Yardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1

[MRStee 19]

OMG...write a book why don't you??

are YOU pregnant? i expected a much better comeback than that!

Finesse!!!!!!! :bonk: Speaking of getting stuff started......

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

*sings... We are family... I got all my sistas with me* LOL

I needed to laugh at my own self today!!!

I was an EMOTIONAL wreck when I was pregnant with my son... I cried at the drop of a dime...Like if I went out to eat and they made my food wrong! Im crazy!!!

I cried once because I was calling my husband and his phone was out of area :whistle:

I ended up not watching the news because it would upset me too much...

[MRStee 19]

Damn hormones just be taking ova!

I gotta go take a nap... Im mentally exhausted... Likkle more ladies....

Edited November 24, 2010 by MRStee

[JAPrincess 27]

First of all, I agree with JaP and thats all Im going to say about that.

Secondly,

Our interview was an interview from hell! The officer was very militant... He started us off by reprimanding us for talking... which fine, I get that. It is an interview. Then he asked for our LPR documents and my documents of proof as a US citizen. Then he proceeded to talk about our age difference. Then he asked for our documents of shared things. We didn't have a lot to begin with. I explained why. He asked if either of us was married before or had children. He asked random questions off of the I-485. He then proceeded to seperate us. I kept saying a prayer to God to help Steve and I be on the same page with things and to tell the WHOLE truth as we knew it. When Steve left, he proceeded to remind me that Jamaica is high fraud country and that I needed to be careful because they needed to make sure he wasn't trying to use me to gain access to the good ol U S of A.

Questions asked in no particular order: (This is when I looked him square in the eyes in "Rashida mode"

Have you ever been married before?

Do you have children?

How many?

What are there names and ages?

Oh they have different fathers..

What hours do I work?

What hours does he work?

How much money does he give you?

Does he give you extra money?

What are you in school for?

What is the make and model and year of your car?

How do you get to work?

How does he get to work?

Do you have wedding pictures?

Who was at your wedding?

Can I have two of the pictures for your file?

Who helped him get his job?

What color are the bedsheets?

What color are the rugs in the bathroom?

When did you meet?

How did you meet?

How many times have you been to Jamaica?

Why did you go to Jamaica?

Im probably forgetting the rest of them. Then he called Steve back in and questioned him:

Where did you meet?

What year did you meet?

How many times has your wife been to Jamaica?

What color are the bed sheets?

What color are the rugs

How many times have you been married.

How old are her children?

Do you get along with her son?

What is she in school for?

What time does she get home?

Do you give her money?

Probably more questions but I can't remember...

Steve told them the wrong year and I kept kicking his foot. He then remember by saying "I got the dates confused, I met her in blah blah blah"

After all of the questioning, he said well you started off rocky, but I will make my decision by the end of the day. You should receive something in the mail in the next 2 to 3 weeks. If you don't agree with the results you can schedule an infopass appoint and blah blah blah thats all I heard. I damn near ran out of the building. We were there for 1 and 1/2 hours.

I DESPISE USCIS!!!!! :angry:

I was thinking your relationship is real, you got nothing to hide, so you got nothing to worry about... lawd dem noh easy at all

Sorry you and Steve had to go through such scrutiny... I understand why they do this, but it sure feels horrible to have to defend your LIFE to a stranger... stay strong MRSTee

I hate to even think it, but what happens if they deny someones AOS???

What good is an infopass appointment at that point? Is there an appeal process??

what a prekeh!

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

I was thinking your relationship is real, you got nothing to hide, so you got nothing to worry about... lawd dem noh easy at all

Sorry you and Steve had to go through such scrutiny... I understand why they do this, but it sure feels horrible to have to defend your LIFE to a stranger... stay strong MRSTee

I hate to even think it, but what happens if they deny someones AOS???

What good is an infopass appointment at that point? Is there an appeal process??

what a prekeh!

I can't think of hearing of a case that has been denied..has to have happened

[JAPrincess 27]

Oh and they asked me if I had a Facebook account and did my husband have the password... and do I have pictures on there... he tried to get on but it BLOCKED him hahaha!

