Does anyone know any online dating sites where you can meet Americans looking for a wife in the Philippines.

[Tahoma 2,292]

In all of the attacks lies a stupid premise: that "love" is some concept that prohibits marrying to improve your life.

1st...OP asks for some online dating referrals.

2nd...Some reply with judgemental and condemning accusations.

3rd...OP humbly and graciously responds by clarifying her intent.

4th...Accusers prey on OP's act of humility by blaming the OP for their lack of understanding stating that it's the OP's fault they made false accusations because they misunderstood.

[rlogan 2,036]

I did not accuse you of fraud or any other illegal activity, did I? I'm just saying you should take it into consideration. I understand that you, your best friend and your sister are close, but you do not share the same mind or subconscious as they do, which is to say, I hope their intentions are pure, as much as yours are.

I applaud you for being with the person who truly loves you, don't get me wrong. I mean, isn't that the reason why most of us are here, climbing our way past over the mountain of bureaucracy and swimming through red tape, just to be the one we love and who loves us back?

Just... next time choose your words and intent wisely, it may lessen misunderstanding.

And I in turn applaud this marvel of dripping, rancid condescension.

[Prawninator 138]

And I in turn applaud this marvel of dripping, rancid condescension.

I'm just saying that the OP just had a poor choice of words is all, which led to MY misunderstanding.

[Pinay Wife 47]

Just... next time choose your words and intent wisely, it may lessen misunderstanding.

I'm just saying that the OP just had a poor choice of words is all, which led to MY misunderstanding.

English is a second language to the OP. Sometimes, linguistic semantics get lost in translation.

Edited August 6, 2010 by Pinay Wife

[Prawninator 138]

I figured, and I apologise. Again, I did not mean to be condescending.

[rlogan 2,036]

I figured, and I apologise. Again, I did not mean to be condescending.

This has been a relentless campaign to dodge what the condescention is all about:

I hope their intentions are pure

Your promotion of "purity" is pure, unadulterated horse manure - not to mention hypocritical.

There was no poor choice of words. It has nothing to do with English as a second language.

We have legal and social sanctions against fraud, abuse, lies, deception, failure to fulfill promises and other matters that center generally on the immorality of causing harm to others.

So now, P & K I want to ask this in the most direct way possible, and don't dodge it again:

Beyond this (harm to others) who are you to judge other people's marriages or relationships. Come on buddy - stop pretending this is about the OP choosing words poorly and tell us whether you have the right to pass judgement on other people's relationships.

Do you or don't you? If you do, then tell us what this stems from: The law? Your education?

[Pinay Wife 47]

rlogan, please drop it. P&K has already apologized.

Pinay Wife

VJ Mod Team

[Prawninator 138]

Would you stop trolling me, rlogan? I said it was MY misunderstanding. I did not MEAN to be condescending, and if I came across as so, I apologise again, as I already have.

[sachinky 465]

Ah, this reminds me why I stopped venturing into the PI sub-forum.

[tallcoolone 102]

Ah, this reminds me why I stopped venturing into the PI sub-forum.

Why would anyone who isn't Philippine or has a spouse from PI even venture into this forum

God you must live a boring life........

Edited August 6, 2010 by tallcoolone

[~happyndinlove~ 540]

Ah, this reminds me why I stopped venturing into the PI sub-forum.

How can you say "stopped" when you were obviously here just now?

[marklovetina 52]

Ah, this reminds me why I stopped venturing into the PI sub-forum.

people the OP has no bad intention on her post... for others let's not be judgemental coz the reality... lots of people today do online searching for partners.. accept it or not... if that's the way they found happiness and a good life then good for them... for the misfortunate then let it be a lesson for others and think a million times before they do it, also lots of scammers online... maybe the OP is experiencing now a better life and she is very happy with her found love that's the reason she wants her sister and friends to try also online dating sites.... there's no problem with that... besides not all people who are online get this luck.... if its God's will then harangin mo man yan ng sibat darating at darating yan sa knila... kahit di pa nila i-try mag-online :P

dami online dating site... merong cherry blossom, merong asianeuro, me filipinaheart, me find love asia... me military dating sites... etc..etc..etc...

wag pansinin ang sabihin ng iba... kung san ka sasaya at sa tingin mo don gaganda ang buhay mo dumuon ka... :innocent:

Edited August 6, 2010 by godsgift

[tallcoolone 102]

Ah, this reminds me why I stopped venturing into the PI sub-forum.

Here A Song, Listen to it

The theme of the song is "If you don't like what you just heard, Get the ** Out, Get the ** Out"

[marklovetina 52]

[sachinky 465]

I usually just click on 'interesting' topics on 'New Content' -- it's not as if I actively troll the PI forums. Not that I would.

VJ for me, is a form of entertainment. The OT and RUB forums are quite fascinating, as well.

Edited August 7, 2010 by sachinky