False accusation of abuse towards alien husband!!

[IncorrectPolitics 26]

When I got married,which was in his country,I came home bought a house 4 months after marriage with money I had in the bank for 2 years before I married from another house I had and sold.I bought my home during marriage with thata money that was soley in my name,also house is soley in my name.I talked to a lawyer and since we have been only together for 1 and a half years,and the house was paid off,no mortgage,I payed all taxes,he paid nothing,I will keep the home,he gets nothing.Laywer says judge will see hes not from here and only has been here shortly and not a resident.All bank accounts are in my name only.He only came with the clothes on his back.I withdrew also the support for him.I have spent thousands above more thoudsands to bring him here.I payed for everything,and its not the money that I spent on him,its the betrayal and the suffering and the waiting I did for nothing,to suffer more after all I did.I trusted him so much,so so much.But what can I say,I just hope its true that what goes around comes around.God will get him not me......I will keep you informed and let you know the out come of all this.Its like a horror movie!I still cant comprehend anything.Thankyou for all you prayers and all you help...

That is just horrible and I am so sorry what you are going through. If what your lawyer says is true I am so happy he can't get your house. I would still get a second opinion because he is trying to use VAWA to get his green card. The reason I say that is I have read about VAWA cases and the women were not here for long but they still go their husbands home, car, life savings, and you name whatever else. I also brought someone here (my husband) but made him pay for everything and he had to use his cousin who is a U.S. citizen as a joint sponsor, I also stored some money with my mother. Thank god all of it was not necessary. I wish you the best of luck in the end and hope this trash gets what he deserves before it is all over.

[Darnell 8,478]

Divorces are considered routine by the court and often take a month or more to get before the judge the first time.

Yup - but any protective order is not - has immediacy, instead. Usually granted within 48 hours.

Edited July 28, 2010 by Darnell