K-1 August 2010 VSC filer

[MARCUS&ABBY 0]

Is this a general Q to any one?

VSC. Signed by D RENAUD.

Sorry, this orginal post was sent to the wrong area.

[Amyyduck 20]

So yesterday was exactly 2 months from my NOA1 date. I was hoping that since it was 10/10/10 it would mean something lucky would happen.

Nothing yet..

[Lucy NY 1]

So yesterday was exactly 2 months from my NOA1 date. I was hoping that since it was 10/10/10 it would mean something lucky would happen.

Nothing yet..

It will happen soon....please let it happen soon!!

[PurpleSky 19]

It will it will!!!

On my end, I'm trying real hard not to get stressed out because unfortunately we have to wait for our NOA2 before booking FH's trip home to Nigeria for a new passport. I am so tempted to just have him go back now while we're waiting because that trip will be at least two weeks. But I don't want the police certificate he also has to get from there to expire. Granted it's 3 months validity but I would hate to waste money. Hmmm....

[Penny Lane 8,159]

I have barely even thought about my Visa since I've been visiting my fiance, so it's been a blessing that way. Thought I'd check in and see how everyone was doing. Seems VSC has started to at least show that there are people actually THERE ... nothing from CSC yet, though. Good luck to everyone. Been 2 months since our NOA1. Doesn't seem like it, though.

[EllaC 190]

I've been going around these topics and would like to say I love to see how we support each other during this process. Good luck to you all!!

I'm happy to hear that, Coconuts, 'cause home is where your soul is.

[Lucy NY 1]

I have barely even thought about my Visa since I've been visiting my fiance, so it's been a blessing that way. Thought I'd check in and see how everyone was doing. Seems VSC has started to at least show that there are people actually THERE ... nothing from CSC yet, though. Good luck to everyone. Been 2 months since our NOA1. Doesn't seem like it, though.

Glad your having a great time, I found that too when matt was here, barely even thought about it!!

[Tanoushka 7]

I'm off to see my baby on Wednesday...so happy to go to Miami

Hope not to have too much issues at the mmigration point

ok back to topic

how is everybody coping on the waiting?

my fiance was a bit concerned about my stress level...he thinks i'm over-thinking this

i just can't help it...i'm so glad you're all here!

xx

Edited October 11, 2010 by Tanoushka

[isa_jade 1]

how is everybody coping on the waiting?

my fiance was a bit concerned about my stress level...he thinks i'm over-thinking this

i just can't help it...i'm so glad you're all here!

xx

My fiance is thinking the same thing about me. I keep stressing over it more than he does... he's the calm one in the relationship lol.

I really do like that everyone seems to care about everyone because we're basically all in or have been in the same boat.

[Lucy NY 1]

Thats so funny you guys say that as my fiance thinks the same, he is like if you just chilled out about it then it will come through!! Just wish that would be the case!

Sorry July Filer crashing August posts!

This waiting is terrible but in 4 weeks I am off to spend the holidays with my OH so that cushions the waiting a little bit!!

[EllaC 190]

It's the same for both of us too. I'm the paranoid one sometimes ) And he's so sure of everything and all... I wish I could be more like him. And that's what I'm working on right now. Like I said, sometimes I lose control, but in most of the time I'm very optimistic. I even think that our process will be over by the end of the year and I'll be able to spend Christmas with my honey!!

Anyway, September Filer crashing August posts as well.

[Amyyduck 20]

Ok so mini rant:

I'm having such an awful day. I hate Tuesdays. Some days I feel really in control of myself, patient and rational and confident that this whole visa thing is going to be just fine. Today is unfortunately not one of those days. I know I can't really complain too much about the waiting because it's only been 2 months and I know I'm lucky to be at VSC but sometimes I just get overwhelmed with how sick of this whole thing I am! I feel like my relationship is in such a rut too. It's awful, we both know we love each other and want to be together but the separation is causing our relationship to stagnate. I called my Fiance today on my lunch hour and neither of us had anything to say to each other. We just sort of sat there in silence. It's sad, horrible and pathetic all at the same time. So after we got off the phone I was feeling depressed and went across to street and bought a bag of skittles which just made me feel worse because now I feel nauseous, fat and depressed. Great.

Also, not that this has anything to do with anything, but I somehow managed to turn the clock on my cell phone off and now I can't make it go back on. I think it's broken because even if I switch the clock display setting to "on" the screen is just blank. Ugh. Tuesdays..

Ok, rant over. Sorry!

[EllaC 190]

Ok so mini rant:

I'm having such an awful day. I hate Tuesdays. Some days I feel really in control of myself, patient and rational and confident that this whole visa thing is going to be just fine. Today is unfortunately not one of those days. I know I can't really complain too much about the waiting because it's only been 2 months and I know I'm lucky to be at VSC but sometimes I just get overwhelmed with how sick of this whole thing I am! I feel like my relationship is in such a rut too. It's awful, we both know we love each other and want to be together but the separation is causing our relationship to stagnate. I called my Fiance today on my lunch hour and neither of us had anything to say to each other. We just sort of sat there in silence. It's sad, horrible and pathetic all at the same time. So after we got off the phone I was feeling depressed and went across to street and bought a bag of skittles which just made me feel worse because now I feel nauseous, fat and depressed. Great.

Also, not that this has anything to do with anything, but I somehow managed to turn the clock on my cell phone off and now I can't make it go back on. I think it's broken because even if I switch the clock display setting to "on" the screen is just blank. Ugh. Tuesdays..

Ok, rant over. Sorry!

I gotta tell you, sometimes I feel the same. We feel the same, me and my fiance. But he's always stronger than me. I'm trying to learn how to do that from him.

I'm just like you, sometimes I feel so depressed, other times I say to myself: It's going to be fiiine, we have a real relationship. I don't think I'm afraid of the interview, but I can't stand this waiting game, it's killing me(us...), we've been together since 2007 and it was all about waiting all the time. So I'm getting sick of it. There's not so much time left, but well, there are some days when I just can't control myself and I cry like a baby.

But THIS process WILL BE OVER and WE WILL BE WITH OUR LOVED ONES!! Just think about that. I don't know if my reply will help you, but I figured I could at least try...

Hugs,

Sunshine

Edited October 12, 2010 by Ella & Octav

[Amyyduck 20]

I gotta tell you, sometimes I feel the same. We feel the same, me and my fiance. But he's always stronger than me. I'm trying to learn how to do that from him.

I'm just like you, sometimes I feel so depressed, other times I say to myself: It's going to be fiiine, we have a real relationship. But waiting is killing me(us...), we've been together since 2007 and it was all about waiting all the time. So I'm getting sick of it. There's not so much time left, but well, there are some days when I just can't control myself and I cry like a baby.

But THIS process WILL BE OVER and WE WILL BE WITH OUR LOVED ONES!! Just think about that. I don't know if my reply will help you, but I figured I could at least try...

Thanks, I appreciate your response. Sometimes you just need a good cry, ya know? It's cathartic.

The stupid thing about this though is that even if his visa was approved tomorrow, he couldn't move here until March 20th because thats exactly 90 days before the day we're planning the wedding. Long distance is just so damn hard!!

[EllaC 190]

Thanks, I appreciate your response. Sometimes you just need a good cry, ya know? It's cathartic.

The stupid thing about this though is that even if his visa was approved tomorrow, he couldn't move here until March 20th because thats exactly 90 days before the day we're planning the wedding. Long distance is just so damn hard!!

Hmm... I'll go immediately after the interview with my fiancé. Anyway, yes... sometimes you need to cry, at least... sometimes crying makes me feel better. But lately I do feel better, I'm confident, I don't know what's happening, maybe our NOA2's closer?

Edited October 12, 2010 by Ella & Octav