I'm like ok we already know this I know it is the money that they want but as I said we have no choice right now.

Hey everyone so the wedding well it was beautiful it was in the church and then on the beach. I will post pictures soon..I guess I picked the right date cause as I type we are experiencing tropical storm winds we have Hurricane earl headed for us power is gone but the house has a big generator so we running on that... I just want it to end quickly AHHHH what a honeymoon ehhhh. at least it nothing compare to hurrican marilyn now that was destruction it took us a year to get power then. Pray for the VI and all leeward islands.

Congrats again Sugar

[*JG* 2]

Where the hell is everyone this morning? I'm finally on during the day and everyone disappears!!!!!

[MsNaNa 0]

Hey everyone so the wedding well it was beautiful it was in the church and then on the beach. I will post pictures soon..I guess I picked the right date cause as I type we are experiencing tropical storm winds we have Hurricane earl headed for us power is gone but the house has a big generator so we running on that... I just want it to end quickly AHHHH what a honeymoon ehhhh. at least it nothing compare to hurrican marilyn now that was destruction it took us a year to get power then. Pray for the VI and all leeward islands.

Congrats... and sending a prayer for clear skies your way! Happy honeymooning! lol.

Just like this: NO

you shouldnt feel guilty for living the life that you live....you dont owe anyone an explanation.. Everyone makes decisions in life.....sorry dude is broke but you shouldnt feel a way cuz your not..

we had a few encounters like this...the more you say yes, the more people will ask..

if i had a zillion dollars, then that would be one thing....but i dont...shoot, people got bills to pay

WELL SAID!

[dillon 6]

HI JG! I am not cheating on you! Was just a last minute going out.

[*JG* 2]

HI JG! I am not cheating on you! Was just a last minute going out.

We went and played bingo last night. I though....hmmmmm, I should call Dillon one of these times. I need someone else to talk to cause he starts counting down at like 6. If I hear, I'm down to 6, I'm down to 5, etc. one more time I may smack him.

[dillon 6]

We went and played bingo last night. I though....hmmmmm, I should call Dillon one of these times. I need someone else to talk to cause he starts counting down at like 6. If I hear, I'm down to 6, I'm down to 5, etc. one more time I may smack him.

LOL the funny thing is last night I just was telling my Mom that they don't have BINGO here at the casinos. I would love to go sometime just give me a heads up.

OHHHHH and we are thinking of moving...you want to help? LOL!!!!! :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

[*JG* 2]

LOL the funny thing is last night I just was telling my Mom that they don't have BINGO here at the casinos. I would love to go sometime just give me a heads up.

OHHHHH and we are thinking of moving...you want to help? LOL!!!!! :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

Moving? Where now? And, yes, I would help again.

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

Hi all!

Another slow day at work, but not complaining!

Been heavily reading up on photography techniques, which I am now DYING to try!

Problem being, when I'm shooting, I only have limited time to overcome all the OTHER factors in play, let alone try all these creative lighting techniques...

Again, when I'm NOT booked for a session or wedding on weekends, all I want to do is rest and catch up on all my OTHER stuff....sigh...

[dillon 6]

Moving? Where now? And, yes, I would help again.

You would? You are a true friend. Well my Mom is going to come and stay with us part time through the year so we are trying to find a 4 bedroom. We found one right down the street (1st floor) but the 4th bedroom is so small that only a bed would fit in it so I am still looking.

[Thompson2 1]

Just like this: NO

you shouldnt feel guilty for living the life that you live....you dont owe anyone an explanation.. Everyone makes decisions in life.....sorry dude is broke but you shouldnt feel a way cuz your not..

we had a few encounters like this...the more you say yes, the more people will ask..

if i had a zillion dollars, then that would be one thing....but i dont...shoot, people got bills to pay

Love it Finesse! Thanks so much. I was feeling guilty, but you made me feel much better. You are exactly right , the more you say yes the more they will ask. If it was a one time emergency then that would be one thing, but I know it would lead to all the time, which is why I didn't even want to start it.

JaEng- I would love to do to a photo shoot with you. You do beautiful work.

JG- it has been sloooow in here. When I have time to catch up and post a lot then you know the chatters are M.I.A. Congrats again on your job!

Sugar- Wow you just made it in time before that rude hurricane is coming through. Congrats and can't wait to see pics!!! I still can't believe that the island lost power for a year. Yikes!

[Eric_Jew Nug 2]

Hey all! Let the weekend begin

JQ- You are such a blessing to Moy Moy. Her mom obviously didn't care one bit and a lot of times men just can't handle these type of things. Thank God for us women, serious though she is so lucky she has you now to not only care and work with her, but do so in a nice way. I give you lots of credit because I know with work, your two boys and baby boom in the belly you already have a lot on your plate. Moy Moy is going to turn out to be a completely didn't person than if she was left in JA with that woman who gave birth to her, won't say mom because from what I see she never acted like one.

Eric_Jew- that's a pretty name you have picked out for your baby girl. Was it hard for you and hubby to decide? Eventhough we aren't even pregnant we are talking names and have settled on a boys name, but have totally different taste when it comes to girls names.

Finesse- Those names would have been cute for your twin girls. I like the names you both decided on too though.

Tee- Congrats on going back to school! I think mid Sept. you're gonna need an Orlando break

Jess- How's it going at work being on your own? Congrats again!!

Jap- Your day is faaaast approaching. Soooo excited for you guys. I wish I could be there. Is Imanni going to be able to go?

Who else? I know I'm missing some other important news. I was just thinking I need to give Dada a shout out or she will be mad at me, but then I remembered she moved states and ditched VJ. J/K you are missed that is all. Keep up the good work though.

DW- you ready to celebrate like you never did before next month with the doubles birthday in Yaad?

So McCoy said she is going to JA for Christmas..anyone else??

Have fun this weekend and if you can't be good then be good at being bad.

Hey Thompson-- it was easy for us. I really liked the name Janelle, but really wanted Michelle as middle name. Didn't want names to rhyme. So Eric got on line and found Janay. He wanted Jr. if it was a boy, so I said I want the baby to have my initials if it is a girl. There you have it. We just went down the list until we found one that I liked. Then I had to make sure he liked it as well.

[Thompson2 1]

Hey Jew- That's great! It really seems like you guys worked it out in no time. I think Janay is pretty and not very common. When is your due date again? You are JQ are do at the same time, right?