Ouch!

[Mandi+Ryan 1]

"I hate you!" Anyone ever heard THAT from your SO? He said he hates me.

[MrMrsKnight 0]

Check PM Mandi

[aussiewench 9]

Oh gosh Mandi *hugs*

[munchkins 0]

Mandi, this process is so stressful for everyone and sometimes things are said in the heat of the moment, give him a short while to calm down and then try to talk to him again, just don't loose your temper, don't know the reason why he said that to you and I know how it will hurt but whatever the outcome I hope it will be alright

[Mandi+Ryan 1]

I'm just going to go to bed, and hope that tomorrow takes forever to get here. As for the rest of you. Don't forget to tell your SO how much you love them. Don't have an argument and let the bad things that were said go unnoticed. You need to apologize before going to sleep, work, etc. Don't let a stupid argument turn into something you will regret for the REST of you life.

[snz1802 0]

*hugs* Mandi, things are said in the heat of the moment that are not meant, although this does not make it right, he should not have said this to you. Let things cool down a bit and then try talking it out, I bet things will turn out just fine, and then ask him to please not talk to you in this manner any longer, it hurts you and is very disrespectful. I had this same problem with my SO once, he said things sometimes he didn't mean, just out of frustration and in the heat of the moment, we talked it out and it hasn't happened since then. Good Luck to you, and *hugs* again, I know how much it can hurt.

~Stacey

[Anyta Holland 1]

I;m sure he didn't really mean it... He was probably really angry and it's one of those people that speak before thinking... Don't let it get to you, and speak to him when you are both calmed down...

[babybunny 2]

oh no....

"I hate you!" Anyone ever heard THAT from your SO? He said he hates me.

bingo never said that to me..

when he gets disturbed he always sayes " shonnie get some rest - I dont think your feeling well"

he sayes that when ever I get pizzzed about something. normally its this process..

[gwenneh 7]

Oh, Mandi....

[seldi 1]

Sometimes we say things we don't mean when we're stressed/upset/whatever. I know I'm like that. Sometimes I say some pretty stupid things. When I was little, I always said "I hate you, I hope you die", those sort of things. I kind of grew up this way and never really thought it was a big deal because I didn't mean it, I was just upset. I never thought it would be a problem until one time. I got pretty mad at a sorority sister because of X reason, and I told her "I hate you, I hope you die". I might have been alittle drunk mind you, so I wasn't really thinking straight. Boy did I get in trouble for telling a sister I hated her and wanted to die ... It didn't seem like a big deal to me, but I guess others didn't take it lightly.

[Aymerlu 3]

[Lizzy 0]

No, steves never said that to me. Hugs to you, get some sleep and talk to him in the morning.

[irishgirl73 0]

I don't want to admit this but I said it once I was really upset and it just came out..............I didn't even know where it came from. This process is so freaking stressfull and can make anyone snap from time to time.

Give him some time to cool off

Edited August 8, 2006 by irishgirl73

[Veiled Princess 1]

oh no....

"I hate you!" Anyone ever heard THAT from your SO? He said he hates me.

bingo never said that to me..

when he gets disturbed he always sayes " shonnie get some rest - I dont think your feeling well"

he sayes that when ever I get pizzzed about something. normally its this process..

That's almost exactly what Yousuf says to me "You're tired love... get some rest"

If Yousuf ever said he hated me my heart would break

[JenT 0]

I could not even FATHOM it.... sorry Mandi.