UPDATE on Casa Interview

[Crossed_fingers 128]

I'm glad you got that email out, hopefully it will help your case and if nothing else it is beneficial to DO something and it will serve you well as a reminder of the sore spots if you have to continue to fight this. I hope you get in touch with them soon. Sorry, I don't have any information on sending back the I-129F evidence, maybe someone else can help you with that... If you don't mind me asking, did Hicham have any other thoughts on what troubled the consulate?

[Always+Forever 7]

The only reason they gave him was him calling me his lasting love too early...which i think was just a soft way of trying to get him to respond & prove them wrong...its not a strong enough excuse by no means. One thing I've learned from getting more details from Hicham...they were light on his refusal...i believe they wanted him to just step up and prove them wrong. Hicham thought that if they said no, then there is no way to change their minds...he knows now that is wrong, but I think all of u with up coming interviews need to be sure to prepare your SO for the chance of denial also...have them ask why...when they tell u, explain why their reason is wrong & then ask if there is any other reason why, etc. Don't stop trying to prove your case until they change their mind or kick u out...LOL Talking & expressing true facts can't hurt you...let them know your true case...don't give in to them & just say you will just move on to the next step...they WANT you to stand up and fight (not physically) for your relationship. Ok...i'm done with my rant...lol I just don't want anyone else to have the same thing happen to them. I regret not preparing better for a possible denial...we were too sure when they called & said bring your passport...NEVER be sure of anything...hope for the best, but ALWAYS plan for the worst!!!! Best of luck to everybody!!

Monica

[Need2know 0]

Thats what i figured to...they are testing us....and that's fine with us...test away...they can't break us Absence makes the heart grow stronger...I always said if we can make it through ALL of this...we can make it through anything!!!

Monica

I love this quote....I hope everything works out for you two!!!

[tnh9479 1]

I see things in Casablanca have not changed a lot in 5 years. It's not surprising due to what I have seen over time.

I was reading your interview synopsis and basically agree with what others posted previously. It really does seem they think you are being paid by the family to marry him for immigration reasons. They see you on a Muslim dating site, but you are not Muslim or reverted. You gave up your work position for a period of time to go there and you have a child to support. He has a brother in the States who could have arranged this. I am not saying I believe this, but it really seems to be what they were hinting at.

Anyway, I hope you get through!

[Always+Forever 7]

I see things in Casablanca have not changed a lot in 5 years. It's not surprising due to what I have seen over time.

I was reading your interview synopsis and basically agree with what others posted previously. It really does seem they think you are being paid by the family to marry him for immigration reasons. They see you on a Muslim dating site, but you are not Muslim or reverted. You gave up your work position for a period of time to go there and you have a child to support. He has a brother in the States who could have arranged this. I am not saying I believe this, but it really seems to be what they were hinting at.

Anyway, I hope you get through!

Yeah...i can see how they may see that also...but like u said...doesn't mean its true. I've paid my way every time I've gone & covered my part in things for me & my daughter...so definitely not being paid off for immigration reasons lol Guess we will just keep fighting & try to prove them wrong...about all we can do.

Monica