Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1

[Always Blessed 1]

Hi all! I'm not feeling all to well today. Just feel out right exhausted. Here @ work I took my blood sugar, blood pressure & pulse. Sugar was 130 which I think is a little high for me. I don't know. Plus I've been up & down in the way I feel & at times it is as if hubby is insensitive. According to him I'm showing him no affection. How the hell am I to do that if I feel I'll.

My doctor isn't in his office yet so I consulted w/a friends mother. She's Jamaican & a nurse practioner so when I can't locate my doctors, she always assist. Plus of the 2 jobs she has, one is delivering babies. I spoke w/her & explained how I feel plus this symptom I've been experiencing. She stated spotting is normal to an extent & based upon it's appearance. & she also asked if I was having cramps. No cramps but I'm spotting here & there. I don't know.

I'm heading to JA on the 19th & this is first trip where I'm not excited @ all. I haven't even started to pack my things. Overall I just don't know!!!!

Oh sweetie! hope you feel well soon. Definetly consault your dr (i know u dont need me or anyone to tell you that) Keep strong, How far along are you? Maybe you should rethink the Jamaica trip since you havent been feeling so great, can you get your money back? Please please keep us posted on both you and the baby health. Take care my prayers are with you

[MoLuvsAcory 0]

Thanks Always! My doctor just called & said come in later. So that's good.

I'm sure I can use ticket @ a later date. However hubby is so excited to go back & see his son & of course my son is bragging in school about heading to JA. I've already made it clear that I will be @ the house in JA watching tv & relaxing. HOPEFULLY things will be ok on the trip but feeling like I am @ only 12wks just makes me think about the "what ifs" while in JA.

[JAPrincess 27]

Good afternoon/evening everyone!! First let me start by saying congrats to all the mama's!! I have some serious baby fever but we will not be entertaining that idea at this point!

We got NOA1 dated 12/1/2010!!

But looking ahead at the income and sponsor part.....my very close friend said she was willing to do it but asked what she would be getting herself in for....... I actually found myself struggling to explain it!! I tried and stumbled looking for the right way to tell her....I know that being a co-sponsor means financial responsibility we get that part, but her question was (playing devil's advocate) "what if he came here and became a loser?" like if me and him don't work out and left and incurred debt??? Hmmmmmmm any idea's on how to properly respond to that? I mean, with the sponsor's responsibility to the debt? Or do you know where to find info for that? (I am sort of lame at finding these kinds of answers on the net)

MY ladyD

Basically it means that if the immigrant applies for welfare, food stamps etc. the government can come after them for reimbursement...

Means Tested Benefits

During the liability period, the joint sponsor is responsible for the welfare of the immigrant. If the immigrant draws upon any state or federal means tested benefit, the sponsor is held liable for repaying those benefits to the government. This includes welfare and any other benefit where the immigrant's income is used as a qualifying factor. Means tested benefits do not generally include programs that the immigrant has paid into, such as state unemployment benefits. Any benefits that the immigrant draws must be paid back by the sponsor and joint sponsor until the immigrant meets one of the requirements that ends the obligation.

Read more: Visa Joint Sponsorship Risks | eHow.com http://www.ehow.com/list_6458481_visa-joint-sponsorship-risks.html#ixzz17SAjz8vu

[JAPrincess 27]

Congrats to Lilla for literally taking a big step and walking despite being destracting by the beads. So cute JaP.

I am so proud

Well I hope VK makes some more of that okra juice in Jamaica and you come back knocked up!

[MRStee 19]

Thanks Always! My doctor just called & said come in later. So that's good.

I'm sure I can use ticket @ a later date. However hubby is so excited to go back & see his son & of course my son is bragging in school about heading to JA. I've already made it clear that I will be @ the house in JA watching tv & relaxing. HOPEFULLY things will be ok on the trip but feeling like I am @ only 12wks just makes me think about the "what ifs" while in JA.

Mo, Im sorry to hear this and I hope everything is alright! Keep us posted.

[Eric_Jew Nug 2]

Second, FINALLY WE GOT THE GREEN CARD!!!! Sexy party time!!!!

Congrats on the Green Card!!!!

IT'S A BOY!!

KJ--Everything will be okay. And Congrats on your likkle bundle of boy joy!!!!!!

[Eric_Jew Nug 2]

Hi ladies! Well, we had our ultrasound appt today. First of all let me tell you that this baby is something else! Barely stayed still long enough to get any pictures taken or to check all of the organs! Everything checked out though, except that I have to go back in two weeks because while they could see the heart & it beating, they weren't able to get a good look at all the ventricles, so they want me to come back so they can try and get a better view. This child was flipping, turning, waving, and ducking from the time the wand was put on my stomach! And finally sat still for about 10 seconds long enough for us to see that WE'RE HAVING A GIRL! You know, I was so hooked on the idea of having a boy (I wanted to be the only lady in the house! ) before, but as soon as the technician told me, I was ecstatic! That poor lady earned her paycheck today! She said she had seen 3 other babies that day and ours was the busiest! I'm just thankful that things are going well...my husband was in shock (he honestly thought he would never have a girl) and my mother was laughing!

