Guys who use prostitutes

[ValerieA 350]

I believe that what my friends do in their bedrooms, is none of my business (obvious exception being if someone was being victimized by them). Prostitutes may be victims of our society, true, but I do not think that your friend is himself making victims of them. So, in your case, I would be hesitant to judge him. In Maven's case, I don't care about the prostitution, still, but he is harming his family by blowing all that money on the prostitutes. I would feel the same if he was blowing it on, well, blow. Or shady investments. He has no right to put his family at risk like that.

[Fandango 1,440]

I think that it's really none of your biz what he gets up to, and for you to be so intrusive into speculating about his STD chances, his views on relationships, etc...well it's a bit ott, innit? Point is, you only know because he confided in you...do you really know what your other friends do? Do you know if all of your single male friends practice safe sex, and have you figured out the statistical chances of them contracting something? Do you know if any of your friends like to be diapered up and powdered like a baby? No. Do you know if any of them have a penchant for being whipped or kicked in the groin? Nope. Because what goes on behind closed doors is non of anyone else's biz. We can find fault with anyone really if given all the facts, but at the end of the day, now that you know, and with such a moral high ground stance you're taking (with it being akin to child abuse, which I couldn't disagree more with btw), isn't it clear what you need to do? Or would you hang out with child molesters?

Truthfully, the guy's biggest fault, where your concerned, is treating you as a friend and telling you too much.

[Trumplestiltskin 5,791]

I think that it's really none of your biz what he gets up to, and for you to be so intrusive into speculating about his STD chances, his views on relationships, etc...well it's a bit ott, innit?

No, it's not my business what he does. But I don't have to agree with it though.

Point is, you only know because he confided in you...do you really know what your other friends do? Do you know if all of your single male friends practice safe sex, and have you figured out the statistical chances of them contracting something? Do you know if any of your friends like to be diapered up and powdered like a baby? No. Do you know if any of them have a penchant for being whipped or kicked in the groin? Nope. Because what goes on behind closed doors is non of anyone else's biz. We can find fault with anyone really if given all the facts, but at the end of the day, now that you know, and with such a moral high ground stance you're taking (with it being akin to child abuse, which I couldn't disagree more with btw), isn't it clear what you need to do? Or would you hang out with child molesters?

Well - it wasn't really a "confidence", he was quite open about it. And he's been doing it for so long now that he doesn't see the point in being shy about it. Certain other things make sense now that I know this - I think he is misogynist.

Truthfully, the guy's biggest fault, where your concerned, is treating you as a friend and telling you too much.

I think most people will draw a line in the sand, at some point.

[ValerieA 350]

Do you know if any of your friends like to be diapered up and powdered like a baby?

This is now going to go through my head every time I see one of my friends. Thank you so much, HB.

[Trumplestiltskin 5,791]

I think if you feel like this then you should ditch him. He wasn't in your life the entire time you lived in the US so it's not like you're close or anything.

Yeah that's about the shape of it.

[Fandango 1,440]

Well, here's your line, so where's the confusion?

This is now going to go through my head every time I see one of my friends. Thank you so much, HB.

LOL yw

[Ban Hammer 13,491]

This is now going to go through my head every time I see one of my friends. Thank you so much, HB.

personally, i like to be tied up and have nessa

feed me pizza

[KaiserD 12]

personally, i like to be tied up and have nessa

feed me pizza

Is that so you don't have to do the dishes lol

[ValerieA 350]

personally, i like to be tied up and have nessa

feed me pizza

But what kind of pizza?

[Nina~ 431]

Yeah that's about the shape of it.

And also keep in mind, you are judged by the company you keep. If you have a high profile public job, then it is best if you cut him out of your life.

[Ban Hammer 13,491]

But what kind of pizza?

pepperoni, jalapenas, and pineapple slices

[Trumplestiltskin 5,791]

And also keep in mind, you are judged by the company you keep. If you have a high profile public job, then it is best if you cut him out of your life.

I'll put it this way - something clicked when he exploited a loophole in UK bankruptcy law several years ago - to steal about 40,000 pounds in loans and credit card balances and funnel it to a Swiss account. He told the story very well. He told this prostitute story very well too.

Edited July 22, 2010 by Its a MADHOUSE

[ValerieA 350]

pepperoni, jalapenas, and pineapple slices

That's just sick.

[Fandango 1,440]

I'll put it this way - something clicked when he exploited a loophole in UK bankruptcy law several years ago - to steal about 40,000 pounds in loans and credit card balances and funnel it to a Swiss account. He told the story very well. He told this prostitute story very well too.

I'm quite shocked you stayed friends with him after that.

[Ban Hammer 13,491]

That's just sick.

why do you hate hot food?