Extremely Confused Newlywed!!

[KG0411 0]

Ok, so can someone please give me a CLEAR, STEP-BY-STEP BREAKDOWN of what my husband and I must do in order for me to be here, in the states, legally, as a permanent resident. I've been reading so many answers and so many topics on the site and on other external site and I am more confused than ever . I am a Canadian citizen. I had entered the US multiple times without an hassle. On June 4, 2010, I was denied entry because I failed to show significant ties to Canada to prove I was returning, including a return flight. I was held for over 2 hours, had my prints taken, as well as other information. I returned back to Canada and gathered all the necessary papers I needed. I went back on June 4, 2010 and provided the papers and was allowed entry. My return is dated for October 17, 2010. I was questioned as to why I was staying for so long and provided proof that I was there for vacation as well as to visit my boyfriend, and special occasions I was invited to(weddings mainly). My boyfriend, then unexpectedly got a marriage license and we just wed last week. We were on the brink of break up, which was also a main reason I came here, to fix things and I told this to the CBP officer. What should I do? As far as I know right now, I can apply for the AOS along with the I-130, or just go with the CR-1 visa route. According to my situation, is it safe to apply for the AOS? If not and I take the CR-1 route, can we send in the forms now and come October 17, 2010, I must leave? Would I be able to come back to visit for just a couple days? For example, for Christmas or New Years? Or, must I wait out until the process is done, and not see my husband until then? Thanks for any help!!!! I just need to know exactly what to do based on my situation so we can start them immediately!

[trailmix 77]

I answered in your other post, you only need to post once, VJ isn't that big

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/262064-extremely-confused-newlywed/