One more likkle girl to the bunch. Congrats!!!!! Gyrl Power

[MRStee 19]

I'm smiling at what you said about me and Palmer wanting a boy/girl...

And oh yes my boy sure has quite some options with all theses vj baby girls on the way. Hubby insists that it shouldn't be spelled Aidan but Aiden

So I said ok honey, but he doesn't pay attention to deails anyway so when it's time to name him, I won't even be worried

Lilla did awesome!

I was thinking the same thing about Always' baby, showing off her Jamaican colors already by being late.

Oh boy, 49.9?

Well I hope VK makes some more of that okra juice in Jamaica and you come back knocked up!

Whispering... I hope she does too LOL

[My4rmylife 0]

Hey ladies hope all is well haven't been on much just got a lot going on

[MRStee 19]

Congrats on the Green Card!!!!

KJ--Everything will be okay. And Congrats on your likkle bundle of boy joy!!!!!!

Thank you!

[Eric_Jew Nug 2]

Hi all! I'm not feeling all to well today. Just feel out right exhausted. Here @ work I took my blood sugar, blood pressure & pulse. Sugar was 130 which I think is a little high for me. I don't know. Plus I've been up & down in the way I feel & at times it is as if hubby is insensitive. According to him I'm showing him no affection. How the hell am I to do that if I feel I'll.

My doctor isn't in his office yet so I consulted w/a friends mother. She's Jamaican & a nurse practioner so when I can't locate my doctors, she always assist. Plus of the 2 jobs she has, one is delivering babies. I spoke w/her & explained how I feel plus this symptom I've been experiencing. She stated spotting is normal to an extent & based upon it's appearance. & she also asked if I was having cramps. No cramps but I'm spotting here & there. I don't know.

I'm heading to JA on the 19th & this is first trip where I'm not excited @ all. I haven't even started to pack my things. Overall I just don't know!!!!

Mo. yes these man can be insensitive at times. Don't I know it first hand. I hope everything will be just fine. Keep the doctor informed of everything and keep yourself a journal. That will help you recall information. Trip to JA. Be safe and get a copy of your medical info from you OB to take with you, just in case.

Thank you!

Tee-- don't it feel like a weight is lifted off of your shoulders? Girl I know the feeling.

[MRStee 19]

Hey ladies hope all is well haven't been on much just got a lot going on

Hey jess, im still waiting to see where to buy my car seat covers....

Mo. yes these man can be insensitive at times. Don't I know it first hand. I hope everything will be just fine. Keep the doctor informed of everything and keep yourself a journal. That will help you recall information. Trip to JA. Be safe and get a copy of your medical info from you OB to take with you, just in case.

Tee-- don't it feel like a weight is lifted off of your shoulders? Girl I know the feeling.

Yes especially since I only have 16 days of employment left... I needed to know where my 1010 was spent at LOL

Two of my bosses are taking the entire purchasing department (my dept) out for lunch at this fancy Italian restaurant.. That was nice since out of 6 people that are retiring 4 are from the purchasing department

[My4rmylife 0]

Hey jess, im still waiting to see where to buy my car seat covers....

http://www.jamaicathings.com/online-store?page=shop.product_details&category_id=6&flypage=flypage-ask.tpl&product_id=106&vmcchk=1

Yes especially since I only have 16 days of employment left... I needed to know where my 1010 was spent at LOL

Two of my bosses are taking the entire purchasing department (my dept) out for lunch at this fancy Italian restaurant.. That was nice since out of 6 people that are retiring 4 are from the purchasing department

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

Hey yall

KJ congrats on the

Mrs P congrats on the

That is so great to find out what you are having. 1luv and I wanted to wait but the anticipation was breaking us.

Mo make sure you consult with the doctor but also consult with your gut. As women we know when we are doing to much and overdoing it all. If you dont feel right even if the dr says ok go to JA, then trust yourself.

Can your son go with your hubby? and you stay behind if that is your decision? Get some me time

Im praying for you. I was spotting also, but the dr said it was a little but I thought it was alot

Theres a difference between spotting and bleeding thats when you should get worried, so Im glad you said spotting~! which can be sometimes as little as a to rough sexy party

Love you Mo Mo take care.

Go TEE congrats on your card!!!!! We have to do the AOS in 6 months not looking forward to that!

Always Sorry you feeling bad huh! God Bless

Hey Jess, Im sed you my address for my Xmas card.

Hey mama jew waiting on you to have your baby so I can follow :rofl:

Congrats to Lila walking :dance: :dance:

Edited December 7, 2010 by JQ Smiley BOOM

[Mrs. Palmer 5]

Good evening ladies! Hope all are well!

Always- you still holding on to that baby?!? How are you holding up?

Mo- Hope you feel better soon. I can understand about your apprehension about travelling, especially when you're worried and not feeling your best. Hope all turns out well at the doctor. Keep us posted and take care of yourself and your baby!

Mrs Tee- congrats on the GC!

Jess- Hang in there girl...remember at the end of every storm there is a rainbow. Take it easy!

To everyone else, hope you all are blessed. Don't forget to love on those around you.