OMFG!! bout im want the PASSWORD to your facebook!!???

Now, absolutely I understand my comment was there to be commented on, but I get the feeling that if it hadn't applied to KJ, you would have a) co-signed or b) kept on walking.

Nothing wrong with defending a friend, but that's where my cheering squad comment came from.

In real life and the internet, I'm the same in that I have a very strong opinion and have no problem voicing it. But also, in real life and the internet I NEVER tear down someone for the choices they've made even if I don't agree with it. Because what's done is DONE, all a comment from me will do is hurt them. And in real life and the net, I will never deliberately cause emotional harm to anyone. Now, if we are talking trading catty comments, I'm there! But seriously, I do not air my opinions if they aren't going to DO something constructive, make someone think about the way they are handling some thing or enable them to decide to make a positive change.

Now, it doesn't mean I don't see someone doing something I think is crazy and have an opinion about that. Means I normally keep it to myself. Unless it is USEFUL.

Now regarding my real life friend, I know me saying anything to her isn't going to make a blind bit of difference, she's going to do what she wants to do. And as a friend, I'll be there to support HER decision because that's HER choice. But it bothers me. Because I think, the natural order of things are - parents raise kids, kids move out, get married, get their own place, raise their own kids. Now, that's MY opinion. Other people have different opinions, and ABSOLUTELY do what they think is best for them.

Now, had I closely been following KJ's story, would I have made the comment I did? Nope. because despite the fact I think she's brash to the point of arrogance, it would hit home to her and possibly affect her in some way. But would it make a difference? Nope, she's pregnant already, only purpose it would serve is to cause anger/upset.

As for building her up, ABSOLUTELY, the purpose of this board is to ENHANCE and ENRICH people's lives, whether through getting a better idea of the immigration process, of through shared stories to understand why you husband is doing XYZ, or just being a listener because there's stuff you want to share that doesn't have a place anywhere else or you can't tell your family.

Buttttttt, with that said, the BIGGEST piece of advice I can give ANYONE is, NEVER allow ANYONE'S OPINION to defeat, demean or negatively affect you. Listen to people yes, but discard what is not uplifting and go from there.

Now, something with me, while I may have strong opinions, I defend to the DEATH your right to voice them! So, even if we phoned each other every day, I wouldn't be mad, I'd take what you said as how it was meant, how you felt.

OMG...write a book why don't you??

are YOU pregnant? i expected a much better comeback than that!

yuh too love mix-up!

[DedicatedWife 4]

Morning Yardies...Whats Poppin? Well we leave for NYC today I cant wait to be with my entire family. My mother will finall meet Garfield this weekend. We will have a blast. I wish everyone a Very Happy Thanksgiving.

Morning Lady C! Happy Thanksgiving and have safe travels!

[MRStee 19]

I was thinking your relationship is real, you got nothing to hide, so you got nothing to worry about... lawd dem noh easy at all

Sorry you and Steve had to go through such scrutiny... I understand why they do this, but it sure feels horrible to have to defend your LIFE to a stranger... stay strong MRSTee

I hate to even think it, but what happens if they deny someones AOS???

What good is an infopass appointment at that point? Is there an appeal process??

what a prekeh!

Exactly and I need to look into it just in case. Im stronger than EVER now cause they don't know Im crazy and I will keep fighting until they give us the card that our 1,010 paid for!!!!

I can't think of hearing of a case that has been denied..has to have happened

I pray so!

OMFG!! bout im want the PASSWORD to your facebook!!???

yuh too love mix-up!

Yes but God is good and blocked him!!! LOL

[DedicatedWife 4]

First of all, I agree with JaP and thats all Im going to say about that.

Secondly,

Our interview was an interview from hell! The officer was very militant... He started us off by reprimanding us for talking... which fine, I get that. It is an interview. Then he asked for our LPR documents and my documents of proof as a US citizen. Then he proceeded to talk about our age difference. Then he asked for our documents of shared things. We didn't have a lot to begin with. I explained why. He asked if either of us was married before or had children. He asked random questions off of the I-485. He then proceeded to seperate us. I kept saying a prayer to God to help Steve and I be on the same page with things and to tell the WHOLE truth as we knew it. When Steve left, he proceeded to remind me that Jamaica is high fraud country and that I needed to be careful because they needed to make sure he wasn't trying to use me to gain access to the good ol U S of A.

