Would you go back ?

[Captain Oates 911]

A lot of folks on VJ are here because it's family immigration

A lot of folks do not have a big or any social life outside their family

A lot of people get homesick or whatever and for many reasons, they think about going back

Most don't.

However, if your spouse left you or died, would you feel too alone and go back ?

I would stay for a year first and then re assess

Edited June 17, 2010 by saywhat

[Ban Hammer 13,340]

what if i'm from the usa?

[Usui Takumi 1,562]

A lot of folks on VJ are here because it's family immigration

A lot of folks do not have a big or any social life outside their family

A lot of people get homesick or whatever and for many reasons, they think about going back

Most don't.

However, if your spouse left you or died, would you feel too alone and go back ?

I would stay for a year first and then re assess

I'd leave the planet.

[Captain Oates 911]

what if i'm from the usa?

Clarification ! you have to be the ferrigner to reply - unless you know what they would say and you are sure they ain't lying

[ValerieA 350]

This is going to sound bad, and I'll probably get jumped on by a number of people, but I would stay here until I had my citizenship and then assess. Likely would end up going back to Canada, but I like to have choices.

[SMOKE 1,426]

Clarification ! you have to be the ferrigner to reply - unless you know what they would say and you are sure they ain't lying

she'd stay. she has a sister here that lives about 6 miles from us.

[Fandango 1,439]

Interesting thread!

[Trompe le Monde 1,107]

My husband would go back (only if I died, I will not leave him) but he would miss the USA

[Captain Oates 911]

This is going to sound bad, and I'll probably get jumped on by a number of people, but I would stay here until I had my citizenship and then assess. Likely would end up going back to Canada, but I like to have choices.

I saw a survey result that says anyone who has gone through GC is very reluctant to throw it all way. If I was years from USC I would probably go back, but within 18 months ? Probably not as it gives one options at least.

[Captain Oates 911]

I saw a survey result that says anyone who has gone through GC is very reluctant to throw it all way. If I was years from USC I would probably go back, but within 18 months ? Probably not as it gives one options at least.

PS If I was already USC I would still give it 12 months. If I decided to go back after 9 months I would visit the UK and buy a house at my leisure and have it ready for my return at the end of the 12 months.

I retired at 54 so I wouldn't need to think jobs - I have no family here. I have a daughter in the UK and a son in Tenerife. I make friends (and enemies) easily and I like boats and target shooting - so I could probably work up a social life in Florida - so a return would not be automatic. One day I would have to pay Medicare but its $6.5k pa which me and BP can handle ok

[Gary and Alla 3,694]

A lot of folks on VJ are here because it's family immigration

A lot of folks do not have a big or any social life outside their family

A lot of people get homesick or whatever and for many reasons, they think about going back

Most don't.

However, if your spouse left you or died, would you feel too alone and go back ?

I would stay for a year first and then re assess

I would go back and get another Ukrainian woman.

This is going to sound bad, and I'll probably get jumped on by a number of people, but I would stay here until I had my citizenship and then assess. Likely would end up going back to Canada, but I like to have choices.

Predictable.

[Trompe le Monde 1,107]

I would go back and get another Ukrainian woman.

Predictable.

Oh pray tell - what is "predictable" about it?

[Captain Oates 911]

I would go back and get another Ukrainian woman.

Plenty of em and that's for sure.

Been to Odessa - but I prefer someone with a bit more meat on em and lower heels

you will know what I am saying

chuckle

[ValerieA 350]

Predictable.

???

[Heracles 417]

A lot of folks on VJ are here because it's family immigration

A lot of folks do not have a big or any social life outside their family

A lot of people get homesick or whatever and for many reasons, they think about going back

Most don't.

However, if your spouse left you or died, would you feel too alone and go back ?

I would stay for a year first and then re assess

I think most people from first world countries would go back. If you glance at the AOS forum, most in such situations that are seeking to stay, are from poorer countries. I'm not offending them though, as anyone of us in their position would do the same.

I would go back and get another Ukrainian woman.

Edited June 17, 2010 by Booyah!