USA is now Arizona

[y2catalyst 3]

Sorry, last post, sorry, My head is obviously not all there, my divorce was final July 2009.

[Carolina+James 1]

But WHY are you shocked? You were not divorced until this month, and yet you filed for a K1 Visa back in December. It doesn't matter how legitimate your relationship is at that point if you are still legally married with a divorce pending.

What I am not understanding is that from what I've read here, it is normal for people to forget to send their final divorce decree and get an RFE during the I-129 part, asking for it. And yet they let this couple go ahead for the interview fase...

[Penny Lane 8,159]

What I am not understanding is that from what I've read here, it is normal for people to forget to send their final divorce decree and get an RFE during the I-129 part, asking for it. And yet they let this couple go ahead for the interview fase...

That's what was confusing me too, but it looks like y2catalyst was in fact divorced in 2009. So the Visa was denied because there was not enough evidence of a relationship, it sounds like.

[Darnell 8,478]

Hey guys - just a quick check in.

You need to recognize that Guangzhou Immigration Visa Unit is one of the hardest in the world, is a high-fraud country - so the criteria utilized is much harsher than most other places.

Also, 'reporting back' to the Interviewee on 'exactly why we are issuing you a denial' is never done - usually, the most a person gets is 'not a bonafide relationship' and that's that. Filing a FOIA request takes months to get back, and rarely can see actual case notes on the casefile for interview day.

Even with that said - cut y2Catalyst some slack - as he's just had the biggest emotional bomb in his life. Seriously. Cut the man some slack. In a few days, or weeks, he'll be calm enough to be focused on the 'next thing to do' - but for now -

Cut him some slack - he just got a 'white slip' at one of the toughest MF'ing IV units in the world.

Seriously.

[Penny Lane 8,159]

Even with that said - cut y2Catalyst some slack - as he's just had the biggest emotional bomb in his life. Seriously. Cut the man some slack. In a few days, or weeks, he'll be calm enough to be focused on the 'next thing to do' - but for now -

Cut him some slack - he just got a 'white slip' at one of the toughest MF'ing IV units in the world.

Seriously.

I am tired of being told to cut him some slack. You can, if you'd like. That's your choice. How others react is their choice. Nobody, not a single person, is undermining what he's been through. We all empathise. However, I have no respect for people who just play the race card when things get tough and don't go their way. Nor do I have respect for people who feel the need to brag about how successful they are and how much money they make, and act like that somehow entitles them to have things handed to them without working for it.

I am all in favour of blowing off steam and venting to a group of people who will understand my situation. However, I'm not in favour of going about it in an insulting, condescending way.

React however you'd like, but let others do the same.

[Darnell 8,478]

Coconuts, that's yer choice - but I do hope you've taken notice of HIS APOLOGY, as well.

And to be honest, I wasn't TELLING - I was asking. Not the same thing, I know, but hei.

Edited July 30, 2010 by Darnell

[Bobby+Umit 161]

To the OP:

How many times did you visit her? Are they documented?

[y2catalyst 3]

To the OP:

How many times did you visit her? Are they documented?

Visit once, October 2009. I will go back end of the month to visit again and try to file K1 again but my lawyer said if I go at the end of the month just marry her then. So we will try again either way.

[Darnell 8,478]

any news on what was in the white slip?

[y2catalyst 3]

any news on what was in the white slip?

[y2catalyst 3]

"The Counculate has determined, based on your testimony, documents and any other evidance,that you do not have a bona fide relationship with your petitioner"

Three questions

1. When we met

2. How many time is see her in China

3. Are we engaged

Looked at his computer 5 minutes and issued white slip

All phone, travel, records, EOR letter, engagement ring, money trandfers and forms complete and verified by Lawyer but were never asked for even though she tried to present them.

April 2009 meet on internet

Oct 2009 two weeks in Chongqing and were engaged, showed her ring

Dec 2009 file K1

[YGandMAT 0]

I'm sorry you and your fiance are going through such a hard time. All I can tell you is to be strong and don't give up. Perseverance is the key to success.

[Darnell 8,478]

Good Lord - that is absolutely 'blank', so straight-up 221(g). Crikey.

Sorry to say, that K-1 is 'done' for now. You know what to do, though - and you've got a plan.

IMO, the CR-1 will have more weight to it - but do plan for 2 more trips after marriage.

[daboyz 36]

Good Lord - that is absolutely 'blank', so straight-up 221(g). Crikey.

Sorry to say, that K-1 is 'done' for now. You know what to do, though - and you've got a plan.

IMO, the CR-1 will have more weight to it - but do plan for 2 more trips after marriage.

I was gonna say the same thing. Not much there. At least when I got 221g, they specified why. I fixed the issues, went in a week later and she got the visa.

[NVC FAN :( 18]

I think you need at least 3 visits 6 months apart. while there takes tons of photos with you, her and family all together at different places, beach, restaurant, hotel.

I think this is the reason. take pics of engagment rings, reciepts.

gl

i agree cut him some slack,. i would be tore up big time if i got the news he did.