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[Tommy Tran 0]

Hi Guys,

I read a post on this forum some time ago. Not sure who post an attachment of general checklist that CO had at the interview that they look for. I can't seem to find that post or that attachment. Will you be kind and let me know where I can get it.

for example. one of the thing that's on the checklist is "nervous" etc..

Thanks

~Q.T.

[ScottThuy 140]

Hi Guys,

I read a post on this forum some time ago. Not sure who post an attachment of general checklist that CO had at the interview that they look for. I can't seem to find that post or that attachment. Will you be kind and let me know where I can get it.

for example. one of the thing that's on the checklist is "nervous" etc..

Thanks

~Q.T.

I think This is what you are looking for...

[lambchop4life 6]

Hi Guys,

I read a post on this forum some time ago. Not sure who post an attachment of general checklist that CO had at the interview that they look for. I can't seem to find that post or that attachment. Will you be kind and let me know where I can get it.

for example. one of the thing that's on the checklist is "nervous" etc..

Thanks

~Q.T.

you're probably talking about Scott stuff, it was more uscis than consulate.

[Tommy Tran 0]

Thank you much Scott

I have no idea how you do it, but you always so prompt and efficiency... Always come to my rescue countless time unconditionally.

Mine fiance interview is in 5 days and I'm just nervous as each days go by... Trying to think if there's anything needed or not needed to be done... Since it's HCM consulate and I heard lot's of thing about HCM.. I'm so worried and stress out.

I just realize that I've sent her mountain of supported paperwork and evidence and none of them were motorized. Not even the time-line, Not sure if there's any potential flag for delay, but I'm really stress out b/c I praying for pink the first and only time...

One other thing is the length of time we know each other in our time line is a little weak... We literally engage a month after we met.

Unlike most people in VJ who'd been back many time or knew each other for many years... Our journey on Fate is a little bit different.

Any suggestion?

Should there be any specific document that NEEDED notarized?

Thousand Thanks

~Q.T.

[ScottThuy 140]

she needs to be comfortable, confident and prepared... tell her not to worry about the interview because it is only one step in the journey... let her know now that you may get a blue slip and it is just part of the process. not the end of the world.. she needs to be familiar with everything that has been submitted as well as every document she takes with her....

The window they talk through can make it difficult to hear correctly what has been said.. so she needs to ask them to repeat if she cant hear or is not clear on what is asked... tell her to look at it like she is meeting someone and interviewing for a job that she is well suited for... confidence is clearly visible to the CO... tell her not to take what the CO says or asks personal.. think of it professionaly like a business transaction...

The length of time can be offset by the familiarity she has with information about you and your life... when she prepares for the topics in those quetions... dont have her memorize answers... she needs to learn about you not learn a list of facts.. the questions may be asked in a different way so knowing you is the best way to go...

[lambchop4life 6]

Thank you much Scott

I have no idea how you do it, but you always so prompt and efficiency... Always come to my rescue countless time unconditionally.

Mine fiance interview is in 5 days and I'm just nervous as each days go by... Trying to think if there's anything needed or not needed to be done... Since it's HCM consulate and I heard lot's of thing about HCM.. I'm so worried and stress out.

I just realize that I've sent her mountain of supported paperwork and evidence and none of them were motorized. Not even the time-line, Not sure if there's any potential flag for delay, but I'm really stress out b/c I praying for pink the first and only time...

One other thing is the length of time we know each other in our time line is a little weak... We literally engage a month after we met.

Unlike most people in VJ who'd been back many time or knew each other for many years... Our journey on Fate is a little bit different.

Any suggestion?

Should there be any specific document that NEEDED notarized?

Thousand Thanks

~Q.T.

May I ask why you're engage so soon? this is dangerous, why don't you take your time to learn about her attitude and personal pet peeves that piss you off.

It took me 11 months before i decided to marry my wife, and we spoke every night until 12 in the morning, and occasionally my wife and I are piss of at each other over stupid #######.

You know that saying "opposite attracts" well it don't work for humans only in science.

Don't rush into this man, be sure about her, and man that look like a tough case, I though mine was tough.

I don't know if this help

On one of the evidence the CO look at was an email of my wife, my brother and I, wearing our wedding cloths 2 month before the wedding. I was just thinking, I honestly did not even consider as evidence we did it just to get each other opinion.

I think in the CO head, "if its fake why would they prepare 2 months ahead" well my answer to that is. Only real relationship prepare for major events like this.

here some of the pictures

Edited July 2, 2010 by lambchop4life

[ScottThuy 140]

Their interview is next week... I am not clear on the dont rush into this comment... he is stressed enough already... no need to question or criticize his relationship since they are so far into the process now...

[lambchop4life 6]

Their interview is next week... I am not clear on the dont rush into this comment... he is stressed enough already... no need to question or criticize his relationship since they are so far into the process now...

scott this is beyond getting a visa man, bringing her to America will not change anything I'm saying to him. In my opinion he should have gave it more time before he decided to do this, not only because you will have more evidence and stuff plus he will get to know her better as a person.

Beside all my emo talk, wish you the best

[luckytxn 2,264]

Don't worry about the time. Just talk to her as often as possible and let her know you are there for her no matter what. She will be nervous but need to try and calm her. My babe was cool as can be and still don't know how she can be so cool always but she manages it. Confidence is about 90 percent of any successful interview anywhere. Good luck and God bless. I will say a prayer.

[luckytxn 2,264]

Wanted to add that they may try to unnerve her and prepare her for that. Don't let them do that but just stay cool.

[hniHnitsuJ 8]

Their interview is next week... I am not clear on the dont rush into this comment... he is stressed enough already... no need to question or criticize his relationship since they are so far into the process now...

scott this is beyond getting a visa man, bringing her to America will not change anything I'm saying to him. In my opinion he should have gave it more time before he decided to do this, not only because you will have more evidence and stuff plus he will get to know her better as a person.

Beside all my emo talk, wish you the best

I am totally agree with A. Scott. NO need to questions about other relationship.

Lambchop : remember how you join with VJ family about your email. We all need the support, and the help from each other.

Tommy : like other have mention. Just talk to her more, and give her more support, and confident. She will be fine.

Good luck.