Any couples break up before/after the process is done.

[Carollin 0]

Well....as topic...

Just wondering....

[iceyspots 0]

Yes, it happens fairly often. Just as how any American/American relationships end up in divorce as well.

[one...two...tree 2,762]

Well....as topic...

Just wondering....

If you're wondering that this process takes a toll on the relationship - I don't think that it does. If anything, it strengthens the bond.

The bottom line on long distance relationships depends on people's priorities. If a relationship with a soulmate/companion/lover is very high on people's list of priorities, they'll manage to get together one way or another because it is important to them. If they are seeking a lifetime companion with whom to enjoy the second half of their lives, nothing will stand in the way of their getting together -- no matter how far apart they are to begin with. If having a soulmate to enjoy during the best part of their lives is not a priority, and other things are more important (to either of the pair), then a long distance relationship will be a very difficult matter since one or both of the couple have other matters that they value more.

[babybunny 2]

Look at the beginning of the relationship and dont focus on the ending.

[Laura_and_IanM 0]

Look at the beginning of the relationship and dont focus on the ending.

Very wise advice there shon!!!!

[Welshcookie 17]

Well since there is talk of a Divorce Forum to be placed on here ....

There is nothing magical or indestructible about relationships going through this process....all relationships take work and I guess the ones on here take extra work and commitment at times.

[rebeccajo 14]

This process isn't for everybody. It can strenthen bonds, that's true.

The 'longing' though that is experienced when separated is unfortunately for some, blinders. Once real life hits and the couple have to truly interact daily then values, priorities and cultural differences can clash.

Both partners need to have their eyes wide open. These marriages have all the normal adjustments that any couple will experience, plus a myriad of cultural and immigration curves to boot. If there's immaturity, selfishness or microwave mentalities involved, it won't last.

[RaspberrySwirl 20]

Yes.

[Hilarious Clinton 452]

Look at the beginning of the relationship and dont focus on the ending.

Good advice. My wife is always telling me not to worry about the future too much.