Guys who use prostitutes

[^_^ 5,021]

Abraham didn't invent sex, you know.

[thongd4me 69]

Is marriage simply a financial transaction for you now? If so, well, no, getting married is never a good deal if all you want is sex out of it.

Do you only know how to twist everything that people say?

You sashayed right past my obviously hypothetical statement and made an incorrect assumption.

I never said anything about just wanting sex in marriage - how could you read that?

A marriage that ends in divorce is a relationship where there is no love.

A prostitute/client relationship is a relationship where there is no love.

If you want to compare the two, that is what I was talking about

until you decided I was talking about something else.

When I met my current wife, we went for a long long time without even discussing the subject of sex.

I made sure of that because I believed I had made a mistake by having sex with my ex wife too soon

in that relationship. I wanted to learn from that and not make the same mistake.

The word "sex" was never mentioned in my post - take your mind out of the gutter!

[^_^ 5,021]

How do you not think about sex when the topic is prostitution? What do you think guys do when they hang out with prostitutes in the Red Roof Inn? Play Battleship?

[thongd4me 69]

This seems to make the assumption that marriage is only about regular sex, without any of the other benefits that accrue to it that do not to a prostitute/john transaction.

Do you only know how to twist everything that people say?

You sashayed right past my obviously hypothetical statement and made an incorrect assumption.

I never said anything about just wanting sex in marriage - how could you read that?

A marriage that ends in divorce is a relationship where there is no love.

A prostitute/client relationship is a relationship where there is no love.

If you want to compare the two, that is what I was talking about

until you decided I was talking about something else.

When I met my current wife, we went for a long long time without even discussing the subject of sex.

I made sure of that because I believed I had made a mistake by having sex with my ex wife too soon

in that relationship. I wanted to learn from that and not make the same mistake.

[Ban Hammer 13,334]

The word "sex" was never mentioned in my post - take your mind out of the gutter!

yeah, mc!

[Captain Oates 911]

My good friends who are Christians are indeed less likely to do it. If that offends you, oh well. I didn't actually say all Christians, if you read my post again it was about MY good friends. I would not become good friends with someone, Christian or not, who thought it was no big deal for them to visit a prostitute.

You have almost slid out of it but but it's still double-speak.

The fact that YOU brought religion into the discussion is true and a matter of record

I was born into a religious community as were most in the west. That fact that I thought about morals and ethics and truth and amended my beliefs accordingly is evidence that I am less likely to just go with prostitute than someone who has given lip service to their parent's beliefs and never discovered their OWN moral compass

Just for the record, I have never gone with a prostitute and never would though I have been approached by many.

Edited July 23, 2010 by saywhat

[elmcitymaven 9,712]

Do you only know how to twist everything that people say?

Cleo, we're clearly interchangeable as women, since we got the same reply.

[Trumplestiltskin 5,791]

Just for the record, I have never gone with a prostitute and never would though I have been approached by many.

Beautiful. Were these actually "working girls" or simply "most women" you happen to have come into contact with and written off as whores?

[elmcitymaven 9,712]

A marriage that ends in divorce is a relationship where there is no love.

I would argue with this. I have been divorced once; I am currently separated from my second husband. In both cases, there is still a lot of love there. My husband and I love each other very much, and would love nothing more than to have been able to work out our differences, but we have not been able to. It's heartbreaking, really, because we really do still love each other even if we are no longer in love.

[Nina~ 431]

The word "sex" was never mentioned in my post - take your mind out of the gutter!

Right, because people go to hookers for a little cuddle

[chri'stina 190]

You have almost slid out of it but but it's still double-speak.

The fact that YOU brought religion into the discussion is true and a matter of record

I was born into a religious community as were most in the west. That fact that I thought about morals and ethics and truth and amended my beliefs accordingly is evidence that I am less likely to just go with prostitute than someone who has given lip service to their parent's beliefs and never discoverer their OWN moral compass

Just for the record, I have never gone with a prostitute and never would though I have been approached by many.

That's quite the statement. You are just judging all Christians the same. Pointless to keep this discussion going.

[Trumplestiltskin 5,791]

How can anyone be "less likely" to go with a prostitute when they think that "most women" are whores?

Isn't that a contradiction in terms?

[Peikko 1,575]

Do you only know how to twist everything that people say?

You sashayed right past my obviously hypothetical statement and made an incorrect assumption.

I never said anything about just wanting sex in marriage - how could you read that?

A marriage that ends in divorce is a relationship where there is no love.

A prostitute/client relationship is a relationship where there is no love.

If you want to compare the two, that is what I was talking about

until you decided I was talking about something else.

When I met my current wife, we went for a long long time without even discussing the subject of sex.

I made sure of that because I believed I had made a mistake by having sex with my ex wife too soon

in that relationship. I wanted to learn from that and not make the same mistake.

The word "sex" was never mentioned in my post - take your mind out of the gutter!

Some people have debated regarding which is more cost-effective,

prostitution or a marriage that ends in divorce - it's probably the former.

If I had the choice (with 20-20 hindsight) of going that route or having

married my now ex-wife, prostitution now seems a little more attractive.

You are suggesting that there is something equivalent about the two contracts. I am asking you if you really believe that. You now think I am being objectionable by asking that question?

Now you have clarified that in your opinion an marriage that ends in a loveless divorce is equivalent to a contract with a prostitute - well only if you married your ex wife on the understanding that she gave you regular sex in exchange for board and lodging. That's not a marriage that most people would recognize - except perhaps saywhat. My question might be objectionable, but it is in point of fact a valid one.

I'm not sure how one can have a discussion about this topic without discussing sex. Oh well.

[Captain Oates 911]

Beautiful. Were these actually "working girls" or simply "most women" you happen to have come into contact with and written off as whores?

any point you might be capable of making is thrown away by your hyperbole.

I think this post of yours is the first time that the word 'whores' has been used. Actually I am certain it is.

Please try and make your points without misquoting as you lose credibility

You know I think that many or even most women have a financial angle as evidenced by them expecting men to buy them drinks

Good luck trying to deny that happens

If it's a social convention, isn't it time to drop it in this age of equality ?

eh ?

[Peikko 1,575]

Oh, and a little hint for you if it is the case, not all women hang out in bars - particularly when they mature - say women over 30

Not that all younger women hang out in bars either - lots of women don't, period.