Questions asked in no particular order: (This is when I looked him square in the eyes in "Rashida mode"

Have you ever been married before?

Do you have children?

How many?

What are there names and ages?

Oh they have different fathers..

What hours do I work?

What hours does he work?

How much money does he give you?

Does he give you extra money?

What are you in school for?

What is the make and model and year of your car?

How do you get to work?

How does he get to work?

Do you have wedding pictures?

Who was at your wedding?

Can I have two of the pictures for your file?

Who helped him get his job?

What color are the bedsheets?

What color are the rugs in the bathroom?

When did you meet?

How did you meet?

How many times have you been to Jamaica?

Why did you go to Jamaica?

Im probably forgetting the rest of them. Then he called Steve back in and questioned him:

Where did you meet?

What year did you meet?

How many times has your wife been to Jamaica?

What color are the bed sheets?

What color are the rugs

How many times have you been married.

How old are her children?

Do you get along with her son?

What is she in school for?

What time does she get home?

Do you give her money?

Probably more questions but I can't remember...

Steve told them the wrong year and I kept kicking his foot. He then remember by saying "I got the dates confused, I met her in blah blah blah"

After all of the questioning, he said well you started off rocky, but I will make my decision by the end of the day. You should receive something in the mail in the next 2 to 3 weeks. If you don't agree with the results you can schedule an infopass appoint and blah blah blah thats all I heard. I damn near ran out of the building. We were there for 1 and 1/2 hours.

I DESPISE USCIS!!!!! :angry:

Teee, nooooooo! Are they freaking serious? I know that you guys are going to be approved...

[JAPrincess 27]

Yes but God is good and blocked him!!! LOL

I know you changed that ish as soon as you got home, RIGHT?

[DedicatedWife 4]

See that is why I stay the F away from this site!!!!!!!!!!

Mrs. Boom, always, DW, KJ, Mstee, Brooke I let u know when I have the baby.

Hi Mama, you better let me know or else... Hugs to you and I hope you are staying warm!

[MRStee 19]

Steve is at work right now and has this big inspection. He has been working overtime. I texted him and said "don't respond because I know you are busy but I love you so much" and he texted me back anyway to say "I love you no matta what"

That's all I needed to hear! I know God got us!

Thank you to everyone on this board who supported us and been with us on our journey. It means alot to me personally to have met such a wonderful, supportive group of ladies. I look forward to more link ups and beautifully formed friendships.. You guys are the BEST!!!!!

I know you changed that ish as soon as you got home, RIGHT?

He didn't ask for the password, he wanted to know if Steve had the password to my account. I said no but he can if he wants too!

[JAPrincess 27]

Hold up! Didn't Quana find out at the end of the interview that Rodger was approved???

Who else had to go to interview for AOS?? Did they tell you at the interview that you were approved???

I don't like the sound of that "You should receive something in the mail in the next 2 to 3 weeks." Tee

Sounds like what I get when I apply for credit :crying:

[DedicatedWife 4]

Damn hormones just be taking ova!

I gotta go take a nap... Im mentally exhausted... Likkle more ladies....

Aww Tee , its going to be alright girl...smh at him asking about Facebook...dayummm!

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

ROFL :whistle:

It look like pregnancy has SOFTENED JQ lol! Looking for HUGGING smileys? LOL!

Before she'd have the M16s out!!!

Who me!!!!!!!!!!

Hell naw You werent on here the other day when someone (I think it was KJ's emotional azz)was saying they were crying like crazy and I told them to take some prenatals because they were hormonal.

Thats one thing I am not now is Softened. Girl to much hood in me for that!!! Been there and done this pregnancy thing aint nothing new

Girl everything is funny to me, the lady fell in the store and I couldnt stop laughing she wanted to fight and if I was pregnant I would have beat the ** outta here, because its a free country and I can laugh, but I know it wasnt right but damn she fell in some boots hi-tailing around the corner running to keep her space in line :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: