Anyone With Kids Together Told Not Enough Evidence To Remove Conditions?

[Jewel-8 21]

But why do they do not believe so much in the babies because I think it is the biggest proof of a good marriege, I dont think someone will have a baby with someone that do not love or like, just to get a GC, all marries with good base will have babies.

Do you really belive this?

I'm thinking it must be lost in translation. It would be hard for me to believe anyone that wasn't completely evil could have a baby they didn't want AT ALL just to stay in one specific country. I'm sure it's happened before, but I just can't wrap my head around something like that.

If you were offended at thinking that they meant anyone with a valid marriage would have babies, that's the part I think must be lost in translation. Many of us VJers can not or will not have kids for their own private reasons. We definitely won't be able to give birth or adopt before the Removal of Conditions filing and processing unless we hit the lottery.

[brenda&Adrian 0]

I'm thinking it must be lost in translation. It would be hard for me to believe anyone that wasn't completely evil could have a baby they didn't want AT ALL just to stay in one specific country. I'm sure it's happened before, but I just can't wrap my head around something like that.

If you were offended at thinking that they meant anyone with a valid marriage would have babies, that's the part I think must be lost in translation. Many of us VJers can not or will not have kids for their own private reasons. We definitely won't be able to give birth or adopt before the Removal of Conditions filing and processing unless we hit the lottery.

oh yeah, but for example in my case I had a baby much before my husband got his resident card, when he got it we already had a baby, and i wonder why this can not be a clue that our marriage is based in love. i know that actually we can expect everything from people, and thanks to that people we the ones that are really saying the true they do not believe in our kids, and they might think that we only have babies so our spouse can get the cg, but actually people that really think will never think in do such a thing.